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Exactly, children are getting taught things that most politically active people think it is right. That will influence the academic world. If universities don't comply with what the government believes, they can get their licence withdrawn or whatever. When most politically active people think we are all the same and femininity & masculinity are conservative crap we have to get rid of, then you get that nuthead from Iceland separating girls and boys in kindergarden and teaching them different stuff.

A mature society will democratically choose mature people to teach their chidren. The same as swedes don't choose Tate figures to rule their country.

This is what happens when we let people who did not yet experience the Dunning–Kruger effect to rule society. Same as in spirituality when a kid who went 10 days to a vipassana tells us how we should behave.

@Bobby_2021 Their problem is that they only use one half of the brain in the equation. They have good intentions but it is not enough. We are different, we have different prefferences in general. There are studies on this. Fun fact about the ICF coaching course I went to: coaching is an EQ-based profession, the trainers were two women and the attendees were 7 women... and me. At my first job in Sweden as a massage therapist at a SPA, the staff was composed of 11 girls, one gay guy, and me. At nurse school there are around 100 women for every 10 male students. Sweden the big mamma of gender equality has made considerable efforts to equalize the gender gap in professions, but the result was the opposite, the gap is even bigger in Scandinavia than in more traditional countries. People will choose to work whatever they want to work regardless of your equality ideals and ideologies. Scandinavian countries try to erase the behavioral difference between men and women, teaching boys to be more emotional and girls to be stronger and more resilient. Basically swingging the pedulum from one extreme to the other, if traditional countries push for widening the gap between men and women, progressive countries push for making them behave the same. As Leo said, teaching people about masculinity & femininity is crucial here. Yes there are some border cases of authentic feminie men and authentic masculine women, gay people etc... but the general trend is that 90%+ of people fit their biological gender and gravitate towards the corresponding energy.

@Bobby_2021 Ask them, have no idea what the hell they're doing.

@Leo Gura DId you read Beyond Mars and Venus? Do you agree with John Gray's hormone theories?

Exactly this is what I was contemplating! They tell them all this queer ideology but they don't mention masculinity and femininity, they try to erase them. I saw how in Iceland they were separating girls form the boys and teaching boys how to be more sensitive and girls how to be stronger.

I'd have a conservative approach, even the most educated parents still don't really undertand how to find your authentic self. There is a risk that even the childs parents don't really know who the hell they are. There is so much to learn and contemplate here. There has to be real intellectuals and experts who need to deal with that, not some ideological parents and politicians. Gender is a social construct but I identify as a "man" because this construction fits my looks, biology, hormone dynamics, personality, sexual orientation. Kids just look for appreciation and love, if they get love by identifying as a punker, they will become a punker and adopt those looks. If their friends will love them more by being bisexual then they will do that. Be open-minded but be carful so that your brains don't fall off.

Good advice overall. Whole grain pasta is still crap, novels can also become addictive.

Wondering if it is worth it if I want to work as a coach on my own.

What I don't like about ChatGPT is that is too careful so that it does not harm in any way. When talking about sensitive topics, it avoids the questions and does the typical wokeslpaining. The Calude 3 that you guys are talking about is not allowed in my region, I should use a VPN maybe.

AI is smart and you have to admit it, just by simply interconnecting the tons of information it has about the world. Soul and emotions wil not map the world and make distinctions, logic will. It is still in development though, keep in mind the first Iphone.

As @Schizophonia, the man is the one coming with the current, men have shiloads of personal develpment to do until they can call themselves men. And will be double as hard when the influencing woke mob around him has no clue what real masculinity is. What happens when men fail to become men? the woman has to become the man and she'll hate it in most cases. Or another cool meataphor: The man is the nature and the woman is the flower, if he providers her sun and water, she can relax, be vulnerable and beautiful. If the man is a desert, she'll become a cactus.

