Tyler Robinson

@Globalcollective to be frank the guy was actually being sweet. He might have that night stalker appearance but he was still polite. Not that socially uncalibrated. The judges judged him simply for his appearance and exhaustion. He was a bit whiny but who doesn't have minor flaws. In my opinion, they roughed him up pretty bad. He was legitimate with his anger... But still... Appearance is a big deal. Cruel world..

I still don't feel stable enough. Although Eric is helping me

I think it depends a lot on the look of the guy. If the guy looked incredibly sexy I wouldn't mind even if he grabbed my arm. But if he came to me looking like this guy(below) then I'm gonna freak out.

I think he meant an endless stream of consciousness.

@Kksd74628 why the heck are you playing in the dark?

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This sounds more like a reverse placebo or nocebo effect. Try to focus on positive things in life Write 50 positive things you can do today.. Try

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@Loving Radiance ahh I see.

If I didn't see it, it didn't happen. And Leo is not some Buddhist. Whats your logic here?

You can't convince me that something like that exists.

Anytime someone has the last name Cheney.

Your choice. But you're saving yourself a shit ton of trouble if you generally stay away from people. Less drama either way.

I think it has lot to do with biological wiring. Some people are just born that way. Extroverts have a natural need to connect. It's brain chemistry. Introverts tend to express themselves in more muted less social ways. Introversion has a lot to do with fear and how the brain responds to external stimuli. Your question was how to respond to people who hurt you. This really depends on the context of your situation which you haven't made entirely clear. What is the correct way to respond to insults? Do I forgive that person? Do I confront them? What do I do? There's no point in responding to people who are being your enemy. Yea there's always a temptation to give them back. But online or otherwise, it escalates and only makes things worse. Don't confront that person. It's their karma. You should not make it your burden. They will be consumed in their own hatred and negativity, this is their punishment. Their insults hurt giving rise to feelings of self defense. But it's nothing really. You don't need to forgive them. But you also don't need to spend your energy fighting with them. Consider them as a no show, not a part of your life. I think you are a scorpio. A scorpio is deeply hurt when insulted and feels the need to defend. This is natural. But this makes you susceptible to getting hurt and distracted from your main goal. Throw such people out of your life and don't respond to their insults. They will eventually leave you alone. Also an alternative perspective to Consider is that sometimes people are angry at you due to misinterpretation or out of their own list of traumas and wounds which causes them to lash out at everyone. You don't have to forgive them.. You simply have to accept and understand that they are unstable and full of fear, not necessarily bad people

"I love you so much that I will avoid all responsibility because that's easy on my pocket."

Music. Listening to music. Coffee Nature Just sitting in nature. Romance Learning different cultures. Love making Singing Shopping Engaging stimulating conversations Connecting with random strangers Friendly warm people Rain Comedy The Beach Physical touch. Hugs and kiss Stickers in text A yummy breakfast Empathetic people .

Blue is very toxic. You can't integrate that. The only aspect of blue that looks desirable is hard work and discipline. You could integrate those aspects. Work hard and stay disciplined in your routine. Blue encourages moralizing and dogmatism. It's one of the most unhealthy stages of the spiral.

Do it in socially acceptable places. Don't go into public places because it can be considered as harassment. It can annoy people..

Lol. Boring life. Exciting would be if I could just sleep all day by the beach.

Why is cheating okay? It's not. It impacts the psyche. It causes trauma. A lot of men I interact with make flippant jokes about seeing other women or wandering around like it's no big deal. But it's a big deal. People do lots of wrong things in a relationship like not caring enough, bad habits, addiction, emotional neglect. But cheating is the worst form of betrayal. Would you as a guy like a woman who cheats on you with another man and you figure out later? Then why do you justify cheating on your girlfriend? Why is it okay or harmless in your mind or something you just expect your girlfriend to deal with? Why so many men expect women to even provide room for cheating in a relationship? Why can't they understand that it's very unhealthy? A woman is deeply impacted by cheating. Why is it okay for a man to see multiple women when it's not okay if women do it.

No way! This idea goes against the base concept of relationships. It's terrible to even suggest such a dynamic. I mostly agree with the takes of @no_name

I'm not saying it's ok. I'm asking why it's considered okay. I just want men to be more sensitive to how women feel. It seems a lot of men are too vague and flippant around this topic. I just want to know their mentality. And I want them to take it seriously. I want them to know that women are hurt by cheating, much more than they realize. I want to know their underlying psychology. It's no longer about one man. I just see too many men making it look like it's okay to see multiple women. But I'm not okay to accept it.

@Something Funny it's ok if @no_nameattacks me. She is not trying to attack me exactly. She is just angry that I don't have strong boundaries, that I don't stand up for myself. I don't mind her being pissed at me. She is trying to show me tough love. She is concerned that I might get into trouble. That's okay. She is coming from a genuine place and I appreciate her criticism of me In fact i like people like her. They attack me for my own good. They care about me more than people who are nice and stab me in the back later. Honestly I'm tired of inauthentic fake people. I might get a Beating and I'll be happy to receive it if that person showed me genuine concern for my well being. Let her say what she wants. I'm not offended by it.

I do value your opinion in this regard. I have low self esteem I agree. But the situation in my life seems to be much more beyond just low self esteem. I seem to be extremely confused while dealing with people. It takes me an awful lot of time to figure out things. I like to give people as much space as possible and not jump to the worst conclusions about them. Part of the reason why I do this could be that I don't want to live in a 24/7 fearful state where I'm just thinking the absolute worst about people who are nice to me. You see this is a logistics problem. Most people are rude and could care less about someone's feelings, much less fall in love and maintain integrity. How many people do you think are really interested in spreading love in this world. You will see selfish assholes everywhere who wouldn't lose a single opportunity to slice you with a knife. I came from a broken family, a traumatized background, I always had to deal with the shittiest people, the worst kind, I had to deal with men who gave me death threats, the trailer trash types. It was difficult for me to meet half decent people. Because I came from poverty. I already got used to having the least expectations out of humans. With this backdrop, even people who were remotely polite to me appeared extremely pleasant and high value to me. Now I could have easily said no to them on petty things. But I didn't have the luxury to simply turn guys away on a whim. I'm not a stunner in appearance and I never had a large volume of men to adore me. I had to make a pick out of the meagre bunch of men who took some interest in me. Turning them away would mean that I would have to be alone and being alone, especially given my childhood wounds was simply too much to deal with. You don't have a hard time being alone when you come a healthy support because there's always someone to fall back on. But when you come from an abusive family, it's 10 times hard being alone, you want someone to give you that value and space that your family never provided you. So yea in some ways men made me feel confident. Some men who were nice made me feel good. It was a boost to my self esteem and a source of emotional support. I can't accept cheating even if my standards are fairly low. This guy is really good in terms of compatibility. My second last guy was verbally abusive. In terms of all the guys I have dated, this guy is very polite and decent. So far no other abusive red flags. But he made being around other women seem okay. So I don't know what to do..