Tyler Robinson

I want to roleplay a loving girlfriend and my whole life should be a roleplay of a loving girlfriend. I just love it.

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. Self defense against Rape/sexual assault Contributed by forum member Integral. Its relative to the situation. 1 vs 1 no weapons: Because of my physical strength there is virtually no way i would be raped if i defend myself. 1 vs 1 with knife: If there is an opportunity to run, in every situation the choice is to run, or else you will very likely die if you resist in any way. Its only in peoples foolish fantasies that they defeat a man with a knife. 1 vs 2: If you cant run and both men are as strong as you, its over you are getting raped. If your in prison and no where to go and its more then one person against you, its over, your getting raped, the best thing to do is not resist so you don't get seriously injured. In all these situations of course your going to use verbal tactics and communicate with them so to get out of the situation. What exactly to say is difficult to know, you want to make friends with him and show him your on his level and understand him and support him. Now if your female its unlikely anything will work. A) if its a fair fight then fight, if its not then run or give up and avoid injury. B) Always run if possible. C) Give up and tolerate if your out numbered or at a complete disadvantage to avoid injury. Make sure to carefully save the semen for evidence, with out evidence you have no case. D) Obviously always go to the police after with evidence. E) Always talk to him and what you want to do is flip the situation on its head and talk about things he doesn't expect. He likely wants a victim and gets off on it. But if your purely casual and just talking like best friends it can kill the mood. Its situation depended, got to gauge the situation to figure out what he needs to here. F) If your in a situation where people can help you scream for help, like in a house always scream for help, the reason is he is on high alert and doesn't want to get caught so the moment you scream he will run. The problem is the freeze response. If your a woman in 99% of situation a rapist is not a random attacker, hes someone you know who climbed into your bed at night and is trying to get physical with you. ALWAYS SCREAM, in this situation, that signals to the guy you dont want sex, other wise he doesn't know and it puts him in fear of getting caught. What most women do doe is freeze and remain silent called the freeze response and say no a few time then give up. Its not there fault its biology and programming but this unfortunately is a irrational response in most situations because your attacker is not violent, hes just a stupid horny guy. If he doesnt take no for an answer hit him as hard as possible. Only if he is violent with you should you give up and do nothing to avoid physical harm, go to steps C and D. All women in my opinion should have pepper spray or fart gas spray with them at all times. This 100% prevents rape. In any case you dont even need to aim, just spray anywhere and the rape ends on the spot. if you spary pepper stray in a house the entire house needs to evacuate, its insanely strong. One breath of pepper spray you stop breathing and convulse in pain. Fart gas is amazing because if you smell like shit no one wants to touch you let alone rape you. In fact spray fart gas on you to prevent all conflict. A rape alarm is also effective, its so loud it hurts and the most important part it scares the rapist away because they think people are coming to help. Bluffing is very effective with these situations because they are on high alert from the start that they will get caught.

Keeling my mood bright today.

Omg absolutely grateful for your detailed response. Thank you thank you thank you.

I want to start every morning with a great agenda. I want to say come home every morning.

That's because you didn't have high quality relationships. Look for relationships based on quality instead of sex. The more conscious you become yourself, the conscious your relationships will be. Look for high consciousness partners instead of just selecting on the basis of sexual attractiveness.

This thread is a good response to trolls.

How would you know?

This reads like - I opted junk food since I don't have to cook food anymore. Yes approaching is difficult. But men grow themselves through approaching. They learn a lot from it. Ultimately it's not just for sex but also for a connection. Maybe you don't crave a connection right now. But at some point you will feel the need to have someone in your life. You're thinking in your mind that something is too much effort. Relationships are always going to be like that. They need a ton of effort. But they're equally rewarding. Anything in life that brings huge value to your life is going to be harder to achieve whether it's relationships or career. It's necessary you make an important distinction here. Between women and relationships. What is adding value to your life is not a woman, it's the relationship. Same goes for women. Relationships always enrich our lives. Unless they are toxic. Relationships are an integral part of existence. Man is a social animal.