@Princess Arabia Thanks for feedback. There will be editings for sure. I want to add one more section where I'll encourage to ignore sex and gender and only focus on the energies. Only the contemplation I did for writing this changed my day to day life, amazing how these two energies shape our behavior. People who ignore and don't study this topic are prone to a life of suffering. Observing this in people and yourself daily will change your life.

some truth here haha.

Whant can I say, good luck then becoming god or whatever you want to achieve! My passion is to understand the mechanisms through which we bullshit ourselves even if this will cost me friends, sex, relationships or even happiness. If I would only want to be happy, I would join a stage green permaculture community and live there in fake bliss. I hope you guys will ultimately understand that you cannot jump over stage yellow, you adore your gurus, but your gurus are masters of logical thinking also. The real ones.

We are animals dude. We survive instinctually also, especially you. Most people do not use logic to survive, and that is fine. But our complex world we have today requires logic and mapping. If we still lived in the woods, everything would come natural to us, there won't be any woke clowns to tell you that biology doesn't matter. If you don't have a good living philosophy in these days you'll end up suffering like a dog.

I mentioned in the article that these are two energies within us. Without my logic I would be probably dead now dude. With logic and distinctions you can create an action plan and understand the world for real. This hippie rethoric sound great and all of that, but in practice your life is nowhere near good, you don't take intellectual responsibility to have a fixed point. Words are a cheap tool for the ego, actions impress me and I did not met a spiritual hippe who's not broken yet. Only cheap chat, parroting the gurus and memories from the trips. But after all that, now I know whom are the people to take around me, and these spiritual monkeys found on this forum won't be my first choice. Rather talk to chatgpt, way smarter.

Where are all the male prostitutes then? Why are there no female incel forums? You do not understand what "on average" means dude. Study dating apps and see how the dynamics are completely asymmetric, dudes struggling to get a date and girls getting overwhelmed by the demand. They want it but in a different way, they want a whole emotional experince not just the act of sex.

You are the exact hippie I am talking about 😂. Watch the nuances. John Grey's books were gold because after reading them I could see the examples everywhere, do you really think we all were socialized into this? That sounds like a conspiracy theory, a hippie one. The same way we have different bodies, even different bone densities, we have IN GENERAL different brains. We basically have different organs in our bodies, you tell me our behavior is exactly the same? Give me a break. If you ever got a girlfirend, or will in the future, remember or notice her mood swings through her mens cycle. Of course you behave on an averaged way when you don't know who you are because nobody showed you how to search. Leftists basically socialize people into behaving the same and then say: "look! All these men-women stereotypes were just a social construction!" Some kindergardens in Iceland separate the boys from the girls and they teach the boys how to show emotions and the girls how to be stronger and more aggressive.

Man, conservative relative to what? We are talking about HItler being a conservative relative to the way the world was ruled for thousands of years, with cruelty, racism, slavery and autocracy. His mindset was so extremely conservative that even conservatives of that time might look progressive in contrast. Use spiral dynamics to understand it, these are just word games and redefining terms.

Words are just words, what he did is just to create basic stage red-blue ideological state. Is North Korea pregressive? Because progressive is the opposite of conservative. An egomaniac is conservative by nature, he conserves the egotistical beliefs and behaviours that hauted the past for thosuands of years, read history and you'll see that what he did is nothing new.

I am also 28 and not feel old at all, my life just beggins. In fact I was waiting till this moment so I feel mature enough to start my dream business as an intellectual. Take care of you health and you'll be just as fresh even after 50 more years. The ICF coaching course I just started is held by a 80 years old swedish woman. She is wearing pink clonthes and is swift, clear minded and fresh as a 30 year old.

I remember Sadhguru saying to his audience: reduce sleep, I sleep around 2 hours a night. That one turned me off and never watched him again, that kind of advice is even worse than the mainstream gymbuddy advice. He is conscious but he seems disconnected from reality.

I own a mid end Xiaomi and it works well since 3 years. Now that I have more money, I'll probably buy something better like a oneplus or smth. I want to add that Apple sucks even if nobody asked me.