Tyler Robinson

Guys like that don't succeed socially. They end up pissing off people even without not wanting to. Social calibration is a huge measure for attraction. A girl feels embarrassed if her potential boyfriend is not socially calibrated. It's the logical equivalent of a man walking with an angry woman.

This is a good point. Valid. But I'm assuming that not every high IQ person comes with low emotional intelligence. I'm not talking about nerdy nerds. Most evolved all-around high intelligence people also did well on emotional intelligence. But I get what you mean.

Character is important. I don't deny that. But talking to a high IQ person (assuming they also have high EQ), they bring logic and rationality to the table. Makes everything a lot more convenient. Would you rather be dealing illogical irrational people? You aren't aware of the nightmare you're asking for.

My experience with love at first sight has never been a good one. When you meet people who are matured and developed, it's far better than meeting someone who is just eye candy. You can do this at 18 when your hormones are raging through your blood, but it's not a wise thing if you're looking for something substantial and stable. This kind of dynamic that you describe is generally based on physical attraction and lust and some sort of unexplainable mania and it devolves over time into an unexpected hot mess. These relationships aren't meant for your well-being, mostly toxic, hurtful, painful but intoxicating and enticing at first. An example that comes to mind - Justin Bieber Selena Gomez.

@Kksd74628 and hey joni you can pm me. I talked to mods. They fixed my message problem. There was a technical error and it's fixed now, I can receive messages again.

@Globalcollective to be frank the guy was actually being sweet. He might have that night stalker appearance but he was still polite. Not that socially uncalibrated. The judges judged him simply for his appearance and exhaustion. He was a bit whiny but who doesn't have minor flaws. In my opinion, they roughed him up pretty bad. He was legitimate with his anger... But still... Appearance is a big deal. Cruel world..

I still don't feel stable enough. Although Eric is helping me

I think it depends a lot on the look of the guy. If the guy looked incredibly sexy I wouldn't mind even if he grabbed my arm. But if he came to me looking like this guy(below) then I'm gonna freak out.

I think he meant an endless stream of consciousness.

@Kksd74628 why the heck are you playing in the dark?

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This sounds more like a reverse placebo or nocebo effect. Try to focus on positive things in life Write 50 positive things you can do today.. Try

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@Loving Radiance ahh I see.

If I didn't see it, it didn't happen. And Leo is not some Buddhist. Whats your logic here?

You can't convince me that something like that exists.

Anytime someone has the last name Cheney.

Your choice. But you're saving yourself a shit ton of trouble if you generally stay away from people. Less drama either way.

I think it has lot to do with biological wiring. Some people are just born that way. Extroverts have a natural need to connect. It's brain chemistry. Introverts tend to express themselves in more muted less social ways. Introversion has a lot to do with fear and how the brain responds to external stimuli. Your question was how to respond to people who hurt you. This really depends on the context of your situation which you haven't made entirely clear. What is the correct way to respond to insults? Do I forgive that person? Do I confront them? What do I do? There's no point in responding to people who are being your enemy. Yea there's always a temptation to give them back. But online or otherwise, it escalates and only makes things worse. Don't confront that person. It's their karma. You should not make it your burden. They will be consumed in their own hatred and negativity, this is their punishment. Their insults hurt giving rise to feelings of self defense. But it's nothing really. You don't need to forgive them. But you also don't need to spend your energy fighting with them. Consider them as a no show, not a part of your life. I think you are a scorpio. A scorpio is deeply hurt when insulted and feels the need to defend. This is natural. But this makes you susceptible to getting hurt and distracted from your main goal. Throw such people out of your life and don't respond to their insults. They will eventually leave you alone. Also an alternative perspective to Consider is that sometimes people are angry at you due to misinterpretation or out of their own list of traumas and wounds which causes them to lash out at everyone. You don't have to forgive them.. You simply have to accept and understand that they are unstable and full of fear, not necessarily bad people

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Music. Listening to music. Coffee Nature Just sitting in nature. Romance Learning different cultures. Love making Singing Shopping Engaging stimulating conversations Connecting with random strangers Friendly warm people Rain Comedy The Beach Physical touch. Hugs and kiss Stickers in text A yummy breakfast Empathetic people .

Blue is very toxic. You can't integrate that. The only aspect of blue that looks desirable is hard work and discipline. You could integrate those aspects. Work hard and stay disciplined in your routine. Blue encourages moralizing and dogmatism. It's one of the most unhealthy stages of the spiral.

Do it in socially acceptable places. Don't go into public places because it can be considered as harassment. It can annoy people..

Lol. Boring life. Exciting would be if I could just sleep all day by the beach.