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@Loba Its not changing yourself what im saying its building yourself on top of your own authentic self and potential you got as a birthright...if you are fine with what you have thats okay keep doing that thats the point...

@Emrie Great job ?? i know how that is ive been there you were like on level -5 and had to work hard to come to normal level 0 and now that you are hear what im trying to say, you know in general that you need to work on social skills but in what way you gonna go about it? in what way you gonna show up to the people in what way you gonna express your sexuality with a girl ?thats where the improvement lies in my opinion not just general improvement its shallow because you will turn into someone elses copy and mehanical being thats not gonna work and stick for long it will be a long hard manipulation and people pleasing...

@Omni Self help is toxic because it shows you you are not good enough as you are but rather you need all this to be something better than yoursel so you abandon yourself and try to be someone else rather working on your own stuff its how its applied and its applied toxicly... @Vincent S Process is to work on inauthentic self to get what you want which will always leave you feeling disconnected and that you are not really improving real process is going deep into your own ways of doing stuff and using self help as a little map to show you stuff but not become that map you become your own map!

You are alredy at a loss putting her above yourself no matter if you take her on the end of the world and back.... Edit:and putting things outside of yourself that will bring value to make her stay is a big no no disconeccted from your own self better queastion is what my inner world ill show her that nobody can? instead of what venue ill take her...

He hates himself and dont have love for himself to change it going on with the thread is pointless...

You should be deriving insights for yourself and not live leos life ?

Focusing on this bs wont get you any women ?

Whats the point of this thread?

Cut those people out of your life and make room for someone that values you!

Why do you care if he didnt respond it means hes not the person you are looking for simple as that...is good to be vurnable but trauma bonding is not for everyone...

@aurum Becoming friends? Thats worst possible advice you could have given.... so manipulative making yourself so below her and wasting your time and energy 3 big nos of the game?

@whoshearts She showed you what she is if you looking for relationship then 100% move on nothing to sort out here shes not for what you want...

@whoshearts Cool but she will do to you what she did to her bf you cant never trust her if you still wanna... go ahead ?

What success tho?

Evil is everything that doesnt serve you! but rather damage your self agenda the more damage to your self agenda the more you(ego)call it evil!

@Someone here I mean it wont work because of social anxiety start small then ? lol that what they want you to believe they are sexual alright my friend...

You tried 2 times try 100 then see if its not working every girl you see have had sex with a guy soon rather than later...

Things exist only if you think it exist..thats how mind is.... everything mind produces is taken to be true and then you say i experienced it like that...stuff happens only if your mind tells you without that theres no human experience...

Find a girl that likes that simple as that ?

At the end of the day you have to do both and why put happiness on anything happiness is happiness materialistic pursuits are materialistic pursuits.

If thats my girlfriend i would told them have a nice evening and just left or just leave without saying anything... She doesnt feel danger of losing you then this things happen.. Basically told you in drunk state how she views you sober for some reason dont know the whole picture so cant tell for sure...

I would say Mr.Locario and guys he works with but they are pro masculine and judgmental wont go holistic in that area but they will go deep in the game side...

Spiraled out of control

@Preety_India 100% not the problem is always a red flag even if im 100% right im sure im contributing at least 5-10% to the problem at least ?‍♂️ Even if im gonna give million dollars to people ill make problems ?

@Preety_India its pointless to give you advice at this point because you never see yourself as a problem(this is self development not global development) and ofcourse we will assume stuff its on you to see if its applys to your life or it does not..immedietly attacking someone and having triggered attitude is a problem that nobody want to deal with if you cant see that then we cant help you..