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@kras Shadowork, emotional freedom, meditation, presence, self-Inquiry, letting go, surrender, acceptance, forgiveness. You need to go within your psyche. The best way to start is to practice total relaxation. Body and mind. Accept all tensions. All negative thoughts. Let them run. After sometime of doing this and getting some relief. Then you can work on feeling emotions, all types of them. Make feeling and expressing emotions (not supressing) a habit. Then you can add presence and mindfulness to burn the negativity of your persona. After you get a good amount of interna healing. You can proceed with meditation. Meditation is the fastest way to healing. Its the kickstarter. Because it takes you there, meditation happens by itself. Theres no real effort needed. Lastly, you can do self Inquiry in peace and Stillness to investigate accurately all deep rooted false beliefs, habits, emotions (triggers). Dating (getting a gf or wife if not awake) and not getting hurt is little probable. Because you may do it unconscious and the other person may as well throw negativity unconsciously/impulsively. The exception is if both are very advanced, positive and even conscious to decent degrees, but even then... I prefer friend-lovers, no tags, no expectations. If you have no expectation of her being yours, you cant loose her. If you dont expect sex from her, you wont feel as lacking or loosing it either. But if both are simply friends without expectations, ocassionally sex may arise. And a new friends-lovers, sexual relationship begins. In a higher loving quality. Ofcourse, you need to make sure to let it be that way, friends-lovers frame. Tags will kill freedom. (Some may try to persuade you into trapping you inside a relationship, this is where you either let her go and she comes back acepting it that way, or she leaves).This type of relationship you cant manipulate. It has to arise as a surprise. You wont find all girls like this. Its almost a gift. You may intend it but if you desire it you lack it. This is tricky to explain because it requires a letting go for it to come. Its an energy dynamic. Neediness is a compulsive clinging through desire. Its a grabbing. Attraction is a magnetic letting go.

Dont do dating until you heal yourself. Most relationships have problems like this, because people dont work on healing themselves. And it looks normal, but its not healthy either. If you want high quality relationships, do deep healing. Ofcourse, at that moment of healing, you wont even crave relationships, they might come and appear but you wont be needy about them. Its counterintuitive. Another thing I learned, even when I did lot of healing in the past, is that you need to be with those matching your vibration. I remember mixing spirituality with pickup when I began and dated damaged girls who passed me their trauma, even after doing healing. I didnt knew how to read energies well and the consequences of manipulation.

Most girls are attratcted to the stereotype man that society sells. We are all conditioned in some way by this subconscious stereotypes. Thats why she liked the masculine man. It approves her subconscious ideal. Also, thats the first image you sold her, she thinks thats the real you, but its not, cuz is manipulation. No one is macho in its core. People are just faking it so much that it becomes normal. They are numb. See, a relationship is about relating to something. Your relationship with her, is she relating to that image she liked. If you drop that mask, she will loose attraction. So dont expect to make her like your authentic self. I lived all these scenarios with my last gf as well. I dont care if girls or men dont like me aswell for being authentic. It will cost your attraction to many, but you will gain personal satisfaction, joy, peace and self love. It takes courage to do this, cuz a part of you want the lower needs to be satisfied. You decide. Time will teach you. In the future, just be you and attract an authentic girl aswell. Their are many, it just takes the same vibration to see it. Even if you attract a hot girl with manipulation, notice the relationship doesnt have the same level of quality of that of an authentic one. The closer you are to your truth, the more you attract a girl as same, an the same quality of both will be in the relationship. This might be a little harder to manifest or find, but its way better or staying alone. Everyone is selling themselves short for quick love and sex, which create alot of side problems.

The only knowledge you truly need in dating is that whatever you are at that moment, is what you will attract. From there, you work on your life alone and go up in your journey. The people you will attract will be at your journey level. Experience and everything else will build by itself. If you truly want something, focusing on women will cause inbalance in all other areas. One good women at a time is enough, but you alone should be already enough. Forget about getting laid with a bunch of bad btches. Its a big time waster that ultimately brings no joy. Be aligned to bring that which is best for you at the time. Manipulation, specially in dating, brings low quality experiences.

