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  1. @Nahm Yeah cause apparently the thinker is who we take our selves to be
  2. @SgtPepper That might have happened out of choice but that still doesn’t apply that how it went after was not chosen
  3. No I meant questioning which is ‘one’ of those things that are required to live a wise life along with meditation, contemplation etc.
  4. I know all the gurus, wise-men, sages have given the answer. But did you receive the answer for yourself which is the only way that the answer could mean anyhting at all? The question, the topic of the investigation is ‘Is there a thinker to thoughts?’ don’t just give me the answers that you have almost memorized. A lot of people who thinks they have the answer live their lives just as same as a person who doesn’t even ask the question. Learning=Realization=Behaviour Change!! I will be defending the answer yes and all those great non-dualers you are invited! The first thing I have to say is okay I might not be able to know when exactly what thoughts will come but I can say ‘I am gonna think about an elephant’ and then think about the elephant. Doesn’t that apply that actually I can think my thoughts?
  5. @Epiphany_Inspired Yeah that’s just awesome. Thank you for that!
  6. @Charlotte I don’t wanna talk to her. She knows I wouldn’t like what she does. I just kinda wanther to understand that. If. I tell her it then feels kinda meaningless
  7. @gleb Don’t you ever feel like she might be sexually attracted to those people? Maybe she enjoys kissing them etc. I dunno you got the point
  8. @Barbarian Number 8 @Moreira @egoeimai Sounds pretty much unconscious.
  9. @Spiral I wouldn’t consider it as cheating but also I can’t just say it is only because she enjoys to do so. I mean isn’t it obvious that she knows other guys will be turned on and if she didn’t want this to happen then she wouldn’t do it
  10. @Spiral I feel betrayed bro
  11. Are you okay with your girlfriend twerking when other guys are around or sharing a video of that? The answer will be related with a lot questions so I’d like to hear your answer
  12. How does one have romantic relationships when he/she is into enlightenment? I’ve read Leo’s insight about his girlfriend and I can’t stop thinking like ‘Maaan he’s everywhere saying he, me or any individual don’t exist but atm he is saying to someone ‘ ‘I’ love ‘you’’? How does that work? Or how come anyone that denies seperation can say to his gf/bf ‘You are more special to me than all the other’ I mean this is kinda funny and really interesting to think about
  13. It literally does not and I won’t deny it untill I get that enlightenment experience ,which I don’t know if I ever actually get it tho, but will work on ‘coins’ that’s for sure. See I completely get it that heads can not be seperated from the tails because the moment you do heads are not heads anymore it requires tails to exist. But heads are NOT the tails, they are not identical. To me, they are different but not seperate.
  14. @Naturalist 2 sides of the coin, still not the same to me. I mean I still can’t get that simplest thing out of all you have said. I mean they are not seperate, obviously but when people say they are the same I don’t get it. They can not be seperated but they are different
  15. @Nahm Why is it not just your idea that 'all is love' but is absolute truth? If everyting is relative to other how can everything be love, for absolute certainty? I am sure it is not for someone that was raped at the age of 9 and faced his mom's and dad's death.