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Yes, they get triggered alot. They usually grow up in a very pampering environment where nobody says no to them. And such spiritual shit I don't really talk at all. I get bored by spiritual people. I do spirituality, I don't talk about it. I suggest you do the same. People who talk about spirituality all the time are full of shit. When you finally think you mastered the ego, ithe ego pulls the last card, spirituality. Personal development is so hard to be done right and I myself suffered for 15 years in oder to finally dare to say I am at Tier 2. I don't really push it on anyone anymore. It is very rare to meet a person who will have the will, motivation, vision, genetics, wisdom to go through all this hell. Leo's videos are a free gold mine and virtually nobody cares. Low view count, low retention, and I suspect very low embodyment.

Well said! Generally they are more conscious than the mainstream society, Green > Orange. And there truly are good people who are open to healthy masculinity among them. Generally the older more mature ones who saw the problems that arrise with denying masculinity.

Those hippie people who live in their communities can be even shittier than the city people. If you are not feminine and emotional/vibey enough, they get triggered. My strong masculine personality does not fit into that environment. There is no polarity, men and women behave the same. Social engineering against masculinity. They deny their masculine nature, especially guys because they have a more masculine nature.They talk a lot of new-age shit which is boring and unstimulating. But they are good artists, women are beautiful because feminine people flourish there and are not traumatized by the Stage Orange social media beauty standards and conformism. It breeds lovely women and weak men. Men develop through challenge, accountability, consequences etc. not in that hippie dippie nonsense

I just accepted that people will never satisfy me. I try to work with what I have and not ask for more. It is not other people's business to fix my happiness. And I understand better now why some people are so conformist and closed minded. Because realising this Leo stuff will force them to be fake with others and other people are their primary way to get happiness.

I was a lot more vibe driven and "just do it" guy. That until I realised how important theory is, then I started to do stuff in a strategic Theory based manner.

What qualifies as an ND? Men in general are more autistic, are most men ND?

True. Especially in a pussified/woke social group, you need to be careful of being too authentic as an ND.

I agree with what you wrote but that doesn't infirm what I said. There are people who want to get good at stuff without too much theory. Even enjoying time with friends needs theory nowadays. We got so fucked up that we need to learn how to socialize, what to say, what not to say. If you want to get good at a complex topic you need a solid theoretical base. A complex mental map that will guide you and make you understand the importance of what you do. That motivates you to invest time into it.

Word. These people who say theory is a waste of time have no idea what they are talking about. That idea itself comes from a lack of understanding mind mechanics and ideology.

"life not lived accordingly to their ND genes" led to their chronic health problems? Lol. That Dr. K talks a lot of bullshit. He fits in the orthodox self-help norms because it helps his survival. He does not understand masculinity and femininity, men and women and he leads people astray. Tried to listen to a podcast with him and got annoyed. Science parroting automaton. Of course almost everyone who cares about Leos work and seriously watched the videos and took notes are more autistic. People who watch this are systematizing, mapping oriented, cerebral, disagreeable people. Social consensus matters less than discovering truth to us. If that was not the case why should we watch hundreds of hours of content and contemplate and talk about this stuff for ages? Non-autistic people conform to the social norms.

I personally try to avoid deep philosophical and political conversations especially with new people. Or I just go into some generally accepted topics. My very authentic self loves talking about this Leo stuff. But I also have a fun part of myself that connects and enjoys social interactions through joking, laughter, all sorts of activities. People nowadays are quite weak emotionally and can avoid you if you are disagreeable with them. Try to find other versions of you who feel authentic but do not include opinions, statements etc. that might trigger people. I have a big message on my wall which says: "know and don't tell". Another "silence is gold". If I don't have anything reasonable to say, I just shut up. If I can have fun, I will. If I cannot have fun in any way with some people, I stop seeing them.

https://actualized.org/insights/my-work-is-insanely-efficient Regarding this. Leo's work is unfortunately too ahead of its time. A small percentage of people actually finish the videos, and the view count itself is small imo. Recently, a friend of mine who watched Leos videos for years started to say it is quote: "just useless theory". That after he took the hippie vipassana train. The videos are just too advanced, People who don't have a psyche who at least borders tier 2 will see little to no value in his work. I am just blown away by this friend who saw more than half of the videos, he learned Spiral Dynamics and we talked about it for years, now comes out saying it is just useless theory. And controversially I would say you need a dose of autism to really appreciate this kind of stuff. Mostly guys. People who nerd about this stuff are those kinds of people who would play with toy trains at age 50. People watch 4 hours bushcraft videos of a guy cutting wood and drying his clothes. People who do solo retreats over the winter holidays to avoid the social nonsense. People who collect drones. You name it.

