Alexop

These insights are pure gold nowadays. You guys have no idea how lucky you are you stumbled upon Leo/Teal Swan/David Deida. I met people who are absolutely killing it in terms of economy/politics/science/business etc. but they simply cannot accept these basic things. They are basically fucked for life. Thanks Leo for shining some light onto this post-modern madness we live in!

If this post made you contemplate whether personal development is worth the suffering and loneliness it brings, here you have a list with all the traps and shit the normies fall into, assuming they live in the West: -they will eat tons of wheat based products that will make them fat and destroy their digestive system because mainstream nutritionists even to this day do not understand how bad wheat is. -they will poison their body with heavy metals, PFAs, microplastics, pesticides etc. found in specific foods and products that they have no idea about -they will become wage slaves to some dead end job and they will not be able to change that because of all the debt they accumulated though buying houses, cars etc. that they cannot afford -they will not be able to become men and women and will have disastrous romantic relationships, they won't understand how attraction works, they will gaslight their partner, because nobody tells them about masculinity and femininity -they will have some unruly or broken children because they have no idea how to raise them properly. -they will have no clue about spirituality and how it can change their lives -they will never ever have a spiritual awakening -they will never know how to find truth by themselves but trusting other people like sheep -they will constantly be frustrated because they don't understand politics, economy, relationships, power, war, how ideology works, how the mind works, what the essenc eof the universe is -because of not learning a dev. psychology model like Spiral-Dynamics, they will never understand the above. -they will become addicted to porn, drinking, sugar, wheat, netflix, tiktok, mindless chatter with their friends etc. -they will have constant drama and fights with their friends and family -they won’t have the discipline to keep a tidy home and environment -they will die with regrets probably SO good luck my friends! It is 100% worth the loneliness and suffering in the end. Even if you draw a line at the end of your life and conclude that you suffered more than a normie, what is the point in suffering a bit less? Is life only about minimizing suffering at all costs? Even at the cost of truth?

Basically nobody cares about serious pursuit of truth and personal development. even with the most educated people I met in my life, I still have to tip-toe around subjects because their beliefs and worldviews are so fucked up that I would just annoy/insult them if I was truly honest. Is it worth it? Of course, some feelings of loneliness pales in comparison with knowing you are truly the top 0.1 % of people who take life very seriously, not just playing survival shit. The ones who say they do this work? Haha, I have to be even more careful with them, because they have built an ego around their false beliefs and actions and are easy to offend. Core lesson. Either be dead serious about this work or let it go and stop building an ego around your ideas, spirituality, political views, and shit, because they are most probably wrong. I just had a talk with a very educated influencer from my home country who talks advanced politics. The dude is killing it in regards to understanding the economy and nerdy stuff like that. But even him cannot understand the basic asymmetry of femininity vs. masculinity which mostly throws his work into the trash bin. If you don’t understand femininity vs. masculinity, your LGBT+ understanding is shit, your relationships understanding is shit, your sociology understanding is shit, your understanding of who YOU are and what you want is mostly shit.

I am working towards becoming a coach, but this realization makes me reluctant about leading people into serious self-improvement. The amount of suffering and loneliness I went through in order to reach the point where I find myself now is just too much for the average folk. I think I'll focus on helping them with basic survival like how to fix their nutrition, health, relationships.

Well a good way to live like a monk can be to move to some welfare state and exploit the gov then haha. I see lots of people here in Scandinavia staying years in a row on gov support. Just play sick and you can be a monk lol. The problem is that these leeches use this advantage to watch netflix and porn not grow themsleves, which is disgusting. Finally average people have the opportunity to live like monks but they use this opportunity for jerking off. Those who use it, are in regress not in progress. Thanks for sharing your present views on women, interesting! It is hard to forget about women, I think they are a core motivator for men in life.

@nexusoflife I reccon that this masculinity vs. femininity plus lack of socialization are among the top problems that will fuck us up in the future if no serious turning point solves the issue. That is because relationships are a critical pillar for most people's mental health. If this falls all the way down, I am concerned about the sanity of our people. The average Joe and the basic Josefine does not have Leo's career and life purpose, they will have a hard time finding meaning and happiness in something other than relationships.

By the way Leo! How much of your happiness and development potential gets affected by the fact that you can't find the exact woman you wish having? In case you are still single, otherwise it is a stupid question 😆

@Leo Gura yes, it is a balance between meeting your needs and staying away from sickness.

