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for some reason we need a serious military style environment in order to become real men, to feel a sense of purpose and pride in our lives. Otherwise we grow into soft, disgusting gamers. In most cases it just doesn't work to juste tell them: " honey, you should clean your room, it is filthy"

How exactly are you going to impact the food industry? What are the flaws you see in it and how will you change them?

There are many factors that make a person to be diagnozed with ADHD. The way doctors understand it is medieval. You can be born a dreamer, or an introvert who gets bored by small talk and shit, or a more ambitious person who does not care about the average shit that happens in the moments an think of what is you next big move, you can be born with a neurodiverse brain that does not fit in the "normal" parameters of the medieval medicine system and culture you are born into. OR, and this is a big one, trauma that pushed you to find a coping mechanism of distracting yourself from your body and feelings, because it would be to painful to become conscious of them.

@integral I was a vegan for three years and I did serious sports and stuff. Had no problem, had perfect body mass etc. If somebody chooses to be a vegan and he/she does not suffer in any way because of it, what is the problem? If you eat vegan an hate it, always feeling hungry and stuff, or you eat tons of wheat and junk just to not eat meat and preach to others about how saint you are because you sacrifice yourself, then that ca be a problem.

Here's one for you aspiring to Tier 2. When you're doing a new action, or you are reacting in a new way. Take a few moments and refect by asking yourself: "What are the systemic implications of this new action or reaction?" We personal development nerds are biased to be different and do things differently, but many of the mainstream things are quite good because they passed the time test or they serve a need. Time testing a thing is actually observing how the specific thing reacts and influences the complex systems that it is a part of by testing it over and over in different ways. For example the two genders that 99+ percent of us use. When you reach Green, you start wondering: "Why the hell just two???" Want to reach Yellow? Then you also have to ask: "Why more than two? And why it worked like this for thousands of years?" I am very tempted to say: "Why do people do this thing? It seems stupid." For example cutting themselves. As I got wiser and older, I started to also ask: "What are the advantages of this stupid thing people are doing?" Ah they cut themsleves because the emotional pain is unbearable and they need to distract themselves with physical pain.

Exactly! Just because you get brainwashed into a meme does not mean you have the maturity and cogdev to fully embody it and act balanced from it. It is sad to see so many broken kids because they cannot operate from the meme they got brainwashed into. It is like installing Windows 10 on a Pentium 3.

I even slept in that forest, went to a festival there also.

it can be flawed if we think that we should do nothing because we are also a part of the problem. I also fly and so on and at the same time are argue against flying so often. It is when you go to extremes and block the roads that this argument shows your hypocrisy. You should not stop people from going to work and feeding their children, not even if you trevel by bicycle everywhere and eat grass all day.

@Danioover9000 WIth this level of dogma and ideological behavior, I can't call them stage Green. Just because a stupid monkey tries to behave like a human does not make it a human. These extremists that insult people and block the roads are Blue.

Bunch of hypocrites. They block the roads and shit, then they fly to Thailand with some fucking 4 jet engine 747, buy cheap stuff from Aliexpress, use oil based products etc.

@Majed Veganism is not neccessarily stage green, it can be stage blue. It is an identity, exacly like the punker or rocker identity. Thye tell a story to themselves: "I am vegan, I protect animals, I am empathic, I am this and that". As long as it does not become an obsession and they don't preach to others like the mormons do with their Jesus, no problem. Veganism is good for the environment and it can be even for the body if veganism makes them avoid more of the junkfood present around. OR it could be detrimental for the body, if they eat two tons of refined carbs and shit instead of meat.

pretty much a scammer who sprinckles some good info from time to time. This stuff here can be found in Seth Godin's books.

@VictorB02 I like his niche thing, but his vibe is the typical american self-help macho guru. He is trying too hard to be special and interesting, this pulls the Orange business people but repells the serious people who just want a normal educated person who can help with some specific thing. I don't get why you all guys find him so smart. But yes, he has his niche, Orange immature wannebe rich guys. If one of my ex GF would see me watch this guy, she would have dry vagina the whole week. Maybe that batshit craziness is authentic to him but not for all those poor guys who will try to imitate him and fail miserably. 2 milion dollars in leather jackets, wow bravo dude, you nailed life. Stop doing the dishes because you might lose some business opportunity during that. Now I see where he knocks, I also get repelled by all these soft spoiled Swedes who coast on welfare support and boring jobs but he is the other extreme.

You do both, learn to enjoy solitude and find people with whom you have genuine connection (most probably other introvers). You fragment even more if you try to be someone you are not. Depends a lot on personality, I am an introvert masculine person, which means I don't waste my time with bullshit and tell unconfortable truths. I resonate with people that have a growth mindset, no matter the stage they are at. When I meet escapism driven people, I get turned off exactly like a girl gets turned off by some creepy dude.

True, and also you develop further by noticing how different stages behave. But let's be honest, talking for 2-3 hours about some crap you have zero interest in is not autenticity. If they can receive some value from me or I can get some value from the conversation, then it is interesting, otherwise I have better things to do.

I'll contemplate on that. Seems to me there are not so many Tier 2 extroverts around. This rings to me well

reread the terms now, that's right hehe. Introverts socialize in a different way. How would a Tier 2 extrovert behave at a table with some Orange dummies? Would he/she engage in the mindless bullshit about their next trip to Japan for the next 2 hours? A stage Yellow is at Tier 2 because their main passion is not mindless talk and gatherings but ideas and deep contemplation.

Even the most ugly loosers manage to have sex. It is true that the odds are in favor of women in dating now with all this bullshit social media, dating apps and cultural isolation, plus men are not taught how to be men, and the few real men take the girls.

If I'll get invited to a party with 5 Leos, I'll be very extrovert. But when I think about meeting some stage Orange macho dummies and their OnlyFans girlfriends, I become very introvert.

As a coach you need to find your niche. I am a health expert and I want my work to be around helping people with their health, but there are so many factors that afftect your health and are not identified as health topics. For ex. a shit job that makes you depressed will make you binge eat, so we NEED to talk about the root causes of your bad health not just what to eat and shit. I cam up with "life-quality" coaching but I think people will be a bit confused about it. Any suggestions? Other niche ideas came up to me: mindset, habit coaching, wellness coaching

brilliant, thanks!

It amazes me how groups of people like scientists or politicians can be extremely brilliant or extremely stupid. We f%#king sent humans on the Moon 50 yeras ago when computers were in their prehistory, I was completely amazed when I studied the billiancy of the scientists involved in that. BUT at the same time people still starve themselves because calorie deficit bullshit is still prevalent in the collective mentality, still posioning themselves with wheat and other crap. We posioned the whole fkin world with lead by putting it into gasoline. AND after admiting that we poisoned the whole world with lead, Europe poisoned their whole population again with diesel fumes by pushing some stupid environment legislantion that encouraged diesel cars production and sales. How can we be so brilliant and so stupid at the same time?

@r0ckyreed Everything is relative but when we argue, we argue what is the relative truth relative to X, Y, Z. When we agree that Trump is an idiot, we say Trump is an idiot relative to a good moral human conduit, politics done for the good of the citizens, awareness of the ego's defense mechanisms etc.

yes, life-quality is silly, I said that already

@Michael569 Appreciate! Yes those are niches. This is a more clear explanation of what exactly you work with, and that is a good point. This will be clear and big on my website.