NoSelfSelf

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  1. How can you be bored when there is always something to conquer. You are bored because you are boring, this is not to put you down its a hard truth that i also had to digest.
  2. Because its better than manipulation. Mean=hes not trying to fuck me,he has women so he treating me like this is authentic.
  3. Because you put responsibility of your emotional,mental state to a woman.You have no inner leadership. Even when you were in a relationship she had the power to make you happy or sad at will...
  4. Yes so it fits againts the body but not too much,also if you dont have money buy black shoes that you can wear on every ocassion.Pink shows you swing in both directions sexually tho.
  5. Dont wear baggy clothes like in second picture, not skinny jeans also something that fits wells to the bodyshape.
  6. Im sleeping rent free in your head its already done.
  7. Sucess has to do with following yourself.Its never about getting a woman,if she is earning you then you are succeding because its not about her. If the answer is you then you are always succeding.
  8. Its made as a joke but its actually game.
  9. Attention of the process of watching and from where you watching.So yeah attention to self but layers of ego needs to be pealed too. So with this one you are more observing and inquirying vs just inquirying what am i?
  10. If it gets you this then 🫡
  11. Actually im not sure exactly why its inferior its only that i didnt get any enlightment "experience" through meditating only cool effects.What usually got me enlightment experience is contemplating by watching from where im watching,that will show you insights+after 8 hours of it at night i would get hit by enlightment experience(or ego death) that made mind more and more quiet with each one,so when mind is more quiet you see better from where you watching from.Like mudded waters if they less muddy you would notice things better. It will end your suffering if you do nothing,but with stronger ego it will create stronger action but will also help with being more centered in enlightment experience.
  12. I was doing 8+ hours of meditating but found out meditation is most inferior way to get there. Also your attitude ill see how much ill do in my free time,one must make enlightment above everything if you not "talented". To me it was my whole existence from wake up to night.
  13. 8 hours of contemplating present moment every day or 8 hours meditation straight or whatever suits you for years. I created my technique and did it every day. But you need to work on your ego too it goes hand to hand. Its not all spiritual practice sure it will get you there but still you will be stuck in ego if you wish to go outside comfort zone...
  14. Only thing is that sales give you infrastructure already on how you should move.While one must create it for himself(usually dont know how since one doesnt know himself)but when one is busy looking to fuck,need approval,thinks she's sexy then one moves on the infrastructure of women and that always either makes you lose yourself or getting short end of the stick.
  15. My spider senses are tickling that you and me can counquer the world come to the rooftoop of the street "your ass is too good to be true 26" so we can grab our first drinks... Ez work
  16. Trust in your experience and what you saw as your own way for your path. How i experienced on and off psychadelics is there are degrees, how much your illusion drops that much you get absorbed into conciousness like levels in video game.At one point you will notice that barrier between you and your room is broken by seeing that whole room is made out of same "substance" as you.Then you wont even notice it if you dont stop and look by being absorbed in your human experience.
  17. Its not intuition you literally see that everything is conciousness with your own eyes.Its right there and you can see you are it.Once at a family dinner i said you are all inside me 😆 meaning whole room is me and is seen clearly,its new reality opened up.But it shocks you at first then becomes normal like anything else. Its like invisible ocean you are swimming in and you are it at the same time.
  18. Yes even those who put in the work are so stubborn and wont put away their self importance aside to learn.2 things guys think they are experts at, in fighting and with women so there is no hope for alooot of them.
  19. No that's why there is so much whining in dating circles, it doesnt come naturally to guys its completely opposite, they know so little and understand so little ,that the woman just leaves them or dont give a chance because they see how much they dont know what they are doing.
  20. I made that name because is sounded cool not because im enlightened. Well there are many degrees of enlightment so i wouldnt even call myself enlightened if im still in human form.Im more on the edge of being human but still seeing that everything is "conciousness" the source,so i actively think and play as a characther and looking to develop my identity but still its all just seen as illusion. The shift is more that if i would let go of all the attachments to improvement,getting better,experience life i would just be,and that being is just nothigness its just what is, i do this if there is some sort of suffering or needless thinking just shutting of my mind completely. By suffering i mean for example i was watching movie terrifier 3 and scene shocked me that my body got a mini panick attack, to cool it off i just shut off my mind and be until it passed away.
  21. You would be surprised how much average guy is clueless and dont understand anything.While women has so called emotional perfect pitch to sniff out average guy quickly,sense things without even trying.When i started to see things it opened up a new world,i can sense things really well when someone is lying or playing games so i can then cut them off like women cuts off the average guy when he approaches her.
  22. Well you probably heared that women mature faster,so with that maturity and how women are naturally made for fitting in the groups, bonding and how in order to survive to be able to sense weakness vs strenght. So women are socially superior naturally,if a guy doesnt learn but yeah your social anxiety could block it, but guy getting rid of social anxiety wont open him up for intuitive social calibration(typically). You could be different from the herd im speaking on the women as a whole.
  23. So you can understand whats going on 😅
  24. It comes naturally to women,for me(and most guys)to get on average woman level of social calibration takes years of work.