It depends a bit on your personality also. If you are a spicy masculine person, just being around normies and holding your handbrake on all the time is not fun. It can feel like you sell your soul to the devil for the sake of conformity, meeting needs and not hurting others. On the other hand, there are people like Eckhart Tolle, who is very developed but also authentically feminine and chill, he has an easier time being around normies.

If you tune it well, it is smarter than virtually anyone you ever met in person. It is amazing what good job these AI people did. But you have to tune it, because the default GPT is very feminine and politically correct so it does not incubate extremists and to not traumatize you with too much truth.

Yes! That's it. Had to learn it the hard way. I had an ideology in my head in the past that I have to be honest with people otherwise I am a lier, but no, you just cannot be mask off all the time. That is femininity basically, strategically holding back your honesty in order to get the best outcome for everyone.

Yea that makes sense. As Stage Green comes online, the feminity bias kicks in.

I don't dare to give you an answer as I did not live there. I think it goes towards that if it is not already there.

I've spent lots of time among Green people the last years and suppression of/misunderstanding masculinity is one of their biggest weaknesses. They are culturally castrating their men then hating them lol.

Kind of. I mean even some boring dude from Sweden is better than a shit life in a third world country as a woman.

I think most of Scandinavia is like this. it is the pinnacle of this problem, as this gender blind ideology and underdevelopment among men is the highest.

This is why you either run away from that kind of society (eg. Brazil countryside) or forget about personal development. It will only make your life even more mizerable, because you now will know how bad your life is and how much better it could be. haha Not that the life of a leftist woman in Stockholm, Sweden is a lot better, it is a bit better but not with much. If she wants kids and a relationship, she is basically forced to accept a soyguy that she is not really into, but there is nothing better she can find so she takes him. She will basically have to raise the children and the man. The man is usually a boy that helps her around the house and with finances. He will get so frustrated because of the sexless, non-romantic relationhsip that will eventually become passive-aggressive then actively aggressive. Not to mention the gaslighting and toxic positivity, pretending everything is "ok". The easiest way for a woman to be happy here is staying single, which many do from what I see. Because many older men buy women from Asia lol.

Interesting, so many types of shitty men.

Traditional countries also suck at these dynamics, not as hard though. Many men there are some macho jerks who treat women like shit.

@koops exactly

Yup, this is why they are millionaires, because they focus so much on making money. I saw a reality show with a millionaire from Sweden, he is like a complete child, from the way he dresses, they way he behaves, the way he talks. But yea he knows how to survive in this capitalist dog eat dog madness. Man, relationships are so important to the average folk. no yacht, no Lamborghini can replace that. You suck at masculinity vs. femininity/social skills/ inner work etc. you are fucked for life. The average folk will never be happy by moving to a cave.

@Leo Gura yes! I am the other, I am the Trumpist fool who spams X, I am that virgin incel who live with his mother at 35 yo. Once in while I feel like sharing how special this work is on your alien incubator forum. I'll do this work until I'll grow a third telepatic eye sir! I mostly relate well with people regardless of their development, but my relocation to Sweden affected me a bit, as I am a quite masculine and spicy person. People are fragile here, and it's not just me who said this, dated a French girl recently and said she feels exactly the same. As masculinity vs. femininity is a huge passion of mine, I have to keep it for myself, I think that is the biggest problem. This country suffers in silence because they don't understand this subject and it saddens me a lot to see it.

Ocean view on one side and a bird's eye view of the city on the other. So you can remind yourself how superior you are to the plebs who live below.

I will look for cave prices in my area.

very few people do serious development. My post is just a reminder of that. Even if I build a YT channel and talk with people and shit, I will still have the same perspective. Of course there are unmet needs in the middle, this is the core of serious work, you give up survival treats for truth. This is why people don't do the work, because they love their survival nonsense. And if I point this I am not instantly underdeveloped as you think, I am different than you, different personality, different survival situation. This conformity nonsense in spiritual community is stupid, we cannot all be Eckhart Tolles talking like we are some feminine sedated sloths. Look at Peter Ralston, I am more like that, we are not the same. Put a spicy introvert at a table with 10 extroverts talkin about furniture and shit and see how well she/he feels. And then you judge the introvert for being frustrated or some shit. No, they are DIFFERENT.