Tyler Robinson

Okay I'm being frank(pun) for a minute. This one is mine - If you want an education,go to YouTube. ~Tyler being Zappa.

You being an adventurer might also have something to do with you being a saggi, just saying.

You either felt shy or unsure or scared or all at the same time. Get rid of your underlying fears.

You might have to watch Leo's burning through karma video. You want all of that because you haven't fully burned through your karma yet. Once you do that and exhaust all your desires you won't feel these urges. For spiritual reasons, you have to give up these things at some point. They serve as a distraction and leave very little room for spiritual growth or practice.

Because it's the only time when you can actually look back. All other times life wantonly keeps you busy.

Glad to hear that you are safe.

@Razard86 I recognize certain consistent behavior patterns in you after reading almost 20 posts of yours. A recurring pattern, I see it as a problem that might be evading you a bit and I just thought that must let you know because it seems like nobody is telling you this probably because they are not able to see it the way I do. This could either be a part of your personality or it could be a summation of coping behaviors that you had to learn along the way. Either way I thought it was necessary for me to bring this up, again I'm not sure if this resonates with you or not. If it does, I'll be glad that I was of some use to you. If not, you can gladly ignore it at your will. So this is my observation about you. You seem to be very passionate about people. Nothing wrong with it. What I sense is a deep need to help people and empathize with their situation. This can be very harmful to you as this very quality in you will attract a lot of vultures, predatory people to you who will take direct advantage of you. This is a form of self harm and you are disguising it as a spiritual growth mechanism. But you're exposing yourself to be abused by people. This also leads me to the conclusion that you might have been abused in relationships in some manner, either in your childhood, by a lack of love or in adulthood as in partner abuse. It shows that you have a certain savior Samaritan complex, be careful to not stretch it too far, because (psychopath) people smell that on you and will feed on your generosity. The other part I observed is that you seem to enjoy your own suffering and pain. This is not normally seen in others. This could be a sign of self sabotage and extreme self destructive behavior. Maybe my words don't resonate with you right now but few years down the line, you might remember what I said here right now. I'm just being a good Samaritan dropping a message so that you incorporate my advice. We tend to attract what we like. The idea of looking at pain and suffering as something good or even pleasurable arises out of masochistic tendencies and self abuse. It's seeking pleasure out of wanting to be abused. This needs serious psychotherapy and I suggest you seek treatment instead of using spiritual bypassing and thinking that this might be something spiritual that you're getting into, it's classic self delusion that is taking right and deep into the rabbit hole. My mom was like you in her younger years and she has attracted major health problems over the years because of her awful tendency to self neglect always Perceiving a life of hardships as something as a badge of honor, it attracted her a lot of health issues. I see similar patterns of self destruction in you where you equate pain and suffering to some sort of spiritual exaltation. No. It's not. It's a recipe to attract more tragic outcomes and situations. It's one thing to not be impacted by suffering and holding resilience and another to wallow or even assume that it's some sort of a sacrificial requisite that you must endure to make it through the gates of heaven. Don't abuse yourself. Don't attract vultures Seek your wellbeing and honor your body which is the temple of your soul.. Self destruction means you don't value yourself enough. Your body and mind is sacred and so is your life and to squander it through self torture is less about Humility and more about delusion and psychological disorder. You might have to focus on your own sovereignty before you focus on the sovereignty of others. Be in charge of your well being. And you must under any circumstances want your own well being and a good life. There's nothing selfish about it. (maybe slightly selfish but that's survival). You will get restless overtime if you don't fix this tendency. Remember that your need to survive through and against all odds is very innate and you simply cannot escape it nor should you try to. Be in alignment with what your body is asking for from you, don't be a rebel. I hope you receive my message positively. It is constructive feedback and an honest one. I have no agenda

First you were talking about sovereignty. What's the final stance may I ask?

@Carl-Richard you know what. Now it shows as "edited by Carl Richard." your Moderator privileges are gone. Leo kinda removed the double standards Lmao.

Sir, I'll incorporate this advice. Thank you. Noted. (owned me haha). You almost gave me a beating on my head, but it was good.

Baby you're already awaken.. Please rise and walk.

