NoSelfSelf

One of the biggest mindfucks is finding out that every knowledge was just a perspective from the book author in schools etc. You thinking you have the truth by memorizing the information is a joke ? you think you can get the truth by thinking is a joke i think i wasted 10 years of my life with that ?

@Mulky Nooo dude thats what you thinking...its has nothing to do with woman if you think that you are done you wont go nowhere just a fake front of a male...

@Someone here Yep you define yourself and probably through your own understanding you will realize that you cant do stuff withouth being tough so you have to be one because you have it in you to beat the odds and the game of life if you can beat it ? But becoming a man because of others and what you get will never make you one it will always make you feel weak but you dont like it...(beating a dead horse by now)

@Mulky Then idea of getting cheated and used by a woman is just an idea when it happens just make sure to say its just an idea and move on doing what you doing ?

@Someone here you are not a man,you are a guy...dick doesnt make you a man ?... See the way you are typing shows you are not a man...man doesnt care about social norms and what they tell you to do... Main challenge ? you made it look so easy there...man picks his challenges that are the worst for him to grow... Man is defined by his actions and if you dont like work then dont do it not everyone is made up to be a man... Shedding old fashioned ideas of masculinity lmao you should embrace them Those are loser friends you need to lose.... Then dont retrain them but dont expect the benefits of being a man... You want the benefits without work wont work... First step to be a man is to communicate with yourself by finding your own voice and shutting down voices of everyone else...

@Someone here You are not a man,thats your first problem if you think you are something you are not you cant become it... Depends of where does it come from do you need that family or you want that family around you... If you depend on family as identity,support,validation,care what they think about you,trying to impress them then you are not a man... Thing is if culture said that you should protect family and that what man should do then you are not a man... Man stand on his own morals and principles thats why there are such few real man around...

Many ways to describe it...one that i like is being a constant.... meaning nothing moves you from the core of who you are and what you are about.... Second that really helps hes all about himself not a follower but a creator he influence others.... Its all a mindset game man is a strong set of mindsets and rules he follows for himself...

@Jannes Cool congrats!

Hows higher self not also an ego ?

@Jannes You are lying dude ? you dont have sucess with girls@flowboy just told you the truth and you went in defensive talking about society and stuff and what you should be for a girl cmon ?

Im curious why do you think women are some angelic force that is so above you that they control what you should be doing?

@Ingit Bottom line is you dont like yourself so why would a girl like you? so you push her away...overly dependant on a woman not dependant on yourself! thats the root issue... As long as you dont become the person you are meant to be and become no1 person in your life source of everything and that woman is only a desert in your life this will repeat...

Dude you have no game!look what you are saying all in your feelings ?

@Razard86 what a mindfuck you just sent me ? i hope i wont be like that when i got the game you got...

1.Not being a freethinker,trapped in societies,parents,authority world to the point you dont know who you are and what to think,following everyone but yourself...really hard to do takes alot of energy thats why its an easy trap 2.Using self help to avoid failure and pain not seeing that pain and failure is best form of self help(supplemented with knowledge second to experience) 3.Trap of self confirming bias-just confirming what you already know in your own way and not expanding opening mind you think you already know 4.Paradigm problem you use information that dont suit your own paradigm and your needs but using information because its a best new thing (its exapnsion of point 1.) Stage orange person using stage turqouise insights and pretending he is above his level losing years instead of working on his level to get to next level...losing years of life working on things that is not for you at that time 5.Trying to help people and despretly making them think deeply and losing alot of time making them grow instead making yourself grow.. 6.Like point 2 using spirituality as a way to avoid fear,pain,dissapointment not seeing thats necessary to grow... 7.Creating a false self instead of being authentic self using self help as a way to be something you are not instead of turning self help knowledge tailored to your own settings(computer refrence) 8.Making stuff about other people instead of about yourself...reason you fail is you not seeing this. . working on yourself not possible as long problem is out there(Red pill,gender wars example for dating) 100% accountability everything else you wont grow 9.Quick fixes-Whats the fastest way,whats the thing i should do to make it work not seeing you have to become student of that thing its like asking how to speak Japanise tell me one tip and tommorow ill speak it...meditating 20 minutes in few months expecting enlightment 10.Coming full circle you have to be your own unique individual with your own vision your own ways of being self help could easily make you biased towards their ways the ways of the guru and a teacher so being really mindful of where hes taking me whats his agenda and does it serve my path and my own way...you could start thinking your unique path is wrong based on someones teaching but mybe its a right thing to do FOR YOU! and its on you to see it.

@Razard86 Im saying I AM the game so that means that im the one that uses strategy I created IM playing game with myself not playing games with a woman! If you think about woman you are already losing its all about you and what you gonna do,how you gonna move in your way and show her yourself that you created and discovered for yourself not her! Where 99% of "game" online is what should guy do for her what technique should he use to get her what way hes going to manipulate her not seeing that hes abondining himself and not running his game hes running someone elses game in his mind being a sheep and like you said guys think girls are stupid they can smell it they cant see they are the problem because they dont build themselves they try to build game to cover up their own problems which you can fake for few months and then what?...

@Preety_India If they seek control then they are narcissistic, man doesnt want control he tells you how things are and who he is , then its on you if you wanna follow it,if he forces it on you after you dont want to follow it then run thats not a man thats an insecure control maniac! @Razard86 playing games is lower form of game theres bigger levels its like enlightment understood by the mind is lower and being enlightened is higher you dont see that you are using game to get women(already losing) instead you being the game its all about you it gets connected with spirituality...

@Razard86That saying doesnt make sense to me why would someone with game play games ?

@Preety_India i know answer for myself but wanna see other perspective what does man get from her being dependent on him why do you think man needs dependcy from her?

@Preety_India What does a man depend on the woman im curious?

@Razard86 if you see it clearly how would you say where does game begins and ends?

Best thing i read in this whole subforum

@Razard86 its not like you are hiding it from her, like if she finds out its over,you just dont need to tell her stuff that doesnt serve any purpose out of the blue...some stuff she doesnt need to know and some she can find out when time is right...

@Roy exactly!

@Razard86 Mind aswell tell her then that she doesnt exist and that her relationahip with her mother is same as a coffe table ?