John Iverson

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  1. Have you watch it? Haha! Go try to watch it..
  2. Okay i will see the audiobook:D thanks
  3. So far this advice is the most i really appriciate:D thankyou very much!!
  4. Ow! That's right thankssss!! I will make sure na it is for me now for others
  5. Do you know anything about advertising? Teach me
  6. If I'm in your shoes? I would not leave him yet, because I understand how difficult to change... give him a support system, like go to a rehab center.. or go to a psychiatric facility or psychologist give him the support because change cannot come easily in 1 day and even if he wants to change he cannot do it easily.. don't expect that changes is easy. in your part I suggest you read The RoadLess Traveled... read it.. and i assure you things that can help you to take an action in the moment.. i know that you love him.. you and your daughter deserve a complete family.. i am not a supporter of a divorce, before you take a step to leave make sure do anything that can help him... first.. like give him a support system... focus your plans into positve plans and actions.. don't leave yet.. i know he wants to change.. but his "THOUGHTS" and EMOTIONS is the devil and the one who does all these shit i feel sorry ... give him the light to survive his inner demon rather than go and leave.. but okay it is up to you...
  7. We are here for you Zoey
  8. Really? Thankyou Ether ?☺️
  9. Start doing inner engineering of Sadhguru
  10. Embracing destiny vs controling desiny is different.. you can't control the outer.. but the inner can
  11. You are lucky enough to be here, but there is an infinite pathto take.. May be the Robert you are told that, would not be here, maybe he will become an ordinary guy comfortable with his life, but not happy as this one doing the actual work.. but it is okay to be like that if he chose to
  12. HAhahahah! I already watched that.. haha
  13. I don't know this guy until you send here the link of his profile.. the first time i saw him is by Attending event of Sadhguru! Hahaha and when i see him i sensed that he is so many pride.. he only see his views and not that open minded he is just curious of Sadhguru not totally open.. his intuition sensed that Sadhguru is something.. and when he experienced the event man! It change his paradighm! HAHAHAHAHAHHA! I felt that vibe to him in the video!! AHahahhahaa
  14. Great i will add that on my list... i know Jung! Hahahaha
  15. Yes he is poor, he argue with people and talks something, i dont know to him ? And his rebuttal is , he is a clinical psychologist and that being clinical psychologist that the argument dropped and his work is research based he has a proof of his non sense
  16. This is interesting!! I have a feeling that those books are worth reading and worth learning
  17. But that is hard.. it is easy to say but if you don't know ways to put you to a stage of having a right person you will stay there ... having wrong people and even you are the cause of being wrong
  18. Same as my fap problem I'm still failing, last time I succeeded 40 days, the goal is 90 days, but I failed at 41, after I failed I feel that there is an enormous change in myself.. tell her that changes there is an ego backlash after some changes it slides back down to your comfort zone, but some how there is growth there, if she has accepted the truth that , that is hard she can also learn how to absorb the painful part of life... teach her how to meditate.. motivation is a big part to have a reason to move forward.. make a VISUALIZATION OF HERSELF,. VISUALIZE THAT SHE IS HOT If she wants to.. but the only reason that she failed, she cannot accept the painful feeling of making changes.. now I am accepting how painful my life without any sex life,. Plus my sexual energy and libido is high,.. imagine my suffering.. I have a high sexual energy and my libido is very high, but I don't have a sex life.. even once.. so I must accept this pain I tried to chat someone on a dating app, but still there I failed.. I must face how painfu itl is that I get comfortable.... there is no choice rather than I choose to not love myself and let myself fall because of this failure I rather accept all the pain and hey that is life that is okay, move on keep forward.. I don't repress or suppress it, but I accept the feeling deep down in my bones ha-ha it is the same as sex life and food urges! Hahaha food is yummy has a pleasure in it and she is suffering because of that,. She is running away of the pain by hurting herself or judging herself or etc.. it cannot be solve by those steps or actions.. it can be solve by just simply be gentle on herself.. cheer her!! And give him the work ! buy healthy foods if she don't want to go to the gym that is faster ! Leo provide videos of that..
  19. I don't read it till the end, but the struggle is hard for her.. I'm struggling too with my sexual urges, fap.. so yeah, I understand how hard to control the urge to eat.. when it comes to urges it is stronger than you yes definitely!!! make her accept that, that is hard.. it is a long process of purification of fats and other stuff on her belly.. if she is super insecure about what she appears,on her appearance it is more helpful if you support her to the gym... like ask her For a bonding and go to the gym! ask her if she is open for a diet, I mean let her watch Leo's Video about what food is good to BUY in the market!... That is very hard! Say to her that it is normal, .. but it is worth it if you see yourself a slim and hot chick! HAAHHAAHH I HOPE SOMEDAY I can have a hot chick HAHAHAHAHHA all she needs is a motivation!!... Another option is to ask her what she wants to do? At the end of the day she owns her life.. and she knows what to do she need know!, if she wants an advice from you and she don't know what to do maybe influence her to watch actualized.org! HAHAHAHAH! Or influence her to be better , anything..