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@trenton in case of rape, the courage will be on daring to contemplate and recontextualize what happened. To understand that a very intimate part of you was violated without your consent. I did not mean relive the experience in that way. My personal trauma was based around bullying and mommy issues. That put some wrong beliefs in my head: "I am unlovable" etc. you have to confront these beliefs head on and recontextualize and understand what exactly happened. Once you convince yourself that you are actually lovable and the world around you is a sick twisted place. Then you can continue your journey to becoming a better version of yourself. Endless whining and crying about what happened won't really help. It needs deep contemplation and insight. We need both the feminine shaking of the frozen trauma out of the body. The somatic processing and accepting but also the masculine pushing and facing trauma head on, and analization and recontextualization For example when Leo told me "I need more love and I make women feel unwelcome here" could be a very traumatic moment. The knowledge powerhouse who changed my life to say something like that. That could be a catastrophe. But the years of self love and insight in who I am made me immune to such potentially traumatic moments. Not because of denyal trauma adaptation but because of deep insight and self love. Now no opinion or bullying will ever traumatize me again because I know who I am and what I can and cannot do.

It is very hard to solve trauma with feminine energy. Without my courage to dive into my suffering and repeatably expose myself to the situations that cause the trauma, I would never fix myself. Most therapists are like Tinder, they sell you fantasy, so you come back and pay for more. In regards to the AI, I managed to program chatgpt to really cut through the shit and make intellectual risks. My GPT sounds now more like Leo's comments than some loosy goosy sugar coated bullshit.

@trenton it bends to you so it doesn't hurt your feelings.

There is a bias towards the feminine modus operendi because we mostly experienced the toxic expression of masculinity. Comparing the somewhat healthy femininity we notice raising with damaging masculine energy of Stage Orange, I rather pick femininity to lead my government. My favourite politician in Sweden is a woman. I'd rather have her leading me than some disfunctional man. The problem with our politics is not that we need more analysis and autistic shit. We need more love and empathy towards others. And paradoxically you can even outcompete the more masculine countries on the global economy by being more feminine. You will have very strong public-private partnerships and happier, better paid citizens who will be more creative and engaged. Work smart not hard.

@LordFall ignoring biology is the the biggest problem in woke politics. You tell me biology is not a huge factor(not you actually of course)? Dude, check out the porn traffic on the internet, no amount of super High quality entertainment can compete with it. That is biology at play.

It is amazing how we can so easily talk about advanced spiritual shit but we get so emotional and debaty about silly subjects like our basic biology that can be easily proven by good studies. Spirituality can be a subject so disconnected from survival and day to day that people's ego do not get affected badly by it. The rubber meets the road in the cases when your identity gets threatened by the topics.

Interesting. Idk if it is boredom, it is more like a joke guessing 😆

@Emerald God got so bored that it fools itself it is not God. God created entities limited in understanding and capabilities that try to outsmart other entities through all sorts of specializations. It is like me getting so bored that I create drama between imaginary friends in my head.

There are many guys who bullshit themselves around here for sure. If I stay here more than 30 min reading comments I die of boredom, but yea these kids have to begin somewhere. The bottom line is that in general men's biology is wired for truth. Nature specialized us in creating the safety for the tribe so that women could take care of the children. Humans lived in dangerous environments with scarce resources, like chimps do. Unlike bonobos who have a more matriachal social structure due to their evolution in a less scarce environment. Nature specialized highly social creatures who live in scarce environments so they survive more efficiently. A mama bear has as much femininity as she has masculinity in her. But we humans did not evolve like this. And this is the raw truth, and no amount of bitching and whining will change that. When talking biology, we talk studies, we talk human history, fauna etc. I only scratched the surface here, a bit of flexing so you relax and introspect a bit. Of course this contrast is less visible today with so many man-children and retards everywhere. In a sick society, the truth sounds like fake-news. Of course some women got a more autistic brain like men got and are more fit to seek the raw truth. Want to seek truth with us? Good, but keep in mind this is like a war, a war with yourself. A war against the bullshit Inside you. Good luck 🤞

Emerald And Princess: https://www.actualized.org/insights/why-masculinity-values-truth-more Read this 10 times. This is what I wanted to mean, but I could not write a 10000 word text because nobody would read my comment, I am a nobody. And my english is not the best, keep in mind that some people are not native english speakers here. Don't get what they mean? Ask. Cheers master, that was a good one.

Most people are clueless chimps so don't expect them to get politics. But we also cannot stop them from voting. Who is there to decide who can vote? Most chimps will vote what vibes with them, even if we have very smart people who involve themselves into politics, they might not get enough votes because chimps don't vibe with fairness and inclusivity. And when I mean inclusivity I don't mean woke inclusivity which excludes everyone they don't like. Bottom line: we can have lots of people involved in politics, but if their level of consciousness is low, they will push their low consciousness agenda onto others. We can just invest in education and wait until most chimps become lesser chimps.

