Ananta

"Nothing real can be threatened. Nothing unreal exists. Herein lies the peace of God." Acim

No worries, I do very well. I don't do anything specific now a days.

It's not a limitation. If you can't sit straight up, then lie down. I personally always got more out of Self inquiry, then meditation. Anyways, me and another moderator here have multiple sclerosis. Mine hasn't given me any problems in several years, but regardless it doesn't limit you spiritually. Not in my opinion.

Welp, I'm tired of arguing with men on this sub-forum, trying to get them to see the women's perspective, to stop objectifying women, etc, etc. I've decided to rarely (if at all) participate on this "relationship subforum" anymore. It's just not worth the headache. To the men that treat women like ladies with respect and dignity, not objectification and manipulation, thank you.?❤ Peace

@Serotoninluv great post❤

If you had/have a daughter, would you want a guy to think this way about her? ... this is the type of thinking you are promoting and its not good. Women are human beings, not just sex objects.

Twice when I was young I gave in and had sex earlier then I should have, because I liked the guys so much and thought they liked me the same. They didn't. They used me. So, every guy after that suffered because if it. I made future guys wait "at least" a month to get close to me. Period. No exceptions. When I was young I didn't understand how I guy could act like he liked me so much, but after sex wanted nothing to do with me. It was quite a mind fuck. It made me not trust men.

Its disgusting. It causes the woman to feel regretful and used, but hey, you get to put a notch on your bedpost.?

@see_on_see ❤

Rebirth/reincarnation.... karma follows.

It seem the honeymoon phase is over for her. ? That's when it gets real and the short comings of the other person start blaring at you. See, they were disguised or blinded by infatuation in the honeymoon phase. You have to soul search if the heart-ache of knowing she's seeing other guys and the criticism is something you can deal with. If not, then your decision is to go your separate ways and mend your wounded heart over time. If you aren't sure and want to see what happens, well, that's a choice too, but she might torture you along the way. It's rough, either way is going to be painful. All the best❤

@electroBeam ❤

@electroBeam Ppl usually have to feel somewhat invested to try to make something work that has fallen apart and if she just wants to be friends and nothing more, then you have to think what's best for you at this point. Many times its separating completely for awhile and reconnecting as friends later after your feelings aren't so intense. Her expecting you to go from romantic relationship to friends with cuddling and kisses isn't fair to you. Lastly, you could ask her if she wants to try counseling to help with the transition or maybe it would reveal if she thinks there is a possiblity of rekindling the spark.

I meant, I loved him, but wasn't "in" love anymore..meaning, romantically. If she's sending you mixed signals you'd have to ask her why? Is she trying to start over with you? (Ie, now wants to go on dates) Then, you aren't still in love her or you don't think it's worth the effort to get her back. No problem with that, just calling it like I see it. Or you aren't right for each other and should split, but these things are for you to decide, since we don't know you or your relationship.

I didnt read all replies, sorry, but here goes... Aren't you the guy who wanted to break up with his GF because you wanted to move out of the country for your job? Didn't you say you wanted to break up with her? I'm pretty sure it was you. Anyways, you haven't put enough quality time and effort into the relationship maybe and she could have slowly fell out of love with you, but still loves you. That's what's going on I think. Want to turn this around? You will need to spend time taking her out and making her fall in love with you again, otherwise she won't get back the sex/romantic feelings for you. Oh, the reasons she gave are just excuses, imo, because she couldn't say she has fallen out of love with you. Sometimes women know they are no longer "in love", but aren't sure why. This is just my opinion, take it with a grain of salt, but it's happened to me in relationships, so that's what I'm basing it on. I literally told him I feel like we are family, but I'm not "in" love with you anymore. I had been neglected too long.

@Byun Sean I only brought it up in this thread, because of this- I am Dij He apparently wanted it discussed in this thread. Since he referenced me and the strike he got. Anyways, you can PM me if you have further objections. I plan to drop it now.

@Byun Sean From Leo in the forum guidelines section: "NOTE: This is NOT an anything-goes free speech zone! You do NOT get to say toxic & fallacious things here with impunity. This community is regularly moderated to maintain high quality and civility. Trolls, exploiters, racists, ideologues, and devils are regularly banned. Remember that without moderation this community would be a toxic mess." I'm not the only mod pointing this out to him with warnings from the relationship sub forum and the other mod is male. Does he have a shadow issue from guys in his past too? Lol.

And "he" wants the divorce, "he" has another woman, that "he" will marry when the divorce is final. They were married 25 years without a prenup. I stated this last time you brought it onto the forum. Like two days ago. You are just endlessly trying to slander women in any way. Its noticable and you've been warned.

It most certainly is and you are but a shadow of the guy I once new when you called me Dij. Now you're all about red pill garbage ideology, treating women like crap, stereotyping, sexism and frankly many members here have complained about you already (woman and men). At least one asked how to block you. Another asked you to not respond to him any more. Perhaps this forum isn't for you?

Oh wow, I sleep very soundly, so I doubt I could wake up after a dream to write it down. Damn, that would probably happen to me too, especially since I'm so accustom to not remembering. I mean, over a decade is a very long time. I have the opposite problem. I could sleep through a hurricane. I hit snooze 6 times before I can wake up, lol. It's funny when I'm on-call, cause it's a toss up if they can wake me. Yes, that's cool. Thanks for the rest of your insights. I appreciate it.

I am right handed. I am a logical thinker, not too creative (although I use to oil paint), but I don't know if I believe in left or right brained. Why? I'm not sure at this point. Its been well over a decade. Are you glad you now recall your dreams? If so, why?

On the flip side, when I awake from sleep I have no dream recall at all. In 6 months time I might recall a tiny portion 1-2 times. So, for me, its waking, deep sleep, waking. It's been a very long time like this.

You can choose to not act on it though. If you so choose.

Also, my best advice, don't be a shallow Hal douche bag. You might get some sex, but you won't find someone to love. Work on some personal development stuff, get some new clothes and hair cut. Approach women you like, that you would like a date with and be genuine when you talk to them. Good vibes go a long way.

I think its bullshit tbh. I looked for guys that I found cute and that had something about their personality that I liked. Good chemistry doesn't hurt either. None of that had to do with "alpha" vs beta. Also, if a guy treated me like shit or talked to me like they were Gods gift, they got kicked to the curb.