NoSelfSelf

I dont know if you are serious or not ?

It think its not wise to quit it all together, i think you should gradully get rid of it because they will have a backlash, you could try to do it less and less and subtitute with other habits, that are more healthy and you enjoy doing, if you love working out or painting you do that more than your unhealthy ones...its an emotional problem that came from abuse try focusing on alot of emotional healing techniques to see how it works...

Its not even wise to get into any type of discussion with people expecially when you see how they think and behave there are exceptions but this is not the one...saying i lost a debate shows you care about stuff that aren't even important (big ego stuff)

Basic self defence is mandatory,sport is hard but fun with time,try no gi if you love more fast movements and agility if you are for more slow paced sport go gi...go humble yourself

Awesome stuff

Thanks for a warm welcome guys! now i have excuse for being here longer and not contemplating the nature of everything like a maniac haha <3

As a ex sufferer of mental illness i think i would be a good fit ...

Master your emotions through spirituality thats the way other stuff can work..key is emotion is stopping you manipulating you so thats the source detach from logic go to the emotions..

@Leo Gura i dont have a problem because i confirmed it all for myself in direct experience but i have problem with myself regarding the teachings (not just enlightement stuff ) is that i dont form my opinions my thinking then use you as a crutch because i already assume im deluding myself ?

I found that in human psyche we dont go for what we want directly you want to succea to get girls why not get girls directly ?

Compeling vision can centrely help but having that much resistence you wont last for long it should be more enjoyable or say i wont do self help for some time and see if you come back to it forcing yourself that much is counterproductive imo...mybe you dont want to change and force yourself to do it...

@Leo Gura every girl in my city would know me at that point ? @Javfly33 i think you should start small because in my experience you get an ego backlash from alot of rejections ?

Thanks now im ready to buy 3 tons of tibetian salt

We treat dating/women as something really big and important and then get down when we finally have it because its not as advertised ? its just one aspect of life an add on to life not a big part of life...

Being a nice person is being nice for the sake of getting something in return..real nice people is who has the dark side and can use it but choose not to they can be ruthless but use it only for the greater good or good of others(doing the right thing) and sometimes doing the right thing is being selfish

I play it its a monster of a game it can be so complex

Do anyone has any tips of the fastest way to move out from parents?

@Phyllis Wagner no

Why do you think you are alfa?

Yeah if you dont entertain yourself noone else will...

Your problem is scarecity mindset and feeling you are not good enough and not places where you should take her ?

Accepted that they have no interest in this simple as that trying to force it on them is useless

Nice i havent found it its been 5 years ?

Its a phase and you gotta go deeper