Wow, capitalism at it's worst. They do it because they can.

I will first question: Am I really Stage Green? How am I sure of that? What exactly is Stage Green? How it differs from Yellow? In order to get and insight about a person being Green or Yellow I will ask them: What is a woman? If they come with some post-modern gender blind bullshit, that is a clear sign that they did not integrate Orange, rationality/hierarchy/disconnecting from feelings/science. And they clearly can't see stuff systemically outside of their petty paradigm. Then I will ask them: How do you know earth is not flat? If they come with some point to authority like: NASA proved that without being aware that they don't actually know that empirically, that would be a red flag.

Nice to hear that man! Big step. Be sure to keep your apartment organised and clean, this is key. You will be a lot happier when you see beautiful stuff around so keep it clean and add some art, flowers, nice furniture.

Because self-improvement is not football. It challenges your ego, it does not enforce it. And most people don't want to give up their ego, they want to convince themselves they do it but they actually don't. Doing this work properly implies denying your needs sometimes which is very hard work. This is why most people will never succeed in this work.

Thanks for the gaslight but I prefer my LED lamp. I won't engage in any debate about this subject with you, you are too ideological and closedminded about this subject. Maybe you are better in regards to other subjects but strictly here, you are mediocre at best. If you interpret what I said as opressing women then you just waste your time with this subject.

Quote: "It's guys like you that tries to oppress women and think we're masculine because we have something to say" This is a very serious offense and I never said women cannot be good intellectuals, it is that they can break the polarity in the relationship by always competing with the man, being in her masculine and not needing his containment. You yourself said that women should give this shit up and just be cute or that we should treat them like children. I understood your ideas without calling you a woman opressor even if it sounds fishy at first glance. After some contemplation I got you. But some people just spin it as they want. All the fucking time people interpreting stuff as they want on this topic. And before you talk nonsense I'd invite y'all to live in Sweden and see what happens when this subject cannot be discussed anywhere. Come and talk with some women here about how they feel in regards to their men.

Leo, please don't glue this nonsense to my persona! She being a woman has nothing to do with it. My banning comment was rage based, inappropriate and I apologize. I am very careful how I treat women and in fact I found Natasha's comments on this thread to be the most interesting. Of course you cannot just ban people willy-nilly and I understand there are high stakes on your back. I should've just ignore her. I really appreciate the patience you have with these people! I was active here in the last times especially because of this subject, I wanted to gather all the possible perspectives. And I learned a lot! I learned that some people will never get this subject and because of this, their lives might be ruined. I write a book about it. This comment is for you all. I lived in fucking Romania all my life and now blended among Swedes for the last three years. Women are living in hell, no matter if it is fkin Morocco or progressive Scandinavia. I remember how a woman in some third world country said that she could better raise her kids without her man, he just made her life a hell. Let that sink in My ex Swedish girlfriend told me that her girlfriends are just coping, not enjoying their relationships with thier partners. Let that sink in In the feminist Iceland, over 40% of women reported being abused in one way or another. Let that sink in Those yes-men nice guy kiss-assers also make women suffer, and even beat them as statistics show. Even if they are perceived as being so sweet and cool in some social situations because they never rock the boat. Just because we talk nice loosy goosy, gender blind ideas about masculinity and femininity won't solve this problem. The uncomfortable truth is that men and women are different and in general they need different stuff. I as a man feel very responsible for my woman's happiness. If a woman is not happy, it is mostly because some man in her life was or is shit. Leo himself said that a man has to be forged like a sword. Be a forged sword and take care of your women!

Whatever have a nice day.

My bad. I will use my ignoring muscle much more often. It is a sensitive subject for me and hits hard when people just come and shit on all your work.

It is not contradicting what I said. There are just a bunch of extremist cat ladies around but there is a big problem with society understanding masculinity and what men are. That is not extremism but just cluelessness

It is not the first time you just jump and attack people without understanding their point. It is not that you have no clue what you are talking about many times, it is that you try to teach others all the time and engage in debates. Instead of writing that stupid comment attacking me you could just ask me to clarify what I wanted to say. My reaction was too harsh of course but try reflect on you behavior instead of just acting superior all the time.

Nah, they are just a small minority of extremists, most people are reasonable. The thing that concerns me is the guys that get brainwashed into yes-men wimps. They are so lost and unattractive that you start seeing rich young Swedes dating fat girls from Thailand or women 20 years older than them. The dating world is scary already. And relationships are mutual torture agreements.

@AION don't forget the stocks on thought police institutions and LGBT+ flag factories(there will always be orders. Some new faction might add its own square, colour palette on it soon)

@Natasha Tori Maru i came to the realization that some people will never get the masculine-feminine dynamics. When you say something that does sound opressive towards women their logical brain just disconnects and they interpret everything as they want. The years of post-modern brainwashing took it's toll on society. They might frame complex masculine-feminine dynamics arguments that sound smart but all they advocate for is gender blindness. Everyone behaving the same.