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  1. Hello, Currently i'm working for 10 hours a day, and most days i come home dead tired, not having any real energy to do anything but make dinner and relax for a couple of hours and go to sleep. On weekends i mostly am feeling tired too, because of the lack of sleep i had during the week. My job doesn't really give me the possibility to keep a steady sleep schedule, which i think is the main cause for my tiredness. What do i do?
  2. I'm getting a little bit worried as i'm not serious with myself lately. I'm generating debt (250$) for the first time in my life, and all i can do is laugh my ass off at myself. I can't take myself serious, and i'm barely gonna have enough money to survive this month. Let alone for food. I might even have to starve the last week. I don't know what's going on with me.
  3. I have no job atm. I've been searching and applying like a mad man for the past months, but nothing good is coming from it. They won't even hire me for a temporary job anymore. I'm also getting a lot of interviews, and the recruiters always tell me i'm well spoken, my resume is good, and that i come over as a motivated person, but in the end they either don't call me back, tell me there were other candidates who were a better fit, or tell me my personality doesn't fit the team. No. I'm laughing out of frustration. I'm basically doing everything i can to fix my situation and nothing seems to work out in the end. It doesn't make sense at all.
  4. @jake473 @egoeimai @Thomas_VH @CreamCat @Space @Surfingthewave @Sahil Pandit @studentofthegame @Elisabeth Thanks for all the support guys! I am revising my routine, and will start over with a slower pace.
  5. Hi, About 2 months ago i decided to stop whining and take total responsibility for my life. I ended up creating a daily structured morning routine, containing: meditation (1h), waking up early (4am), reading (30min), 100-200 pushups, running outside (5km), cold shower,.. Besides that i also included doing chores in and around the house ( cleaning, gardening,..) Everything was working out pretty well, until 2 weeks ago when i had to stop running and ended up injuring my left leg. This is where it all went down hill. I stopped running, started sleeping in late again, feeling lazy again. From there on my routine imploded like a house of cards, and now i can't even get myself to read for 30mins anymore. What do i do?
  6. Hi, About a week ago i started facing fears and stuff that make me uncomfortable head on to get out of my comfort zone more often. So far everything is going great, and i'm becoming proud of myself for doing the stuff i fear most. A lot of my fears are resolving around social activities, like eating alone in a restaurant or drinking a coffee alone in a bar. Talking to random strangers i don't know about random stuff etc ( i used to be a pussy and not do it ). Right now i'm doing all these things, but while i'm doing them i still feel pretty uncomfortable, and it doesn't get any easier the next time. It's like the fear subsides but comes right back at me. Will this ever go away?
  7. Hello, I've been having struggles dealing with my urges for sex for a long time now, and i feel like it's holding back my personal growth. I have not been honest with myself for a while, and deep down i think i want to experiment with multiple partners and have some fun for a while, but i've been rationalizing it for ages. I'm also not sure where to start with this, and i'm using my unemployment status as an excuse for not being date-able or pursuing a "fling", and this way i'm putting it off ( i think ). How should i go with this? How do i find out my real desires?
  8. I failed again boys. Haven't watched porn but i fapped after 32 days.. Rip
  9. Yea i know i need to get out of my comfort zone more often. Don't know when that will happen though... I'm already doing other stuff instead like getting on Tinder and thinking about going to a hooker instead.. I'm such a pussy lol.
  10. Yea that's a little bit outta my comfort zone. Right now i'm not outside that much. I go outside for groceries and job interviews, and beside that the only place i visit is the library ( haven't seen a lot of girls there yet).
  11. I'm already doing that :).
  12. I don't know where to start. I have not been to any clubs or bars in ages and i'm not really interested in that anymore. I don't even have real friends anymore as i'm comfortable with myself. Also as i said, i feel like my unemployment status is off putting, even for a fling or one night stand.
  13. No feeling will subside if you keep pushing it away or want to get rid of it. You not wanting to feel ashamed = keep feeling ashamed. Rejection will keep it alive.
  14. The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle Psycho Cybernetics - Maxwell Maltz
  15. Once a day is too much. I can't even masturbate once a day. It fucks up my whole brain chemistry. I will feel down, depressed, unmotivated, lethargic and will have social anxiety for at least a week if i do so. I started masturbating to escape reality at a young age because of being bullied. It was my only coping mechanism. It's no joke for me.
  16. I think you shouldn't fool around with credit cards. They have their upsides, but mostly they are just a trap for people who can't withstand the urge to buy way more stuff they can afford etc ( in my opinion ). Also, they are very popular in the gambing world for a reason.
  17. How do you know for sure that you are addicted? Have you tried not drinking for a while? Do you think about alcohol a lot? I suggest abstaining for a while to see if you are actually getting withdrawal symptoms etc to make sure you are addicted.
  18. I honestly think you didn't if you have to ask.
  19. Oh man, good times. I used to watch SpongeBob so much. I literally spent all my savings on a SpongeBob teddybear back when i was a kid lol.