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If you get married to a gold digger, yes. A massive trap. Why get married these days?

Osho was a beast. A one of a kind. Something special…

I’ve found that talking to people about the popular things in life affects me. My voice and way of speaking literally changes. You have to talk to people on their level. And that’s not to say other people don’t do that to me too. Everyone adapts to the other person they’re talking to. You have to talk about popular stuff that’s happening in the world right now. Where are highly conscious people? They aren’t around normal people that’s for sure haha

I always wonder if I was fine before I found ‘self help’… in a weird way it kind of isolated me.

Absolutely. If you’re not looking at a screen all the time and are instead doing productive things outside - the shit that’s on the internet falls away. You forget about it… I swear, without the internet none of this ideology shit would exist (or be as mind controlling). The problem is that’s it’s everywhere now. You try and get off the internet for a whole week. It’s extremely difficult.

Don’t ever start to listen to him, it’s painful. You can just by his constant anger that he’s got something wrong with him. But like I said, he’s making money out of being like that, so I guess it’s better than working a job. In fact, I don’t think anyone would actually hire him in the first place…

Tommy Robinson has literally made a career out of being angry and aggressive. Do not listen to this guy. It’s crazy that Jordan Peterson can’t see through Tommys bullshit.

Is meth bad? The questions on this forum are getting so ridiculous these days. Come on dude

I’m a happy drunk, but I always end up saying something stupid. Every single time. When I go out sober, nothing stupid gets said and it’s like I’m boring. I seriously wish alcohol was never a thing. It causes so many unnecessary problems and ruins so many lives. I’ve said things that I wish I never said because of me being drunk! But at the same time we do need to let our hair down now and again, and alcohol is the perfect thing for that…

Try going out sober while everyone around you is drunk. It’s painful!

I’d say alcohol is the big killer for me… if I go out drinking on Saturday night - the whole week after I feel completely hopeless. All my mind can think of is negative stuff. Most people are fine with alcohol, but for me it causes so many problems.

How does fun backfire? Is it better to be a somebody than a nobody? What IS the hidden cost of selfishness?

@Leo Gura I understand all of what you’re saying. I’m now 30, live in a small town and like it, and like my job. It seems so psychologically jarring to quit it all, move to a city, find another job, and learn how to approach 4000 women in the street/in a nightclub. I didn’t go to university, I’m not an academic or a doctor. I was good with girls and was really popular in school, and that was years ago now. It would feel like I’m going back 10 years.

@Leo Gura @Leo GuraThought so. You can’t really be getting laid like a rockstar whilst also working a full time job. It’s a kick in the teeth because it sounds so good to be living the player lifestyle but it simply isn’t practical. I could be wrong.

@Leo Gura so taking a year out of work is totally worth trying to get better with women? Can most people quit their job to learn game?

I was seriously worried it was gone forever. A complete distraction from reality but I had lots of gems saved in my bookmarks!

Understood. It could be a massive regret not to go travelling. I know people say on their deathbed that they wish they worked less. But also I won’t be doing the ‘touristy’ shit that most people do.

I understand. I still look into going travelling now and again, I have these sudden urges to drop everything and travel. But that in itself seems a problem to me. I’d feel like I was escaping something.

@VictorB02 how old are you? I’ve been thinking about doing the same, but now I’m 30 I also wonder if it’s too late for travelling around. My fear is that although it’ll be fun and exciting, I’d always have to come back home and start again. I might grow as a person but I could just grow internally at home. Inner game won’t be fixed by being in a different country. I could be wrong. I’ve got friends that have gone travelling and they always come back happier people

What works for me is simply leaving my phone in my car after work. Not even having my phone in the house. During the day I use it, but when I get home I’m done. You’ll have a few hours to do other things and you won’t get distracted. When I look at my phone the next morning there’s usually not much I’ve missed.

You must admit, that there is a lot of shit on this forum too. When this forum first started there were some great questions being asked. Now it seems to be dumbed down a bit...

There's so much more to life than relationships. These young dudes are lost in a fog of internet and porn - which makes them think about women constantly. When you mature a bit more you realise how pathetic it all is, and that there's much more to life. In a way being young sucks because you don't know any better, and chances are their father is clueless too.

If the internet didn’t exist, this black pill victim shit wouldn’t exist. Everyone’s getting on with life, and they don’t fall for this crap. Take a week away from the internet and see how you feel. You’ll probably forget most of the ideologies that you’ve accumulated. Go outside and do other things. Take your mind completely off women and the unfairness of life. Genetics is something you ain’t gonna get around. You have to accept it and move forward.

People who are all talk but cannot listen. Fascinating but seriously annoying.

I know this is an old post, but I recommend you never even start drinking caffeine beverages. It feels good at first and it does make you feel alert, but after a while you will experience burnout. Then you will rely on caffeine to get through the day. Then you will realise you need to stop but you struggle because you're addicted. I've struggled with caffeine addiction for years now and I wish I could stop. I've tried going a while drinking only water, then I get a bored, flat feeling and I feel like a cup of coffee would elevate that feeling and it does to a point, but then I'm addicted to caffeine again. I seriously wish caffeine never existed in the first place, but here we are. Some asshole goat herder had to start this shit off. Caffeine and coffee exist because we are working too much and not sleeping enough. If we all worked less and got decent sleep there would be no need for caffeine.