Tyler Robinson

Why are you so worried about who tells you? Nilsi doesn't exist. @NoSelfSelf is equal to self. You're same as Nilsi or me. What do you care about? Let it go. You are all and all are you.

@gettoefl right back at you.

Beautiful Dreamer, wake unto me, Starlight and dewdrops are waiting for thee; Sounds of the rude world heard in the day, Lull'd by the moonlight have all passed away! Beautiful dreamer, queen of my song, List while I woo thee with soft melody; Gone are the cares of life's busy throng Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me! Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me! Beautiful dreamer, out on the sea, Mermaids are chanting the wild Lorelei; Over the stream let vapors are borne, Waiting to fade at the bright coming morn. Beautiful dreamer, beam on my heart, E'en as the morn on the stream let and sea; Then will all clouds of sorrow depart, Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me! Beautiful dreamer, awake unto me!

Pretty much. Porn has become passe and too mainstream and I guess gradually over the next few decades we will be witnessing (just my hunch), a slow decline in the admiration for porn as people begin to discover how lame it truly is, like every other phenomenon it would be outdated and future generations would look upon it with scorn, and the scourge will be gone before we know it,people will begin to admire the potential of real sex once again, something similar happened to cigarettes, they were damn popular in the 50s and 60s, not so much now. Every addiction goes through a peak trapezoid and then slacks off into flatness.

I think I can relate. I have suffered from depression and I've been through moments where I didn't want to live and that can be a horrible place.

@integral I'll explain something to you. Imagine if my Ex came back into my life and told me to have fun with him aka sex. Now him and I go to a desolate place and he begins to do all this sexual fantasy stuff with me. Now imagine that he is very angry with me for some weird reason. And he decides to choke me in the middle of our sex. Now I am completely submitted to him and his mercy. He could use this opportunity to choke me and kill me or he could simply choke me a bit but make sure I'm safe. His choice. Now I'm aware of what he can do to me. I still let him do it. Here I am showing a lot of trust by letting him take the lead. This is how the trust grows. By exhibiting it. Meanwhile he shows me trust by actually not choking or killing me when he had every opportunity to do that. This is how the intimacy and trust is built. We both created it by crossing the limits of human trust. I did it by surrendering and believing him. He did it by not destroying my faith in him, by not exploiting or taking advantage of my vulnerable state of surrender. I hope you understood. Sexual fantasies aren't child's play. You aren't laughing while it's happening because then there is no real fun, you have outed yourself already. It has to be a deep sinister role play and it should finish with deep trust. It's almost like sitting on a roller coaster when you're panicking and then laughing in the end because you tested the limits of your own fears in a careful setting. Sexual fantasies promote growth, intimacy and the ability to trust despite the fears and odds, the riskier the better.

Maybe you aren't cut out for that. For me role playing, rape fantasies, bdsm, I don't know voyager, but yea choking is my favorite, sugar mama is a no, humiliation no, sensory deprivation yes yes yes, Domination is a big yes (I'm a sub), bondage not so much, bondage is boring, but choking is cute and beautiful. I wasn't so much into these but my ex introduced me to all these things. He wanted to skin me with his nails. And I said no. There were a couple of things he wanted to do a little more I guess. But I denied I just like basic domination and choking. Sexual fantasy is no big deal. It's simply what arouses you. Nothing special.

Why aren't sexual fantasies associated with the purest form of love? Probably because deep in your mind you judge and shame those fantasies. Sanctimonious shaming. Heal that shame. Also. I found the greatest beauty, Purity and intimacy and true love in the fulfillment of my deepest fantasies. It created enormous levels of trust when I could share them with my partner.

The real fun would have been if you had deleted yourself.

If a person experiences hyperarousal while playing video games, the brain associates the activity with dopamine. The person develops a strong drive to seek out that same pleasure again and again. Dopamine is a powerful neurotransmitter in the brain. Most people, upon being accused of entertainment addiction, become defensive. They insist they need to be online for work, that they are socializing with loved ones, or that spending time reading online is the same as curling up with a good book. This is no defense against the reality that entertainment addiction is very real, since addicts of all varieties routinely deny that they have a problem. Because it isn't a mind-altering substance, though, many people still have difficulty accepting the notion that it can affect the brain in ways similar to some drugs.A complex set of interlocking factors contribute to making the entertainment a powerful draw, especially for people who are already vulnerable to addiction. Dopamine is the brain's pleasure and motivation neurotransmitter. This powerful neurotransmitter is what motivates your to engage in pleasurable experiences, like spending time with loved ones or going on a shopping spree. It also plays a role in drug addiction, since many drugs stimulate dopamine production. For most addicts, it's the dopamine rush that keeps them going back to drugs even when the consequences are high. Entertainment feels rewarding. These rewards increase dopamine production, creating a vicious cycle that encourages users to keep accessing it to keep getting a "hit" of dopamine. There's close association between dopamine and addiction.

Nah. "these fucking Republicans mama." slight correction.

Law of attraction is real. A 100% real. I wish I could try it again. I stopped 2 years ago.

At least we get to know what happens to the human mind on dmt

I never watch porn. Porn is a dirty unfiltered obnoxious greedy version of sex.. It looks like filthy gratification to me. If I want to imagine sex, I imagine myself fully in love with my ex lover and them making out with me. It's so satisfying and purifying. Actually porn destroyed the beauty and Purity of sex and reduced it to some kind of a hellish robotic act of hedonistic fantasy. Gross. But real sex with a lover is a divine act of intimacy which I recently felt with my ex lover. It's so beautiful that you can never forget it. Real sex is divine, pure, child like, innocent. It's like eating ice cream together. There's a ton of love in sex that I felt and it's unforgettable. I think your real issue is that you never experienced true physical deep beautiful passionate intimacy. And substituted it early on with porn. I hope you do. What will heal you is deep intimacy and a positive guilt free understanding of pure sex. Lay off the porn and fall in love. Make love not porn.

That's actually cute. I guess people would have invented such methods in a strict culture. The real question is - where's the charisma?

@Tahuti

@Lila9 thank you for the contribution

General well being resources mega-thread

Actually it was a joke between me and @Devinbecause before making that post @Devin had said "fuck you" to me so I responded like that. Haha.

This was a nice technique.

I get you. A girl shouldn't do that. Perfectly understand your position.

Yes yes yes yes yes yes yes. Bipolar psychosis can be easily misdiagnosed as bpd.

In a way, you have a point. May I ask you, what if the person not only looks in that direction but actually begins to follow and then touch their breasts? What will you say to that? Would you consider touching her breasts as harassment?

What kind of karma are you looking for?

They like to look cute I guess. And men like to stare.