Alexop

This is why I became a man, because my situation was so dire that I either became a man or die. And this si why 99% of men are not men, because this not happened to them. Anyway, I don't expect them to know what I know or follow my personal development journey, I just want to have fun, not to feel like I die of boredom around them. I could do that with machos, because they were carefree and had social skills, not like these Swedish wimps who rot in front of a PC all day. With these guys I just politely try to avoid them as much as possible and aim for the girls.

@SwiftQuill i am a feminist then. 90% of men suck 9% suck even more 1% is good

I love feminine women

@BlueOak yeah I mean it is not rocket science for why is this happening. -lack of accountability -lack of role models -lack of challenges -lack of proper theory in what a man is and isn't -social media/isolation/video games/porn etc...

Lol what do you mean? I mean of course woman's behaviour plays a role in it but still.. when thousands of women say the same thing you start to wonder.

Good point. It is an insult to children.

I never say never man, they have my respect and I don't see them as idiots, I see them as a byproduct of a sick society. Actually, women don't like them, but they have no other option. What would be the other option? A macho jerk that manipulates and bullies them? Lost the count of swedish/expat women who told me how boring men are. And I didn't even push the subject, it is a deep frustration they have.

@BlueOak by coping I mean dealing with them in daily life because you have no option. Personally I gave up making guy friends, but I still deal with them at work, at parties etc. If I take them seriously, I get angry/disappointed. Since I gave up trying to make friends and treating them as children it worked much better for me. I take them from where they are at and see what they can offer, if they prove my skepticism wrong, good for them. But I interacted with hundreds of guys in my whole life and 99% of them disappointed me. We don't build men anymore, we build idiots. I also grew up in the online world, I also had traumas and so on, but I fixed myself, and that is what a man does . You don't do that and follow a sheep herd instead, you are not a man. I don't give a shit about their vipassana retreats, about their theories, about any of that shit. It is just a cope they do to mask the fear, laziness and unconsciousness.

Even Swedish government sell weapons to IDF and have Israel apologetic rethorics I

ok, I will contemplate that,

I get your "no bullshit" approach tot things Leo, but sometimes there has to be place for interpetation and discussion. It depens what art means for you, for some it might be art, for some not. Some fancy video game can be perceived as art by some nerds like us, but for my mother it might be just a bunch of pixels on a screen. Amazing feats of engineering wake the same emotions in me as some Picasso paintings do for some avant-garde art consumers. I get it, I am also tired of entertaining post-modern fluff of woke fools, but we can exaggerate the other way also.

Flying to the moon is art. Dutch urbanism is art. Government employs aritsts that do the art.

@Leo Gura Imagine the government making games. Baiscally a competent non-corrupt govenrment can innovate and make stuff many times better than corporations, because they have loads of money and connections. Think about what NASA did. Gov programs gave us most of the amzing tech we have now, privates just took the tech and made profits with it.

Most people are children, Leo's work is not for children.

As Leo said, you'll never know for sure. People might hide their real faces or behave in evil ways. Until you know the person personally and see how they interract with others in pressing situations where their patience and felxibility is pushed to the limits you can't make a accurate conclusion. I have no clue how well Leo is treating his girlfriends for example. I think we should make a distinction between intellectual stage Yellow and behavioral stage Yellow. When shit hits the fan, people regress into monkey behavior.

ask them trap questions that will reveal their biases and partisanship. When they aren't able to see perspectives as they are, just perspectives, and they put thier worldview as asbolutely better, then that's not Yellow.

At the end, Kyle says he did not go far enough. From a big picture perspective I would say that even if he went further with progressive politics, Trump would still have come into power, judging from an Integral SD perspective. You just can't go full Stage Green in the US with no bad consequences. 1. Average folk from the country side are not even Orange, they will not jump a stage, they have to burn though Orange first. So Green full steam ahead will lead to backlash. 2. The Super rich will lobby the shit out of any possible news anchor in order to keep their millions, and the "woke" Green gave them enough propaganda material.

Don't let my smile trick you. I am a badass MF. I eat armchair forum sages for breakfast. I don't ask for your POVs, I ask your GF how happy she is with you.

On the one hand, I kind of get your point, that Yellow people could be wise enough to win the majority of people by understanding all points of view. On the other hand, right now I can't see a moderate, mature vibed politician winning. you win now by pressing emotional buttons, and I doubt Yellow will want to play that game.

@Carl-Richard I think the hardest part is integrating Yellow on day to day life. Those 1-2% are the ones who live through Yellow not just logically understand it. If you follow us for 6 months, you will logically get it it, it is not that hard. But to live from Yellow, that is shit hard. in the same way anyone can understand that by swearing to a guy that cut your way is pointless, but you do it anyway when it happens. Never get tricked by words, I look at actions. Any fool can come with theories.

@Elliott i was expecting him to lie, he has that lier vibe. It seems he is convincing people however, part of this has to hold some water. I have do check his case.

I just finished this. Idk how much of this guys story is true, but if at least 50% is true, then I understand why Trump got in power

If you throw uncomfortable truths to people you meet the first time, you might repell anybody, even mature men. It just sends an autistic, immature vibe. In a relationship, after many years of letting the person know who you are, you might create even more attraction with telling uncomfortable truths. Because she sees that you are not afraid to show your real opinions, you show up as real and honest. Combine that with long episodes of compassion and empathy, and she will melt in your presence.

dudes, in what fantasy world you live in? I see most men being even more immature than most women. I see women face the truths of life while men increasingly escape the world through gaming, porn, shitpill, men apologetic ideologies. Even most men on this forum are very immature. Look at relationships, men destroy relationships because of their immaturity in most cases.

Do you deny that clothing does not affect the situation? Lol