Get used to boredom, that is the key. This Stage Orange society is brainwashing us to always chase stuff. Sit down for a few hours everyday and enjoy it. On the other hand, find a pleasurable way to make money, it doesn't have to be something ultra fancy, just something that is aligned with your values and personality.

He is just one man and there are lots of other teachers who cover the basic personal development stuff. He is passionate about the deep shit that nobody gets to understand properly.

1. Spiral Dynamics center of gravity. You cannot have a Stage Green gov in a Blue/Orange country 2. Media as Daniel said 3. Frustrations over poor survival pushes people to be even more irrational and stupid.

Telling evil does not exist to maybe 99% of people will be perceived as telling them aliens visited us already hahah.

Moving early to a country that suited me better. I felt like living around the wrong people, did not manage to find a quality girl as they were very rare. Shit infrastructure, lots of smokers, low pay.

@theleelajoker generalizations and categorizations are important in order to understand how everything functions. Wait until your survival gets affected by the lack of descriptive knowledge.

dude, the purpose is understanding how reality works. If some people use these discussions wrongly, that is their problem. In the same way we observe that cats do not really like to behave like dogs. That helps us understand cats and their needs and preferences. In fact I observe lots of ego in these post-modern people who hate mapping and intellectualizing the world. Don't understand a subject? Easy. Just deny it's importance and call the people who analyze it as full of ego. Be careful with denying subjects just because they sound off to you.

given the knowledge about female and male biology, we can say men are more inclined to detaching from groupthink and motivating themselves to pursue a higher purpose, to intellectualize more, to map stuff, to figure out stuff, which might give them an advantage. But that only if they are properly "forged" into mature men, because we also see lots of men-children nowadays. Of course culture is an influence, but culture is influenced by biology. We can isolate that variable by examining all the possible cultures, societies and tribes in the world and we will notice common patterns, tendencies and preferences. This men vs women topic is very difficult because you don't know how much is biology and how much is culture. Especially in this pursuit of awakening question. Suffering motivates everyone. If a woman suffers a lot, she might motivate herself enough to pursue whatever at the same level as men, but that might be statistically rarer.

@Leo Gura just want to thank you again for the masculinity vs. femininity posts. It is amazing to me that so few influencers talk about it and understand the thing. So many people misunderstand this topic. Most debates and podcast like discussions about it are shallow and disappointing. What will you predict to happen in the coming 50 years if the collective wisdom will not integrate this aspect of reality? Because for me it seems like a Trump effect. People are so stubborn about it that we really have to fuck it up very badly in order to trigger enough suffering that will push us to change our minds about it. I don't judge by the way, it took me years to understand this and I might have bought the post-modern slop if I did not have stumbled upon serious philosophers that point out these flaws.

Who is tranphobic here dude? Chill out. You need a break from politics.

Don't worry, if it happens it will only be the end of humanity not the end of the 🌎 "world". Which will actually be a good thing for earth. If I was a planet, I would search myself for humans and, if positive, treat it immediately.

We have that is Sweden, and USA should do the same. We have social-democrats which are the non-woke left, we have the woke left (party's motto is: feminist and anti-racist party) and we have the greens which are the "environment is destroyed; end of the world is near" people. Social-democrats have 30%, The Left party has around 6%. The far right party has over 20%, I wonder why.

Well, the left is screaming all day trans and all sorts of identity politics, they are making a big thing out of it. Then the right is just using that as propaganda fuel. Woke left destroyed the image of the mature left. Leftist politics is not even about trans and shit. Left is about power to the people and not the elites, but they screamed so much of that woke shit that we now identify the left with such stuff.