NoSelfSelf

Good one,communication is so vital...i personally struggle to small talk and connect with someone cuz of communication...

If you are truly self actualized you know you are not better than anyone else and you can accept flaws of another person and you will not need one(relationship) but if you want it to be succesful it takes alot of stuff to come together i think its best when 2 enligtened beings come together...so its yes and no

Its not just your self esteem its whole web of beliefs aka projections of your mind that distorts the reality of you being akward with "hot" girls how come its not the case with "ugly" girls?

I found this interview today and its a great example of materialist paradigm guy on the left is not even letting the other guy explain himself(pushing his ideas as truth) and he is so stuck that it was painful to watch,watch till the end

Conteplation is a tool for getting the truth there is a saying for enligtment the one who starts contemplation will be ended by contenplation and for other truths contemplation is useful so you dont aceppt anything on blind fate(you will know its true when it comes from concept to direct experience)cool game i sometimes like to play is like i just arrived on earth and i dont know anything about anything and im queastioning myself whats that what is this thing and almost always what i really think it is its just an assumption about that thing..

@Psyche_92 There you go you are on a final "step" you just realized you cant find yourself that means you dont exist tha da !

No love for Europe

Ranks and points are distraction you can use your own critical thinking to see if advice is for you or not and not follow it blindly

Sport

Maybe you are big picture learner first go threw the book examine it (if you know spead reading it even better) then when you know the skeleton you can learn the bones(detailes) in last leos video he said if you want to know something you should learn all the association words around the word you need to know(that makes perfect sense and that is why i sucked at learning because you should know all previous informations about that word to truly understand it) and thats why many people hate learning because they start to learn late when subject is developed(especially in math) and they try to catch up by learning something but they dont have fundation from previous lectures...

Thank you some interesting points

Today i revisited video about neurosis (40 examples that you are neurotic) i recommend you to watch it again if you are on path of self realization it helped me to accept what actually is in profound way but one thing still confuses me paradox of self improvment is to aceppt what is but still work on yourself in authentic way towards self actualization Leo didnt mention what he meant by that(authentic).This Paradox is so tricky and contradictory it would be nice if @Leo Gura clear this one or someone who figured it out tnx...

@Ilya because thats what self actualization work is

Can you mention 5 new key (less or more) points about the book so i can see if i should put it on top of my to read list...tnx

To find your authentic personality you should ask yourself what gives you energy being around people or alone(extrovert or introvert)how do you take in information threw senses or intuition you like practical action steps or how will things play out (psychology around it) you have 3 more parts but i need to finish the book im reading this should also help https://www.16personalities.com/free-personality-test

@sgn You the one who whatch them

Who am i? Most important queastion to ask

Interesting you are so lucky to have those friends dont take them for granted(if you can) i also find that reasearching is something i enjoy...you still feel that awful feeling you get when you go outside and think to yourself dont belonge here or it fades away with time?

@Sahil Pandit Tnx for longer reply...im doing and feeling what you are saying because it feels right i took the course but i have struggle to fix on one thing cuz it doesnt have strong of enough purpose or i dont want to master it...(i only found that in sport)...

@sleeperstakes Thats good imo if you push eachother to be better...

There is only nothing here

There is alot of things here you mentioned...i try to understand myself and reality as much as possible and when you understand what is going on you cope with it easier and its really interesting and fun to obesrve it then...

We have 2 choices either we go along with the train of thoughts or we dont everything else is just a play of the mind and the universe(God)...

You promised to make this episode long time ago it would be funny to see it after so profound episodes like strange loop,no mind

2 mistakes i see (but i understand you completely) 1.You never give up on anything or let her change you,she will love you more when she sees you on your path and that she is not your path(making her number 1 will always end up bad) 2.You are her boyfriend not her therapist you are not there to help her or to fix her you are there to give her fun and to be someone to talk to (in rare cases she will ask you for help ) Good luck ...