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@StarStruck how that has anything to do with my post ?? @Brittany can you give an example of your i am and how it helps you in the world and why you chose or have it? @undeather how can doing things make me form an identity thats what i would be doing not what i am...?

@Nilsi thing is i dont want to have normal life but dont yet know what life im looking for...dont want a gf and helping humanity means you are developed in your identity if you want to have bigger impact like me because i know that im idealist but dont know in what? Great life doesnt come spontaniously thats why i made this thread what will come next is more of the same you had in my experience..

@Salvijus Great found my identity ? @Nilsi you are saying it from pov like someone who has identity if you know your dreams and what experience you should have you have placed an identity before it...

@Salvijus i get it but its like i need more depth than that ? @Nilsi thats the thing how can a girl see who i am show her depth of me when i dont have sense of myself? When i cant see clearly who i am i could show her anything and seeing if something sticks thats horrible ?

@Nilsi Yes i get it spent aloot of time thinking about what i want and it left me with hobbies i do and few new things i wanna explore... It seems my dream is creating something that hasnt been created yet so it leaves me with nothing to lach on nothing i can truly express as ?

@Razard86 That video poped up in my mind actually thinking about this...i should rewatch it how did it help you find or construct your identity?

@Vxvxen i didnt say you are im just saying what they are thinking about you (potential partner)

@Vxvxen I mean on the one hand yes but on the other hand red pill ideology says to be careful with women with male friends because shes either too masculine or they need constant male attetion that spiral into drama...and they ate all those red pills up... ?

Having guy friends is a turn off for most guys

Are you serious ? ?

Because you depend on them and now you want a book to depend on that book and cycle never ends!

@emvipi Yes because game has nothing to do with girls and learning game is not what you think it is..

Yes exactly! You dont have a sense of self and put woman above yourself...you cant help it you are not priority in your eyes,you dont have game so ofcourse it will affect your self worth...become student of the game by seeing it has nothing to do with them its all about you! If you really want to change this pm me ill lead you to right direction...

There is none,i think its better to look to put a bid in rather than pick up stuff for you...

Is it a big deal to pay for ice cream or 2 coffes ? nothing more nothing less

Not even kundalini awakening could purge the pedestalization of a woman ?

@Someone here Again you fail because you are not finding passion and love in yourself thats why finding passion out there is tough because theres no passion in you! But you made good points pointing you out on blindspots...ask yourself what you would like to become then from there comes what to do again trying to go outside yourself... Ask yourself what i am all about then write it down and from there create experience you need to seek for that individual you made for yourself and have to follow it through because you have a rule...

@Someone here There is no might! thats the problem if you want something you need to know why and how to sell it to yourself the idea! otherwise its just a dream and make a rule " i go through the things i say ill do and be behinde that"... thats scary rule to make and will show you if you are bsing yourself When you set the rule you must not break it! If you are not behinde your rules you are just wishful thinking...

You should be asking yourself that queastion, based on knowledge on yourself, but you dont have much you know about yourself so you ask others and it wont ever work because nobody is you! ....and dont know what experiences you should have for yourself!

You are not working on yourself

@Vercingetorix true he had a role model but that doesnt matter you are grown now... Not caring to suceed with women is still caring about them...you genuenly dont care about them even to succed with them because it has nothing to do with them...trying to succed with woman is immidietly desperation mode and why you wont succed..

@Vercingetorix Dude you made a post about attracting woman struggling to understand how it works they are inside your mind...what makes me think that you care about woman ? I think its better to invest time into something else mind will f you over here big time i dont think its a good idea...

Alfa doesnt care at all about woman only about himself woman to him is just something he does on free time... And this whole post is about a woman... Learning all attraction in the world wont be enough until you stop caring about woman and care about yourself...

Its all about who you are to yourself,what belief you have in yourself,what you created for yourself and how you communicate to yourself etc. and then you express it as it is... Its all manifested when you come in front of a woman if theres fear,doubt,confusion its because you losing yourself in the woman not yourself!, or you havent had yourself in the first place...dont know what you are about ,didnt define yourself... Getting all excited seeing her and thinking omg shes hot! you dont see you just make her the focus and not you, so you are out of the game immedietly lost in limbo... Thoughts? What would you say whats game about?

@Pavement Probably would learn about money game... Tell me whats game then? Why would you prove yourself to other men?