NoSelfSelf

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  1. @Butters Then you are not an asshole that women love but hate they love ,you are good guy that uses asshole traits to make things go smoother...
  2. Asshole is someone who doesnt care about a woman ,only if she does something that he likes, so he will automatically reject her misbehaviour and everything he doesnt like,since its not serving him,meanwhile adding value from everything that he is,he doesnt need her,that's why you cant be an asshole you care about a woman,want for her to like you,worshiping her looks and all other bs so you will act in all ways unattractive...
  3. Problem with all this is you making game about women, you are listening to the people who dont know anything about how it works, they put high value for a woman,become alfa for a woman,be this for a woman etc. While game puts everything on a man you were reading wrong literature,i was stuck in all that bs for years until i found real game and let me tell you, its transforming me from the inside in a ways i cant explain and i havent even started 😁 That's why i was attacking everyone but oh well see it for yourself 🤷‍♂️ You can win in a game but ofcourse you are making game about external resaults,validation which is fucking up your mind which is working againts you because you dont have game...
  4. @Spiritual Warrior Yeah next time add why you want you two together there, set up the mood so she in her mind can set an expectation, with fun details or best add the voice message after text, or a video of a place of party to make her wonder what could be, anything to be different(show you are creative)... Its on you based on your personality style to create it, im just giving the ideas...
  5. Tell me what did you write in text tho? Now i see your text, you need to entice her why to come, paint a picture of how its going to be between you two not some party where she doesnt know anyone...she read that and felt boredom... What you could not be understanding about the game is that you should be the same in the person and over text,over telephone or over fax,mail etc. if you are different over text than in person its a insta turn off game over...you were funny in real life be same over text but not in a way that only you understand the joke...(so she feels and remember you in the same way you made it work like you said in real life,or you could be only one that noticed "chemistry")..
  6. Yes that's complete basics,interesting thing is that if you dont mix the other with thoughts of yourself,you wont be getting any emotion at all,emotion happens when mind mixes other with you and if emotion arises from subconsious it becomes (an)other and if its not mixed with your own original thoughts of yourself, you wont be getting: " i feel bad that means im bad " indentifying with them you could ground yourself so much in yourself that you get glimpse of enlightment thats why its called being centered,centered in who you are with no mix of other... At that point you can create emotions for yourself,you even have emotional connection to yourself where every emotion is there to love and worship you and not the other,then and only then you can truly love the other...
  7. Great you dont want to have an emotional guy in your corner, he will find a way to bring you down...
  8. Report button is broken since the crash,not recovering for the second day...
  9. When you were talking about yourself in beggining with "normal chat" you were presenting yourself in some type of way that is opposite of a person that would ask "do you watch porn"? because of that it caught her off guard,if you showed that you are a sexual guy by how you talk and move in beggining then it wouldnt be a problem, but if she doesnt like sexual topics then thats that,but im 100% sure you dont even know why you asked that queastion...
  10. @Princess Arabia I could sense you are curious about the things you were asking about, really wanted to listen take in the information.I enjoy being challenged and opposed from my stances as far it goes in the direction we both learn something.Even though you are giving resistence there is deeper reason for it, while guys on here gives resistence just to not listen to the information but just keep on either blame women or pity themselves. But okay for me to be more alligned with game ill just share my viewpoint not caring about anyone personaly until im asked a queastion that will lead to a productive/stimulating discussion, till next time ?... @Something Funny Because it unlocks your mind, how enlightment gets rid of the mind the same way game unlocks it, so you are not a mess where mind is working againts you but for you.Now your mind is telling all the things you cant do and how,who you are based on past experiences,you just want it to get out of your way right? while game gives you power to work for you and you being in position to define yourself,work with you and much much more... @Leo Gura ?
  11. @Leo Gura Okay deal, if thats the case im just going to ignore the threads if someone gets demoralize from strangers messages then game is not for them,im passionate about this topic ?
  12. @Princess Arabia I know its all about the peoples feelings at the end of the day, but im surprised how many weak positions are claimed in this section and its a norm. Im sorry you have to deal with this in real life and all you want is to open up and get close to someone but that someone sees you only as a thing to rub on...
  13. @Shawn Philips No, cope is that you feel like your appearence has to do with how you feel about yourself, since you have no game ofcourse you would think its outside things but its all internal...
  14. @Someone here hahah game is in everything you just use word game to manipulate situations and since you dont have identity,no self worth,dont know your value you would do anything for sex ,so i dont respect you ,you would stab me in a back if you could for a woman,me being humble no you should humble yourself and realize you dont love yourself...
  15. @Someone here Yeah my style is like im a coach i shouldnt even get involved since im not the one... ultimate purpose of game is understanding yourself and standing on you as a man before giving everything for a little pleasure.. You guys dont care if you give your dignity,identity for play its horrible thats why i get personal... No its not about pussy you too shortsided and desperate for some affection...
  16. Game is no tricks or trying to get women in bed ,its literally who you are but who you are is not stimulating since you dont create anything for yourself, since you dont have any game you are writing about this stuff to distract yourself from seeing that there is nothing inside you that can create an impact. Your mind is not rooted in itself(game) its rooted in fitting into worlds and womens narrative ,just accept that you going to be like this.
  17. @Butters They are getting warning points too you just dont see it, since you decided you will keep your explicit distaseful thread in the context of this forum im locking it.
  18. Change the narrative or it will be locked...
  19. Do you want this woman and agreed to platonic meet up?
  20. @Rishabh R Self development work we do here and learning game,coaches i recommend are way to agressive you cant be sensitive i can dm you the names...
  21. Your boxing skills ???
  22. Imagine a low budget movie you rented not knowing what it is, you start watching it on free day to make your mind think about something else than studies/women, in 5 minutes you will start laughing at it turn it off and throw in a trash why? Because its poorly presented,behaviour is off ,because people acting cant present the charachter right,because they want to earn a few bucks more they are cheap by buying bad quality camera,they have no knowledge of how lighting works etc. so in the end it leaves the bad impression and it didnt stimulate your emotions to want to even finish the movie ,because you already know it will end poorly. Now switch that to dating,you dont know yourself so you cant present yourself(bad character in a movie),you are needy for sex and you wanting her to give you emotions of happiness(bad quality camera) your aura is weak(story in a movie is boring not interesting)... So women see that and automatically say to themselves: i see where this is going, you are good guy you could be like my brother,or you are creepy(because you displaying you need her that much). Solution:learning game through coach(few teach real game),knowing yourself,becoming free of need of women by you becoming the emotion(this is way deeper than just writing it here)...most important becoming a man not attaching emotions to the actions...
  23. @itsadistractionI wont even bother seems like you in early highschool or something...
  24. 5min video on how to friendzone yourself would work 100%...
  25. @aurum Yes its photoreading now i remember,you also use it ideally before bed to retain more information,i did this method while ago i was shocked it was working ,but at that time i had bad Adhd so i was jumping from one thing to another,so i havent done it for long enough to tell you if its working for bigger bits of information i was using it for not more than 10-20 pages and it was working...