What are good ways to improve empathy towards other people? I think I know what other people are feeling, but I somehow don't care. I don't accept that others get upset over things I wouldn't even bother about. I find it especially difficult to deal with children. When they are upset, like they just broke something and are crying I don't know what to do. I have given up on trying to calm children because I just make them cry more, so I just ignore them.