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There is some frustration in the middle. Maybe it will fit more into the journal section. I debated it enough, if people don't agree, so be it. Just want to share what I observe but it is strongly related to the health/society. Edit: And I disagree that a forum should be only about debate all the time. People can come and add over what I said. Debate is more childish than a honest expression of an observation. Stop playing the role of the disciplined policeman. Move my post where you believe it belongs, DM me so I know next time and that's it.

not necessarly, some people get motivated to change only when they pay. And a mentor is not a coach. You can get advice for free on forums and by mailing the mentors.

You mean 1 on 1 coaching sessions? I doubt a professional coach will coach you for free. A coach can change a person's life completely especially if the person is the non-contemplative type. Maybe you are a contemplative dude like most people here and maybe this is why it feels useless for you. Most people just live life like dogs, they piss on the trees instead of contemplating life and taking action. Coaching is not really about advice, it is about guiding them to do what they don't: contemplate and create a step by step action plan. I have a friend who is the exact type of person who needs a coach, he follows Leo's teachings for years, bought his LP course but the problem is that he always looks for somebody else to tell him what to do and what is the truth instead of trusting his intuition and contemplate by himself. And those who just blabber their mouths and spin around ideas without taking clear action (like many spiritual people here) also need coaching. I started an ICF course here in Sweden and looking forward to change people's lives. I'll start coaching people for free but after I feel confident enough, it will be at least 130 dollars per session.

This thing is soo rare, with the amount of influence and knowledge Leo has, he could turn into a local rockstar and have all the hot girls and millions of dollars, he could create a harem of 10/10 girls just for himself, but he chose not to.

"How hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of heaven! Indeed, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of heaven." - Jesus Not just that they will never find the absolute truth but they'll also suffer because being selifsh is depressing. When you choose money and hedonism over relatioships, compassion, and altruism, that will alienate you from others and make you suffer. That would be and example of karma.

Curious to hear your opinions on this. Is the Sweden's forbidding approach more reasonable or should we adopt the Netherlands approach of legalizing it? Or US approach of "If you film it, it is legal" 😆

Something to add: If the girl is wounded, she will fall for a wounded man. And as @puporing said, good looks matter less as the woman matures.

See!?? How easy it is to completely distort a man's image on attraction with some silly ideas? Just because Leo or some other influencer tells you looks matter, don't believe it! Test it and experience it personally, my god.

How would you guys describe "good" genetics? To be tall? To have a beard and thick scalp hair? Jaw bone? Because the incels fucked their whole lives blindly believing in some of these silly theoies. So a more specific description of good genetics would be needed. Also, define "attraction". If I got a date based on my dating app profile then after the first date she walked away, does it mean I attracted her or not? Of course looks play a crucial role when a girl knows nothing about you, because that is the only input. DId you attract her when you got a smile at first sight or when she got in bed with you?

Thanks for your new insights Will pay attention and observe it first hand.

@Yali I was thinking about that because girls usually look for a realtionship, a guy who will "stick around" and fun to be with, therefore losing attraction after the first date. At least the ones that I like. @Vrubel Had the same experience! Vibe and energy is so important.

Also to mention that are more elements at play. If the girl is looking mostly for a one night stand then the looks and fitness are more important, but if she is looking for a father to her kids, the things get complicated. She will take many more factors into consideration.

Exactly! I was quite a hot guy in terms of looks during highschool but I sucked at this. All my looks were in vane. There are lots of factors that keeps her attracted, maybe the looks play a big role in the beggining as she does not have any other inputs from you. ex: dating apps

Looks are just a plus for men, unlike in women where no matter how cool and nice they are, bad looks will ruin their show. FIrst what do you mean by looks? Physical fitness? If you are fit, that will tell the girl something about your personality, that you are disciplined and take care of yourself so you will also take care of her(probably). Personality, charisma, social status is way more important, I've seen guys who look like complete garbage seen as rockstars in highschool because of their charisma, influence and status.

Yes! And videochat also. It is the new "If you don't pull yourself together you'll end up selling Burgers".

Yes it is about the morals, ask your grandma what she thinks about legalizing it. and the majority of stage blue people think the same. Then it comes stage green with feminism and protection of women, they also want to forbid it. But if you forbid it, the criminal gangs will take care of it and treat the porstitutes 10 times worse. There is a huge demand of this service even if we agree with it or not.(I don't and will probably never need it I hope)

nonsense sorry.

I agree, I am just thinking about how well these girls are are feeling by doing it. Some might enjoy it but most of them might do it because they need money which is very sad.

Go for it then Actually in some third world countries like USA, having a million dollar is a necessity not a luxury.

and after that million dollar you'll want 10 million. The thing is that you must feel enough as you are. If you can afford to live comfortably and perhaps travel from time to time, you're more than good. I see many actualized members who still live as mindless sheep There is no guarantee that you'll be saved from misery just by being on this forum.

agree

Personally I try to integrate spirituality in day to day life, maybe later I'll also try some more radical practices. I've seen too many people who rush into spirituality and fuck everything up, it is the day to day behaviour that makes the difference and that requires 15-20 years of holistic development. If I want to see how spiritual you are I won't ask you about your awakenings, I'll ask your spouse and friends of an honest opinion on how you're treating them. How connected you are to your needs and wants, how happy you seem to be etc.. Any idiot can take some mushrooms for a period and then talk about god.

completely agree, I think we need to be very careful about any group activity, the most growth I got in life is from spending time alone and contemplating life, not being around a bunch of spiritual clowns.

I think he meant a waste of time regarding awakening, my mini meditations help me be more happy, focused and basically more conscious. I suffer less, but maybe won't "awaken" me to alien intelligence

This is just apple marketing shit, never had problems with my android and nobody cares about my private info and in Europe there is something called privacy laws, maybe they sell you better adds and that's it. Iphone is just overpriced opulent accessory, it is good but why? It is like buying a Lamborghini.