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@tsuki ok can you give me fundamentals and principles of engineering so you can lay it out for me (i know nothing about engineering)?

@tsuki can you give me an example on something you are good at (or master of)?

@Cosmo Well you will still be miserable if you are miserable alone ,girl is to share happiness with not wanting her to give you happiness...

@Cosmo So thats the problem(one of),you havent found a girl you really want to be with so it seems that its not worth it...imagine your favourite tv show you want to watch next episode you want to know all about it..its the same

Do you go out with people you are truly excited to spent time with them?

@AlphaAbundance you find your reasons to do things,but i get what you are saying..

Why not be happy and do all those cool stuff...normaly we attach happiness to things,people etc. Thats not so wise paradigm...do it for other reasons

@kindayellow you need a purpose thats male energy if you dont have it you wont be attractive in a long run...and those activities is not a lifestyle you want as an end resault

I forgot to say its not about faking that you are busy but actually create the life you really love and a girl is just an add on if you dont create life you really enjoy you will be needy and ruin attraction etc..

Find a list of top 5 activities you enjoy the most and do them...

@Paul92 I dont know its more complex than that we are not ready for enlightened community yet...its all ok let yourself heal just be mindful to not go in big lenghts...like you said its all thought(attachment) thats why with enlightement you can enjoy as much as you did and when it ends you wont be affected as much and be glad for experience that happened...

@Paul92 i told you there is no conflict in relationships knowing nobody exists..you can engage in relationships and enjoy it however you want...you are like an actor who knows its a play but says its a play i wont play it because its not real...and real not real is the same thing...ejlightement enriches everything it doesnt make it not colorful it makes it more colorful...you dont need to reject anything if you dont want to...i get it we are the one etc etc but thats just the foundation nothing else....infinite playground of creativity play enjoyment and other things...

@Paul92 cant you see that you get the answer and you stay on the sam conclusion not wanting to see or change pov(thats dogmatic) no growth can happen if you are dogmatic...so we are just spinning in circles

@Paul92 you are dogmatic as f im done

@Paul92 with that queastion you are exposing your selfish nature,you said you were there to give thats not the case...

@Paul92 thats irony...thinking you are seperate and trying to get yourself complete with another is more cruel than knowing you are all complete and just sharing authentic joy... Edit:you are putting cart before the horse its a trap..

@Paul92 No you are looking it wrong everything is there to enjoy its not in the conflict of existing or not...cliche example is enjoying a great movie but you know its not real...

@Paul92 Thats true but then dont ask people on the forum queastions because you are asking yourself

@Paul92 so what if shes not real thats your mind thinking its a bad thing...expression of her presence and 2 people together sharing joy thats enough...

@Paul92 If you enjoy relationships now while you are awake it will be much much better

@Leo Gura Do you mybe know how to treat organs full of mercury etc?

Great to know tnx! Adhd sucks balls and drain your energy quickly!

@Key Elements whats that last thing?

1.Social/Dating 2.Self expression-authenticity 3.Understanding how things work 4.Fitness/competition/self defense 5.Pushing comfort zone,experimenting 6.Getting better at skills for your vision of life 7.Creating lifestyle,place to live etc. 8.Emotional mastery 9.Habits 10.Psychic powers,energy work,shamanism etc

They are just holding you back surround yourself with like minded people...