The bright side would be to not look at socializing as an absolute bad thing necessarily and this is coming from an introvert like me. I lived in isolation for years since my childhood and majority of my teenage years to the point I was barely able to talk to anyone. I gained a few more brain cells through socializing. I give it some credit for helping me with situations. Although I'm not supportive of heavy socializing, it can be distracting from true growth and sometimes you run the risk of meeting some really awful people who could literally turn your whole world upside down. Besides that the time and energy spent in socializing is extensive and can turn into a massive cope or addiction.

But there's poverty still. You're only showing a trend not a current state. Doesn't mean that people aren't poor. They are yet there might be a gradual decline, but they still are. This is like the argument on population. Saying that the world population is on the decline. But we still have a whopping 7 billion.

How Will you make money in isolation? Almost everything needs social media if you want money and career.

You are acting as though people aren't poor these days. Covid has got millions of people out of jobs. I don't know which world you're living in, but I see an awful lot of poverty because of the economic crises and there's just more to come.

Being a caveman is more like an escapist mentality. One thing it brings - peace of mind. You gotta decide the tradeoffs, not upto anyone. Personally I like the intellectual engagement of being around humans. But apart from that, there is not much I gain from anything at all, so maybe those yogis were always right. Peace of mind is the most important commodity, to lose it is worse than gaining anything else in return.

These are occasional incidents. I'm talking about everyday distractions the moment you wake up in the mornings like emails, deadlines and phone calls.

But modern society can be very stressful and very distracting, do we at least agree on this?

I wasn't trying to reduce it to a common denominator. You simply cannot take out the interactive part of it. In fact it's a component of it. You're still engaged in this component.

Believe me we're. You crave it even though you criticize it. You won't be on a forum otherwise no matter how much you deny it. Would be a different thing if you were simply lurking and reading posts. If you're talking to anyone, whether it be face to face or through text in a personal context or just generally on a forum like this, as you type you're exchanging energy with the other person. You think it's simply responding to people's posts, like reading pixels on the screen. Although it's not the most potent personal direct form of interaction, it's still interactive to a milder degree. I hope you aren't thinking of me as a robot in which case your point would have been valid.

You don't speak from experience. I've found high quality people, though rarely, they have benefitted me beyond the scope of what I would have imagined was possible. In fact even the bad socializing was a tuning fork towards growth, although the risks are a bit heavy, depending on your emotional stamina, yet the good kind of socializing was helpful in learning an awful lot from others, the irony right now is that what you're doing with me, all of this interaction, in one way or another is characteristic of socializing as well, just that you don't see it. Man simply cannot afford to not want to talk to people and interact with his species, even the hardest introverted bunch among us for that matter.

You could indulge in junk food or you could indulge in healthy food.. Choice is always yours. You can't blame the food.

You'll always meet a few bad apples. Just be glad that nothing worse happened. Always be prepared for such things. It's quite common to get into a feud where people gather.... Example, bar brawls. For whatever reasons, such places attract tensed crowds and the crowding, booze or loud music can impact people mentally and they can get aggressive. I would actually expect things like that to occur on the regular in those places just by the sheer volume of people packed in one place, it can be headache inducing and stressful and maybe the other person was perhaps having a bad day, maybe they got into a fight with someone in the vicinity or on the phone {angry texting} and that can explain their bad mood apart from the alcohol. You never hear of brawls on the beach, people are usually very calm there, guess the waves and the sand calm their alpha waves.

You're looking at this in a very myopic way. The benefits of socializing will hinge on the quality of socializing. If you are hanging out with a low shallow crowd, it's going to be revolting to your intelligence. Hanging out with people that match your intellectual and emotional frequency will help you learn and share and grow together, that's one of the best ways to grow, the only caveat being that you need to put in your hardest to collect the gem of people that you wish to surround yourself with. Being around low vibrational people is always going to hurt. They will bring down your progress, both material and spiritual.. Choosing people with high consciousness is a gamble that pays you off really well in the end, you'll find people that will bring enormous social and emotional acumen to your life, something you'll badly miss out on if you're too engaged with a low consciousness crowd.

Maybe you just haven't found the right people.