BobbyLowell

A lot of people around me are judging others as unlovable or don't think everyone can be loved. I know everyone is able to be loved, but I can't be solid in my belief because many people around me think otherwise. It makes me feel like wow the world really is a horrible place. How do I become strong and unbending in my belief that everyone can be loved???

@Mighty Mouse thank you MIGHTy moUSE! thats solid advice

@Nathanthank you for your response! i agree yes but i have been encountering a lot of resistance lately and criticism. i dont feel like i can handle it. If you dont mind answering, of course you dont need to, how do I overcome this constant criticism in so many places I go?

@Matiyos because i dont trust that i am correct. like a lot of people in the past i guess have considered me judgemental so i feel like what if im just not considering others??? you know im not always right. also i consider myslef easily affected by all the atmospheres i am placed in

@Nahm @NEW11 I mean love from one person to another. not specifically romantically, although it can be.

My crush thinks my reactions are really wierd and that I'm creepy because I'm authentic. So any advice? My feelings are strong now.

Oh buddy. Women get emotionally attatched with sex. If it's just for fun can't you just find someone else your age?

@Shin it might be psychological. Can you explain why and how you think so?

okay so do you want these people, or more connections in general with people?? are you obligated to be around these people??? i think all this bitterness is coming from negative surroundings, and the vibes you are getting. you can be much more positive towards others, be much happier when you cut the bad drama and bullshit ppl out, that is what i suggest if possible. new start, or more positive connections. you need to start with only some people, not give a shit ( by making your subconscious believe others opinions of you dont matter) what others think of you, be you and just start there. you can start building positive connections from there. i have definitely been here.

@Epiphany_Inspired okay i understand. i think mine isnt related to him, but my body language in general. like i would be looking everywhere in the room if im just standing in one place, sometimes i will look down a lot and think when we are both running, i seem kind of sketchy tbh. i personally dont really like my body language either, but like should i change it?? would that be sacrificing authenticity?

So like. If I dont have a lot of friends. will i still be able to form an amazing relationship??? we are connecting and we match really well morally so that is why i dont want to let him go. can this work????

@Shiva okay. That seems better. How can I get to that?

Do you guys have any online courses I can take to help the process, books to read etc. this is something I have been focusing on lately. I'm already using affirmations and binaural beats with subliminal messages

@Spiral nah just general avoidant behavior/wierd body language??? -i have a limiting belief that i have some kind of shell-that others see my differently, as more cold than i am, wierd body language

I just want to feel special and appreciated and like I really matter. How can I give myself this without needing others for this????

I think that I know that I am lovable but maybe I don't know for sure. How do I get over this? People in my life are giving me cues that I am unable to be loved. I love myself but then my friend (a horrible one) gave me cues that no one else can love me. I'm sure of these cues it's not like I'm just being insecure plz don't tell me that.

@BjarkeT do what full time ???

Unshakeable confidence

@jse how?

@sgn underconfident. Like i was always like kind of ignored in school

I think that I know that I am lovable but maybe I don't know for sure. How do I get over this? People in my life are giving me cues that I am unable to be loved. I love myself but then my friend (a horrible one) gave me cues that no one else can love me. I'm sure of these cues it's not like I'm just being insecure plz don't tell me that.

I ran for 2 hours today. And I kept running and running and running and RUNNING UNTIL IT WAS JUST MY SPIRIT keeping me going. It was so freaking beautiful I can't explain what it felt like. It was just my spirit that kept going. Nothing else. My body was moving with everything it had and all there was in me was blind passion just my spirit running that's it.

@OhHiMark that's sad. I hope everything turns out okay for the baby.

Why should I be more aware? If I don't pay attention i save myself from emotionally breaking because of the negative vibes I get about me in most of my relationships.

^ this will help me