Ananta

I'm glad to hear it, good for you ?

I have an Applied Science Degree in Nursing from a University, which is an area of STEM. Why are you being so sexist? And why are you talking all the time about divorce? You don't even have a girlfriend, but your obsessed with divorce.

@Bill W Ouch! ?

Your welcome. Even though you broke up, you may also go through these stages to some degree. So, give yourself time to grieve the loss of the relationship regardless of why it ended.

The 5 stages of grief and loss are: 1. Denial and isolation; 2. Anger; 3. Bargaining; 4. Depression; 5. Acceptance. People who are grieving do not necessarily go through the stages in the same order or experience all of them. Having contact with your ex while going through the 5 stages of grief is not a good idea in my opinion. It will prolong the process.

@Annoynymous You are offended. I apologize. It really doesn't mean that much to me, so no problem. So, call me sexist (lol), even call me a pig (lolol), if it makes you feel better. Although that's very far from the truth. Btw...I did not call .."him" ..a male sexist pig. That would be name calling and I didn't do that. Maybe re-read my posts, but he did call himself a male sexist pig.

I haven't had that problem in any of my jobs in my 49 years, but I know others have..

@Angelite Thanks?

@Annoynymous Also, btw, irl, someone has to make themselves quite obnoxious in these matters to even catch my attention, because I typically don't give a shit. I don't go around calling ppl sexist male pig or any of it. You leave me alone, I leave you alone. Period.

I normally wouldn't have said that term, but @Parththakkar12 called himself a sexist male pig, so it was in reference to that. After all he had to say about women I don't feel bad. Even though I was referencing all men with that mindset, not him in practicular. Did you read the thread?

I see. Just checking. I think it's funny how some white men have a problem with blacks or women (minorities) trying to get equal rights for themselves, when they themselves have a silver spoon in their mouth. I normally ignore it, but some threads catch my attention, but IRL, I ignore the self proclaimed "sexist male pig", knowing they are just ignorant.

Who are you talking to? Personally, I'm not disrespecting anyone. I have no problem with men. And who is talking about race?

When I came home from work tonight and found out my husband's hours have been cut and that I will be paying quite a bit more towards bill's each month then I already was I sorta chuckled when I thought of this thread. Good damn thing I get paid very well for what I do and hourly I make more money than my husband does. No sexist male pigs work at my company thank goodness. I earn a fair wage for what I do.

Yes, we know. Good luck with that.

It was just a joke. Lol

@Shin Thank you! lol

Then per "your" logic your opinion holds no credit, is invalid and ppl should just put you on there ignore list. That's how silly what you said sounded like.

You aren't married but say stuff about marriage and divorce all the time! I'm pretty sure you have even said you have never been married, so same difference and yeah, age is just a number once one is no longer a child. To put someone on the ignore list because they are 25 and have an opinion about marriage is rather immature, imho.

Everyone has a different personality, that may have something to do with your reaction, another thing is if you secretly liked it on any level, not saying you did, but its another possibility. Perhaps, you just froze and wanted it to stop on it's own, meaning you are wayyy to passive and need to step up your boundries with ppl. I'm a pretty straightforward lady and if I want your damn hands off my breasts your gonna know it! If I sorta don't mind, then I might just say, what are doing? Or if I don't mind at all, I might say nothing at all and make out with you instead (Hypothetically, of course). Once at a party my friends sister who was known bisexual started commenting on how fine my ass was in my Jean's (she was standing behind me), then she grabbed ahold of my waistband and was talking in my ear. It's been awhile I can't recall what she said. I remember thinking if no one was around how far would I let this go? She was sorta pretty, lol. Anyways, my friend yelled at her sister to leave me alone and get the hell out. That was the end of that, but if I wasn't somewhat curious I would have put an end to it myself, as soon as she was checking me out. We all have are limits. I would encourage you to thinking about your limits and boundaries. If you don't want that women laying her hands on you again, then what will you do/say to her next time, regardless of the ton of excuses her cousin makes for her bad behavior. Stand up for yourself!

Oh. Wow, unbelievable! I literally would have gave her one stern warning to get her hands off my breasts, it IS sexual assault, if she didn't listen, then I would have zaped her with my stun gun. ⚡

Yes, it is, I will edit it out.

I was married at 21 after living together for 3 years and we have now been together for 31 years. Why wouldn't a 25 grown man have an opinion on marriage? Why not?

Love this!

@VeganAwake Perhaps you need to work on your joke delivery or the punch line or say, "just kidding". It's not coming across as joking. The material on this forum is rather serious, usually, wouldn't you say? So, the reader isn't going to assume you are kidding or joking. Anyways, I love Robin Williams and that's a funny scene. Trying to get on my good side? I don't have one... Lol. Jk

I could see you wanting your name to now be "Duality Police". So, no, not a dead give away. Sorry.