NoSelfSelf

How about me deciding when ill be silent, thanks.

Yes in my teens i was very sensitive, i would feel things so deeply and every word towards me would trigger me, but i wouldnt verbalize it out loud i would keep it all for myself.In my mid twenties i was sensitive but not as much as in my teens,so i very much know how it is,but i never lashed out defend everything blaming others. Process was long but what helped me most is actually listening to men(to find a real man is a challenge tho)and "taking verbal punches" that shattered my weak perceptions of reality. Becoming more masculine less feminine helped me alot to overcome that sensibility. Learning game(not this pick up bs real game that makes it about you and not a woman). Yes ive been to therapy for panic attacks and depression/anxiety 3 different time each lasted aporx 6 months. Its mostly bs. Im not big on attachment theory but it was avoidant but now is more secure. I was raised by a narcissist so i know the difference between walking on eggshells and normal conversation. I very well know what a great communication is and it doesnt involve arguing and me proving myself to someone(but here i wanted to be merciful). When i was talking to i took in consideration im not talking to a woman(checked your profile)here that is sensitive i had to check you are a male first.With women its different if she has proved to me that she is worthy of my time then ofcourse ill take care of her sensitivity/emotions because she has a pass, she is an emotional being and you are nobody to me and you dont have a pass because you are a male. Female friend? Is that new mcdonalds burger on the menu i dont know what that is to be honest. Weaponizing? For what what do i get out of this? like i talk straightfowardly because my rule is to tell the truth and ill say how i think.I wont live my life supressing my real thoughts/intentions where i always get shorter end of the stick.Good luck with that i hope one day you dont torture yourself over pleasing others. I rather get no resaults with people then to sell my realness. Im not telling you to embark on anything really if you like the way you live and need to change people around you to fit your ways go for it.If you are sick of being emotional i can assist you with that.

Yes,because i cant tell you things straight up i would have to walk on eggshells talking to you ,to not trigger you.Also hearing all the ways it bothers you which is 90% personal 10% others doing.So in real life i would distance myself from such drama because it would just take energy to always explain myself,but i dont want to explain myself mybe once briefly so you can understand my point of view.There is no benefit to me in that situation.

Never talked to this much sensitivity its my first time,so excuse me.

I should be punished for making you feel this way by just expressing myself.

Exactly i cant talk, ill hurt someones feelings so its better to 🤫

Doesnt matter

For you they do is what i meant 😁

Cool but it backfires 99% of the time. Those who manipulate are selling their souls.

Listen women have an ultrasound device in their eyes,they can see right through you,the more you want to be a certen way for them ,the ultrasound picks it up.You just cant hide. Mysterious is the one who is self-made because one moves completely different. So average moves off of what should i be for a woman *like you*. Above average thinks what should i be for myself ,which bents her reality makes her scared because her ultrasound only picks on average 😄.

If you had a beautiful mind then you wouldnt take an offense that's the point. And the mind will never be beautiful if you worship someone else. Simple as that. You identified yourself as average and Leo as your Father figure. At some point you should hear someone say most disturbing things to you, but because you know yourself so much you will just look at it like huh? interesting, and go about your day.That's when you know you really on some self development progress...prior to that its just navigating the woods stage(refrence to heros journey)..

That's exactly why man dont fall in love because it clouds the judgment.

You are all over the place,like mish mash of all the sources you watched heared just spilled at the same time. One to be able to do the actions needs to hold its own position and opinion above the other sources. So if i hold the position that ill eat healthy every day ,believe in it and do it then it will be done.But if i say ill eat healthy but those juicy burgers,omg you only live once,whats the point of life to suffer? Then that mish mash disproves and disbeliefs the action. If we gonna inject masculine its picking a decision and run with it not thinking philosophyse it to death.

Its total valid you actually cant do any action if you dont believe in it.But if you lying to yourself that you cant you wont.Its all mind games the life that is...

True,but before that one must believe in his actions to make them and if one has low self worth/self love wont do the action so its catch 22.But okay your point is valid.

I dont see the point.

If i had billions of dollars i would also say there is nothing to get anymore.

Then whats the solution?

You have low self worth and dont love yourself that's why you feel bad. Nobody who loves himself wants to impress women. Daydreaming is a must but needs to be executed.

This is what momentum in game is.(different from pick up momentum).

No its not its multitude of things brought together.Momentum is just covering over who you truly are.

I remember in one of the video its mentioned "study yourself like you are a hamster in a labaratory" all your tendencies from 3rd Pov.

My advice is that you look to connect with people instead with yourself,then the way you connected to yourself it will be easy to connect with others. People who make easy connection are those who are already good with themselves. When you connect with yourself then you wont be looking to connect based on same likes/dislikes you will respect that they have their own ways just like you have. Same way if you dont know math you wont be able to teach it to others. Same way you dont know yourself you cant express yourself(so you not giving nothing for others to connect to because there is no connection to self)/but ofcourse you should talk about things that excites you that's authenticity not you forcing yourself.But when you connected to other more via being liked/approved based on not knowing yourself you will always seek connection to others first and then they wont be able to see the connection.Connection is seen when you can display it for them to see it the way you are with yourself.

I never claimed that im manly im giving you advace based on common sense, not manipulation like its for you and not to appear more manly for someone else.Style is not just clothes imo. Because to me it looks like you are afraid that wind will blow up your skirt dont take it personal tho 😅.

Wider stance not that complicated