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Sad truth. They eithter watch the already established big youtubers who will show up in recommendations or some silly shorts through which one hardly can offer any value.

@eTorro Are you sure you are as spiritual as you think? Firstly how old are you? I heard of a lot of 21 year old heroes who went through the dark night of the soul and shit. A real spiritual person has integrated the Tier 1 stages and burned the karmas. It seems you are an introvert as most of us here are, it is totally normal to not fit in big groups as an intorvert. Go out with one friend at a time and introduce them to you deep ideas. As women are more social and less autistic on average, they might not be so interested in you nerdy stuff but they might be intersted in personal development if you introduce it in a calibrated and non-pushy way.

If you want to rent a room in a collective or to live in someone's house, you are much more likely to get accepted as a girl. Why are men cleaning less, caring less about the environment they live in? I have answers but I am curious of yours.

We have an over reaction against masculinity because of the horrors men did in the past. Healhy masculinity is also harder to pull out, it is a balance walk between empathy and cutting the bullshit. I was thinking about this when I saw Leo deciding who deserves a ban and who deserves another chance.

@Lila9 Good points. We need more healthy masculinity in the world that will bring life and energy to men, so many men are like zombies from what I notice. Men are like a bicycle, if they don't go forward towards some meaningful goal, they fall. Office jobs, bad marriage, no education in healthy maculinity are sucking their energy. I remember asking my grandfather about his job as a teacher, his eyes lighened up when someone asked him what he used to work. Ask now a programmer what he works with.

They value their cars more than their girls

Of course there are specific men who are tidy, do you understand what a generalization is?

No offence guys but see the person for what he/she is. Musk is good at business, he knows how to make an idea reality, that does not make him some political expert, he sucks at politics. The same way Bernie Sanders might suck at building a business. Musk is not an intellectual, far from it.

Your point can be valid because usually the dreamer, ambitious, introvert kinds are the ones who split from the sheep herd and do something amazing with their lives.

This one! Above this, I think there is the cultural aspect of women being judged more harshly by being messy.

I mentioned "on average", depends heavily on culture, environment, social circle, family.

for some reason we need a serious military style environment in order to become real men, to feel a sense of purpose and pride in our lives. Otherwise we grow into soft, disgusting gamers. In most cases it just doesn't work to juste tell them: " honey, you should clean your room, it is filthy"

How exactly are you going to impact the food industry? What are the flaws you see in it and how will you change them?

There are many factors that make a person to be diagnozed with ADHD. The way doctors understand it is medieval. You can be born a dreamer, or an introvert who gets bored by small talk and shit, or a more ambitious person who does not care about the average shit that happens in the moments an think of what is you next big move, you can be born with a neurodiverse brain that does not fit in the "normal" parameters of the medieval medicine system and culture you are born into. OR, and this is a big one, trauma that pushed you to find a coping mechanism of distracting yourself from your body and feelings, because it would be to painful to become conscious of them.

@integral I was a vegan for three years and I did serious sports and stuff. Had no problem, had perfect body mass etc. If somebody chooses to be a vegan and he/she does not suffer in any way because of it, what is the problem? If you eat vegan an hate it, always feeling hungry and stuff, or you eat tons of wheat and junk just to not eat meat and preach to others about how saint you are because you sacrifice yourself, then that ca be a problem.

Here's one for you aspiring to Tier 2. When you're doing a new action, or you are reacting in a new way. Take a few moments and refect by asking yourself: "What are the systemic implications of this new action or reaction?" We personal development nerds are biased to be different and do things differently, but many of the mainstream things are quite good because they passed the time test or they serve a need. Time testing a thing is actually observing how the specific thing reacts and influences the complex systems that it is a part of by testing it over and over in different ways. For example the two genders that 99+ percent of us use. When you reach Green, you start wondering: "Why the hell just two???" Want to reach Yellow? Then you also have to ask: "Why more than two? And why it worked like this for thousands of years?" I am very tempted to say: "Why do people do this thing? It seems stupid." For example cutting themselves. As I got wiser and older, I started to also ask: "What are the advantages of this stupid thing people are doing?" Ah they cut themsleves because the emotional pain is unbearable and they need to distract themselves with physical pain.

Exactly! Just because you get brainwashed into a meme does not mean you have the maturity and cogdev to fully embody it and act balanced from it. It is sad to see so many broken kids because they cannot operate from the meme they got brainwashed into. It is like installing Windows 10 on a Pentium 3.

I even slept in that forest, went to a festival there also.

it can be flawed if we think that we should do nothing because we are also a part of the problem. I also fly and so on and at the same time are argue against flying so often. It is when you go to extremes and block the roads that this argument shows your hypocrisy. You should not stop people from going to work and feeding their children, not even if you trevel by bicycle everywhere and eat grass all day.

@Danioover9000 WIth this level of dogma and ideological behavior, I can't call them stage Green. Just because a stupid monkey tries to behave like a human does not make it a human. These extremists that insult people and block the roads are Blue.

Bunch of hypocrites. They block the roads and shit, then they fly to Thailand with some fucking 4 jet engine 747, buy cheap stuff from Aliexpress, use oil based products etc.

@Majed Veganism is not neccessarily stage green, it can be stage blue. It is an identity, exacly like the punker or rocker identity. Thye tell a story to themselves: "I am vegan, I protect animals, I am empathic, I am this and that". As long as it does not become an obsession and they don't preach to others like the mormons do with their Jesus, no problem. Veganism is good for the environment and it can be even for the body if veganism makes them avoid more of the junkfood present around. OR it could be detrimental for the body, if they eat two tons of refined carbs and shit instead of meat.

pretty much a scammer who sprinckles some good info from time to time. This stuff here can be found in Seth Godin's books.

@VictorB02 I like his niche thing, but his vibe is the typical american self-help macho guru. He is trying too hard to be special and interesting, this pulls the Orange business people but repells the serious people who just want a normal educated person who can help with some specific thing. I don't get why you all guys find him so smart. But yes, he has his niche, Orange immature wannebe rich guys. If one of my ex GF would see me watch this guy, she would have dry vagina the whole week. Maybe that batshit craziness is authentic to him but not for all those poor guys who will try to imitate him and fail miserably. 2 milion dollars in leather jackets, wow bravo dude, you nailed life. Stop doing the dishes because you might lose some business opportunity during that. Now I see where he knocks, I also get repelled by all these soft spoiled Swedes who coast on welfare support and boring jobs but he is the other extreme.

You do both, learn to enjoy solitude and find people with whom you have genuine connection (most probably other introvers). You fragment even more if you try to be someone you are not. Depends a lot on personality, I am an introvert masculine person, which means I don't waste my time with bullshit and tell unconfortable truths. I resonate with people that have a growth mindset, no matter the stage they are at. When I meet escapism driven people, I get turned off exactly like a girl gets turned off by some creepy dude.