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The best way to do this: 1. Download program called PhotoScape 2. Choose tab where you can merge photos "COMBINE" 3. add photos, edit the number of colums you want to have in "checker" tab, change size etc 4. done The only downside of this program is that all the photos will be cut into the same shape (the one you choose)

Valuetainment.

Same here. I guess this whole topic is just me looking for validation that's it's right thing to do but the truth is nobody will ever know what's the best thing to do than me. Thanks guys for all the advice.

@B_Naz Well lets gets practical. Imagine you are building a business 100h a week. What know? You can't meditate 2,3 hours a day, then contemplate etc and do all the other stuff... Interesting thought. Of course if I allocate 1 hour of yoga (+ of course meditation)and it will give me a great results - and I will try that BUT I do not think that you guys realize how much work (meaning time) you have to spend to build great business etc.

Great point. Thank you. I agree 100%. Growth will be immese I know that. But there is differance between self realization and self actualization. But the dilemma is between pursuing enlightenment vs chasing independence. Sorry @Quanty I do not get your point.

@B_Naz You can be financially stable in your 9-5. When you are independent you can decide to go on Hawai retreats for monts and do not have to worry about money. You can start paiting full time for a year and never have thought how will you survive. When I said its personal I meant that I always struggled with taking decision based on money and I hate it. Why? Doesn't it sound nice? Having that kind of freedom in your decisions and in your life? If you not dig it I don't know what else to say.

@Nahm I want to and I will. But just not all at the same time.

Couple days ago I deleted my account because I was addicted. The problem is with you not the instagram. You do not have to delete it - just block it for couple weeks so you can focus on what's important. Its about control. If after couple of weeks you will come back to your bad habits (and you probably will because they design the app that way) I think you should delete it. Cal Newport have some great thoughts about it. http://calnewport.com/blog/2017/10/02/are-you-using-social-media-or-being-used-by-it/

Yes of course. Because you grown so much from your experiances you gained wisdom and you have changed. Interesting thoughts. Thank you. I understand. Of course most of the paths can be a great distraction, but I feel that I will never forget which one is most important. If that's what you feel you should focus on - great, do it. For me - I gained a lot from my experiances and learning from Leo and of other sages that I will probably won't get lost in the game ever again. Remember that now - when you are in your early 20s - it is the time (imo) which has the most leverage - if you use it properly you can do whatever you want in your life. Of course, I will never do sth that has little or no value for the people. I could never create another McDonald's even if it would made me rich. I know my values. Nothing will be more important then that Yes of course, I am not doing this for the money - as paradoxical as it sounds. But there is difference between being financialy secure and independent. I mean crushing it so you are able to put the systems to work so you can be free to the rest of your life - and it is possible. Now, will these be my vision and goal as I reach 30? Probably not and it's okay but it is my vision now. And it is also not about if I/you can do it. That's not the point. Of course you can waste these couple years now when you lost everything in economic crash, but then you will 30 - still young, a little bit wiser with different perspectiv and values but also with a whole life in front of you. The main thing to remember is to not forget the path. I strongly believe that you can have/be everything/anyone you want in life BUT not all at the same time and that requires strategic thinking.

So guys , I am currently 22 and for a couple of years I have been, lets say, obsessed with idea (I know, I know its about its execution, but that's not the point) with creating financial independence before I am 30. Currently I am planing to open a business but I have this friction that I should study philosophy, truth and enlightenment instead and just cannot have this two lives. Although I read a lot of books, I meditate, I did a retreat couple months ago, I feel that I cannot do these 2 things at the same time because I will half ass both of them, especially because they are almost the opposites. (combining them is very rare e.g. Actualized.org, but even Leo said that it is because of this business he is not as deep as he could be; and it's also different then LP, its not about LP) It's not about looking for a balance. Its about putting 100% into one thing for quite some time. For me it should be creating financial independence, one can say that it is also really personal for me and its true, but that's not the point. Do not get me wrong I would still be self-actualizing, meditating and occasionally read a book about some deep topic, even for the sake of pleasure. Most of you will never reach the level you could because of your 'normal' life. And it's okay, but only If you don't want to. Some of you know Mj Demarco and his thing and its exactly what I am talking about. I have big internal conflict about it. For the sake of argument, suppose that if you could 'sacrifice' the next 8 years to guarantee yourself financial independence would you do it? Would you do it if you were 20? Would you not do it? Someone did that? Someone did not do it and now regrets it? Share your thoughts! My intuition (or fears?) tell me I should go into this 100%.

hmm maybe you are right. I will think about it. exactly. Thank you! I'm doing ok 1- Not really, but it does not mean that I tell truth all the time. Sometimes I just avoid direct answers. 2 - In job interview - not really, but they need to like me to give me the job, so I try to present myself as good candidate. 3 - Well, yes. Maybe not perfect answers, but the answers that I gave some thought to. You can't just say whatever comes to your mind because most of the time is not going to be good. I don't want to talk gibberish.

I think the solution is just to get present and shift awareness, not to the thoughts but focus on what I want to/should say next. Focusing on the converation to get into the flow. And of course not making a habit from this confusion.

@iTommy Yup same for me. This is my experience, maybe you can relate: I think, for me, shifting awareness and focusing very delibarety on what to say next will be the best solution.

@Spiral Yes, you are right - I should think first rather than start talking immediately - I have this tendency to jump in rather than think about the answer. But this is not a problem - problem is shifting awareness. There is another post in which someone is talking about sth similar. @blazed The problem is not the situation per se. The problem is that sometimes I have this brain fog just like @iTommy described in different topic (see above)

@iTommy @iTommy I have exactly the same problem. What I am trying to do is to focus intensively on the conversation so I can get into the flow of it. Also what I will try next time is just shift awareness back to thinking what should I do/say next rather than noticing that I am present. But sometimes I am just 'stuck' observing myself. If you get some insights let me know !