Carl-Richard

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  1. Another way to put it is that they're spellbound by compulsive mental patterns which get expressed through every avenue of their life. In their attempts to relinquish their tormented behavior, it only re-emerges through a different form. It's like trying to decapitate a multi-headed hydra, or to catch your own shadow, or to smoothen out the waves on a lake. Sometimes you must just let the beast devour you, leave yourself alone and watch the lake as the weather calms down.
  2. Peterson isn't really a stranger to alternative treatments considering he is on the carnivore diet.
  3. This distinction is a valid one. I would define classical nofap as the act of repressing a certain compulsion. That compulsion can be based on a natural energetic inclination, or it can be fueled by mentally grounded patterns of behavior. Of course these two things naturally arise together in various degrees, but people who fap frequently are familiar with the phenomenom of trying to "force" a fap. That is where I would start to define excessive indulgence, when you fap as a mental compulsion even if you don't feel physically inclined. That is where controlled restriction can be helpful. This way you're not trying to restict your natural sexual energy but instead you're trying to rewire a mental pattern. This form of repression can be very beneficial. The problem however is that over time, it often leads to the opposite problem of excessive repression. Because of the fact that the mental and physical urges arise together, sooner or later you will be going overboard with controlling your mental urges and start repressing natural sexual energy aswell. I believe this is where the majority of the nofap phenomenon is at today: excessive repression. You could say the mental urge only gets inverted into the opposite form without solving the problematic behavioral aspect. In other words, the problem of unhealthy mentally conditioned behavior, instead of being addressed, mutates and starts to inhabit the other side of the spectrum (extreme indulgence vs. extreme repression). To use nofap as a healthy tool is a balancing act of listening to your body and keeping tabs on your mental state.
  4. I can relate. The solution is to just construct some structure and try it out, even if it doesn't feel natural. You can actually do things without having full knowledge about it.
  5. Do you think removing the forum will fix those problems or is it maybe only a symptom of an underlying problem that will anyway express itself through other means? What if the forum is a comparatively better alternative than say video games and masturbation?
  6. What do you mean? Physical reality is constantly changing. Psychedelics speed up that process.
  7. The only reason I came to this forum is because I wanted to abort my spiritual experiences
  8. Do you take any vitamin D supplements?
  9. I think the word you're looking for is idiosyncratic.
  10. Also to what degree can you predict that? Could you pinpoint the exact microsecond when I decide to not watch the TV show anymore?
  11. Playing a Death Metal song in a church (unplugged)
  12. Articulating things in your head is the same as talking to yourself. They say talking to yourself is the first sign of madness. They also say it's hard to distinguish genius from madness.
  13. You learned the limitations of statistics. That's more important than knowing any specific statistic.
  14. All I did was add some information to the nature of the statistics you posted. If you care about properly understanding statistics, you should appreciate that. Was I wrong? Is that why you're so upset?
  15. IMO you should find a balance where you're following a cycle. Going too long makes adaptation and feedback mechanisms kick in and you start losing the juice (for me it's at the 1 week mark). You want to keep riding that upward curve and that requires pushing the reset button from time to time. Remember that ejaculation also has its benefits.
  16. What the heck are you on about?