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Listen to affimirmations or write your own and say them every morning x

@Etherial Cat They are purposely trying to wind you up. Don't fall for the bait.

Again..... If the guys feel comfortable with this method, then why argue with it? If it works for them and they are not exploiting anyone, then what is the problem?

If the guys feel comfortable with this method, then why argue with it? If it works for them and they are not exploiting anyone, then what is the problem?

I don't see it as 'outplayed' when the outcome is both having satisying, consentual sex? I am with you that women play games, but they know they are doing it and they know it is all part of the thrill of the chase. So ending in sex is a win for both sides surely? It is like both are working towards a mutual outcome but have diff ways of going about about it. How is that being outplayed when that is what the woman wanted anyway? It's actually the opposite.

I mean your thrill of the chase not the girl? I am asking you if this is really what you’d prefer ??

Sure This would completely kill the thrill of the chase?

She explained perfectly why she didn't get up and leave in her previous post. Did you not read it? @Etherial Cat Thank you for bravely sharing such a powerful and important experience. I am so sorry this happened.

Is this the same girl who you said was lazy and lay there like a starfish not making any attempt to please you ?

Women want to perform and are extremely active when they are into the guy. Fact. they can’t not… it’s a biological drive.

I agree that porn / masterbation is better than real sex.

Boo! I am looking for a recommended online weekly meditation group. I like the idea of doing it alongside others, potentionally across the globe. Does anyone know of anyone? Thank you

wow! this is awesome... very inspiring x

Love this!!!!

What is your first?

I am so unbelievably lonely. I find it so hard to connect with people, although others report I am good socially and popular. I just feel so empty. It is hell. Any tips?

Yes this is true, and I also feel so tired and weak still as only just recovering from Covid pneumonia.

We want to do this when we have the money... but atm, we just dont have any disposable income. Even 4 jobs between is a fraction of what we were making pre pandemic. I am also at uni. We plan to reopen and rebuild and when that is done and we are earning a salary that alllowd holidays again, we will be able to spend more time together. My parents will not look after her as they are always 'too busy'. It is very, very hard, and with a kid, she has to come first.

I also forgot to mention I have recently been very poorly with Covid, it lead to pneomnia and I nearly died. On the recovery now but I think perhaps the weakness I feel is not helping in my resilience.

Perhaps, but I dont think so. Yes, but atm it is just impossible as our daughter is always around and we are both working all the time etc. It is tough times as we lost our business due to Covid, so now working 4 jobs between us

I really don't know.

@Leo Gura It's a long term relationship, bascially a marriage. We have been together 9 years.

This is bang on and great advice, but with parenting, working two jobs, uni and relationship. Where the fuck is the time?

@mandyjw @Raze Amazing! I will look into the Reiki and thanks for the videos.