Because of my autism I didn't know how to respond I'm not a drama person. I just don't know how to respond to trolls better and that gives them fuel to trigger me more. Thanks to my autism and inability to communicate properly to negative Nancys on this platform. This is a great response I can give to every troll. If someone or something being said gets under your skin, it is a good indicator you need to calibrate your feelings more efficiently. What angers you tells more about you than the other person. I get feeling frustrated, but anger is a much bigger feeling. Why do you need to block someone? We are all a community here who try to help each other. Eventually all here want to help and be helped, not to ruin someone's experience. Is trying to start shit with me worth your time and energy? Maybe especially if you don't have anything better to do with your time. Plus lack of accountability for what you choose to read. Why even bother responding to a thread if you are going to inject it with negativity. There are others who would respond positively to it. This is a safe space for everyone, stop making others feel unsafe by constantly targeting them,the fact that you don't like me is well known. Many people not liking a person is not a reason to ban a person from a place, that's called bias and intolerance. This is a democracy for a reason. It means people who you don't like will also have equal opportunity to exist. Don't make this about me, it's just more about you. And if you think you're some kind of a mirror, then you are a bad mirror. A mirror that always forgets to self reflect. It's not honesty it's how you use honesty. When you weaponize honesty, you do it from a bad faith place. You have something personal against me, that's why you routinely target my threads. This has nothing to do with me. Heal your own bias than using constant opportunities to shit on me.

@integral your input?

@Eyowey thanks for answering. But most people don't usually carry a pepper spray with them. You could punch him in his balls. Yes hurting the eyes is an absolutely potent method. If his eyes are hurt and especially because eyes are very sensitive so it will hurt a lot and he won't be able to see and that gives a chance to the victim to run away from the situation. So that's a useful method. Also hurting his eyes means he can't do much after that, he can't try to hurt you back since he will be tending to his eyes. So when he is doing that you can also punch his gut or stomach further weakening him. He would be less interested in doing anything once his eyes are injured. You have effectively thwarted his attack with strong defense moves in the sensitive areas on the body. Thanks for the answer. It gives me more clues on what I can do in similar situations.

But if you want to date women, wouldn't you care how they perceive you? We always want to look better in the eyes of the opposite sex. It's a part of attraction I think you intentionally avoid approaching women out of fear of rejection or not wanting to please them.

If you don't like someone you can put them on ignore instead of creating unnecessary drama around them with your negativity and then blaming the person for giving you a reaction. Best. That's why the ignore function exists. There are all kinds of taboo subjects discussed here. You don't like someone's opinions, block them instead of trying to suppress their opinion. An opinion is on a subject so refrain from personal attacking. Not cool. Take accountability for the content you watch or click to read instead of complaining about it. You are not an authority on what should or should not be discussed in public discourse. Ironically you're the one who fuels drama with unnecessary negativity trying to find offense with every little thing. If you have so much anger inside you, find healthy ways to deal with it instead of constantly trolling someone or looking for an excuse to start shit on purpose even when you can ignore, take responsibility. Try to heal your anger instead of ruining other's experience of the place. Learn to be tolerant of other's space in public. And stop wielding authority over people's thoughts as though everything is under your control. Nobody is doing it on this thread Don't try to micromanage other people. Who cares what you think. I don't like paying attention to negativity, move on. Your opinion is not the most important in the universe. How I'm being interpreted by your judgement is more reflective of your judgment Don't sweat the small stuff and stop being Whiny and petty about things.

@Sucuk Ekmek this thread is for you.

2 things - one that I would feel objectified. Like why is this guy objectifying women by turning them into dolls? Second - it would look weird if not necessarily creepy. It looks desperate and my first thought will be this person is too lonely and is engaged in unhealthy coping mechanism. It doesn't show self control or confidence which reduces attraction since women always look for strong confident men.

@CultivateLove yea that's a potent self defense move I never thought of.

Informative vid on masturbation myths.

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And this should be my evening music.

@integral can I directly quote and copy your posts in my journal. Taking your permission before doing it. I hope you don't mind.

This is going to be my everyday morning music along with crimson fly

This is what negativity, cynicism, judgement, passive aggression looks like in a bundle.