NoSelfSelf

Its always about benefiting you either way you put it ? you are not a saint, so point is to love yourself and love your mission then indirectly people benefit from you.. What you trying to do is losing strategy loving ,others wont make you benefit them its like stage green loving enviroment and doing nothing for it but loving it...you focus on you then others benefit from your growth, if you loved others you would be useless because you wont grow, you will just love and please with nothing to offer of real value... Being emotionaly blocked is place you go to escape from suffering, so facing what in past made you suffer could fix it...

Game as i defined it is who you are to yourself, your own creation thats not influenced by anyone, 100% focus on yourself and now creation from there(not easy to make that shift) of how you gonna move ,talk, be how you gonna make her smile etc. is up to you and what makes you wanna express it...this eliminates woman as a goal to get, this eliminates desperation neediness trying to beg for sex,manipulation...this is where you dont look what should i do and be for a woman and pedestalizing her like shes your god... thats my understanding still learning... You made strike 1 of a game talking about other guys(100 focus on yourself ?) I mean how did you get those girls did you take her on 5 expensive dinners did you treat her like princess and she gave you because to keep you stimulated so she can use you... You could be on parties and girls just wanna have sex and you happen to be there... I know guys that have absolute zero game and got laid because of situations they got themselves in ... You could manipulate like a narcissis and get laid hope you get the point...

@somegirl LoL its how it works if you have empathy you will focus more on other neglecting yourself the more you do it the more low self esteem you become...

By you definding yourself not others,by you making yourself a priority,by choosing to stand on your beliefs...this is all masculine stuff tho all women struggle with what you struggle because of empathy towards outside world and not your inside world..

@somegirl Thats another set of problems you take things personaly when someone "rejects you" that means we are not compatible they are helping you to find another cool person imagine them saying yes and you waste few months seeing they are not for you ?... Its a numbers game... Another thing you should think you are cool,now you think someone else is cool which is bs you should be cool with yourself so much that you dont need cool people so now it will happen because they see you as cool?(to explain further i need time ?)

@somegirl You are missing the point..point is no matter what your mind tells you,you can do the opposite of that with your action...if you feel like you dont deserve it go for it anyway simple as that,and you say feel unatural key word feel...doesnt matter what you feel it matters you do what you should be doing for what your expectation and standard you set for yourself... Your mind will harass you because it knows it will stop you if it knew you will do the action anyway the feeling and emotions about it will vanish volaa! Now you can doubt all you want because you wont actually do it what i said ?

@somegirl Calm down breathe its just a milk ? Now did you recognize even tho you had limiting belief i cant take or pick up the milk you did it(hope you did ?) that means that correct action that you take based on expectation you have of yourself is stronger than belief even tho your mind tells you dont do it,action will correct it... You act based on what you think you are and not on what you want to be... When you take action on what you want to be,beliefs about yourself will change and based on your queastion you think you will get it out by thinking no! By correct action!

@somegirl i knew you are solution to all my problems ? now pls do it so i can explain ?

@somegirl ?? im serious im not joking if you cant do that then you are not ready to learn #wax on #wax of

I have an exercise for that... go to the fridge and go pick up a milk... when you want to pick up a milk you say to yourself i cant pick up a milk and then pick it up...then say i cant put it back and then put it back...when you did that report back the experience actually do it!?

@Breakingthewall So you are present with her and everything falls in the place everything goes where you want it to go? Isnt that also game ?

@Jodistrict unlearning false assumptions is part of the game actually coming back to yourself that is not influenced by outside forces...

@Breakingthewall thats a recipe for a girl to run game on you there is nothing up to a chance alot of wasting time and being a doormat followong what you said... @aurum i said something more deeper than that you missed the whole point ? and getting laid alot doesnt mean you have game i mean you can have alot of money how did you get it? Selling drugs ?

Amazing points! Where you are losing is making it about her ,doing those things for her and not what you wanna do and express...thats why you are needy and feeling like you need to go above and beyond for her because you feel lucky to have her(focus on her)... Invest in your attractivness and share it with her (like you are doing)... You have great points but mindset is not good even tho you are winning you are losing...

@Realms of Wonder Yeah shes influenced by who you are in that moment if you manipulate you are losing because trying to hit the jackpot aka being needy and desperate? @Thought Art Point is to see different perspectives because i think this is the best one...

Why is she beautiful you dont know her ?

@human679 First clue is stop being something for a woman be it for yourself otherwise you will always be needy and worship woman...

You have already lost by this thinking anything you go foward will be short term and fail...

@Rubywoo Please leave that guy alone before he falls in love...

Game is not about woman game is about the man his own universe and creation you do it for yourself not a woman... When you stop gaming you stop your growth basically... For your situation you should have told her at the beggining you will date multiple woman and see if shes okay with that if not move on... But if you have game(im not talking about manipulating pick up game) you will have woman wanna be with you even tho there are multiple ones...

How does selfishness ruin you life exactly?

Your inner game is bad because you talk weak to yourself simple as that focusing on IOIS,rejection,woman 3 typical strikes and killer of you!

It depends what works for you i used it before in sports and really helps but its toxic and burns you out now i pace myself and work on me and gradually make it harder and harder.. Feels good to know im the driver not others in what im doing...

@Aleister Crowleyy Men dont care about other men...

@IamYou half truth that wont lead to absolute truth and you hitting wall over and over again ?