Hello from Russia

Hitting on women is cool and fancy, Got a nice wife this way . But I guess this whole attraction thing is not limited to women and just getting sex or a wife What do you guys think of applying similar techniques\concepts on men? Not in the sexual sense, but, for example, in a business setting. When you're doing your biz and you have to pitch your services to other guys. How it is really different from the pickup? Would be cool to know your perspectives on the simillarities\differences of this whole process.

@Leo Gura Do you think it might be connected to your excessive weight in the upbringing? I used to have a huge amount of excess fat too in the past and my body reactions sound quite simillar to yours. Of course, when I was fat I used to eat a lot of sugar and shit carbs, probably it contributed a lot to such a condition

Pick and choose, divide and conquer?

Find the market you can help and provide massive value to it - I found this is the way

Follow your bliss

I am the identity designer and graphic ideas\concepts for logos\identity often come in terms of insights for me when I am in the flow. I found, other than that, mind mapping helps a lot to have the creative ideas there and some other "logical" methods that usually use your association as a vehicle. Creativity by intuition is a very powerful thing, indeed, but it is more state-like. You need to cultivate certain states to be effective in it is what I found

Alex Becker is actually heavily influenced my Sam. I think Sam moved higher way sooner. His actual vision right now is to make the best entrepreneurial school in the world, not just to make money. And I actually believe his aspiration. This guy clearly doesn't do it just for the money. Imo, he is one of the best\healthiest role models to look up to when integrating orange and yellow type of stuff as it relates to business. Another good one I think is Eban Pagan

His motivations are actually pretty yellow

Thinking and visualization your future and making sound goals and planning off of that

You confuse stage green love for stage turquoise and above love

Hi there, guys. Please, share the best material you know on marriage\long term relationship success. I think it will benefit all of us here as there is a shortage of such material (at least it appears to be from my pov) Some nuances: Please, focus on listing material on developing the existing relationship. Please, avoid listing dating advice (pickup) and books focused merely on sex. More focus on communication\interaction skills. Please, obstain from listing low quality low cognitive\moral development lines material. Such as Red Pill\pickup artists giving advice and other kinds of crap. The more conscious the book - the better. Ideally, it should incorporate the nondual insights, as, for example, David Deida's "Book of a superior man" and his other material do. The main theme to look for - developing a conscious relationship that runs smoothly (minimizing conflicts) and supports the development and self-actualization of both parties while maximizing the intimacy between one another.

Speaking more practically, from what I've read on your post, you definetely lack the respect and love for yourself and for the world and put too much emphasize on the love for her (or for vagina). Of course, it puts her Off, because from her PoV you look like a man with no substance and who has addiction to pussy. Why would you date someone only because he is addicted to your vagina? Would you like a long-term female partner who is addicted to your genitals but she is very bleak and wants to bring nothing positive to the world? Probably not. GIrls generally look more for life-partners rather than just hookup and If they don't feel that potential off of you, they won't be attracted. Unless they have very low self-esteem which you probably don't want to deal with anyways. Love the world and yourself first, then women will come effortlessly. It is like the natural law of our universe

You should look at boundaries as an extension of your absolute\non-conditional love not as a restriction. Restrictions are egoic. Extensions have the property of your God-Self. You should put your boundaries lovingly and with mutual respect towards yourself, her and the world. it is pretty advanced shit, though. But you can't really expect extraordinary results if you cognize stuff from a dualistic black&white perspective. Being rigid and black&white in a thing as fluid as human relationships leads to results of the same nature. You get what you put in.

You need to set boundaries to experience boundless love. The love without boundaries includes boundaries as if it would have them it wouldn't be a true boundless love

Own your carreer, bro, be cool with it and everything will turn out great

Actually it is a chemical reaction, if we speak the science linguo. You can research the chemistry of love. The othe subject is, how these chemical reactions are triggered?

Why do you have to choose between skill development and personal development? You can't really go far nor make a quality product\content without skills. And these 2 are actually incomparable. Personal development INCLUDES skill development and skill development is an essential part of it. I've been having this mistake for a long time and it costed me a lot of unresultivness. Results come when you develop your skills and are able to make valuable shit for someone, then the magic occurs. Just rehashing self-development personal material won't really get you anywhere

Even if it is way harder to become billionaire being "conscious" doesn't mean it is impossible

@Nickyy Interesting guy, I'll definitely will check him out. Thank you for your input

Yeah, holyshiot

For these moment I have a very useful framework on how to deal\react to this. Is this guy's level of consciousness higher or lower than, in this particular example, Leo's? If higher, I might give it a shot. If it seems lower and even more so, like a few stages below - not worth my time, this guy is highly deluded anyways

YES

The problem with being known as "the direct path" is that every mystical\religious tradition says about itself that it is the most "direct path". At least in my experience. At least it is the case with Christian Orthodox (I grew up in a household) and with Islam. In Chistianity they often say (i've been told that) that, sure, you can go study\pursue other religions and even get results with it, but Christ way and Christian's way is the most direct, you'll be just wasting time with other traditions. So from this point of view, imo, it doesn't really say anything. Although I respect Zen a lot and I think it indeed is more straightforward and more "to the point" than many other traditions

Bro... Just get a real occupation. Don't get in hoops selling someone elses crap and giving them money for it. If you're really interested in Lead generation type of stuff just get to know some legit business, for example, some good software company and find clients for them for 10% of their sale amount. For example you get them a client that needs application developed. They take 5k$-10k$ from him You get 500-1000$. And you owe them nothing upfront or monthly. This is the legit business based on sales where you actually do something good for society (you bridge gaps) and you own the process, while you can scale it aswell. Why you're so tempted to do such shit that you described above? Just do some real business... not con-artistry with shitty supplements

But Leo has never told you to become a hobo. He emphasizes money mastery a lot, actually