There are many type of confidences. But, to build core confidence is equal to having a strong ego personality. It means you have to be ignorant and blind of perception. You need to be very deluded into your own beliefs. That way you build a stable strong ground in your consciousness, but it means being ignorant. Easiest way to get high levels of rock confidence? Stop doing consciousness work and self Inquiry. Get yourself into challenging situations, like being around gansgters enviornments, going to war, being in conflict, etc. Do I recommend this? No. But its how unshakable confidence is built. Im just telling you how I got mine. The benefits are that is useful for social situations and some other occasions. But is extremely limiting. You have to be deeply unconscious and it can get you into trouble. If you are in the spiritual path, you should go fully within until liberation. Other wise you will get into more trouble. Self development work can help a lil bit to build confidence, but it wont build rock solid warrior like confidence/certainty (ignorance of reality) . That confidence is built by surviving difficult situations, which build strong self-belief.

Guys, please help me get this right. Especially the enligthened ones here. To begin with, my personality is very dominant and I have a strong character by default. I used to have so strict boundaries I would even repell people off. I was getting off balance and started to inflate my ego with negative emotions. This helped in a superficial sense, but the cost was extreme pain. I was lost and didnt knew about truth/spirituality. Then, I discovery spirituality and start healing my self, becoming extremely open, passive, positive, etc. The complete other extreme, cuz I dont know how to be two things at the same time. I can only be whatever Iam choosing to be in the moment. Now, the problem comes as I got healed and alot happier, I notice that fighting, being confrontational and arguing (things that keep boundaries), actually were counterproductive to my spiritual growth. If I give energy to something or someone of a negative energy, I have to full myself of that energy/interpretation as well, which brings negativity (like getting mad everytime) and it inflates my ego, completely destroying any spiritual progress or healing done before. So, I used to accept many bs, even thou I wanted to smack the hell out of people, just not to fck the progress. Well, I just couldnt keep up. All of that bs accumulated made me explode and tell almost anyone without exception that was going against my boundaries to fuck the hell off, ready to smack them any time. I lost most of the spiritual work done before (not all, luckily :D) and now i have a fckng negative aura with alot of work to be done again. The problem with the path is, people see you with your guard down so they try to take advantage and bully you. They cant identify with your new clean energy and authenticity. They may see you as weird for not being like the rest or following the crowd, etc. How do you guys keep up in the path and set boundaries if a boundary comes from the ego protecting itself by manifesting itself as it gives energy to itself? While what you want is to get rid of itself. Do you need to give it energy and then heal as fast as possible? Like inflating your ego and popping it constantly, lol? Also, if any awaken read this, how do you deal with boundaries if you have no ego, no self preservation? Hows the game in your case after trascendence? Cuz the majority of awaken beings live mostly in a position where they are not to be interrupted by randoms.

If you want to get the vaccine but are unsure, simply wait. Whats the hurry? Take care of yourself and stay healthy, then later when things are clearer you may act.

Lately, I have been contemplating death and realized that the unconscious rejection of it was making my present experience dull. As I accept physical and psychological death I feel more open and alive. This notion of been attached to creation, positivity and life was actually closing my experience. I feel more complete, alive and relaxed now as I embrace and welcome death and destruction, just as life and creation. Its beautiful! As a practice, make death a mind game of really not knowing if you will be here tomorrow. You will live this moment intensely instantly! This should be thought in school.

@Heart of Space To learn alot, you still have.

PS. 12 year old vid

Trending walking alien seen by bikers on India a few days ago. If the video looks good they say its edited and if it looks bad its also edited... Who knows, but with all the UFO stuff going on lately, it doesnt surprise me.

@Tim R True or not, the possibilities of contact are increasing. Even Bentinho here saying thats a UFO in the pic, who knows. https://www.instagram.com/p/CPkzRVwAoti/?utm_medium=copy_link

@kray Hahah. See, lets say its real, people's minds just wont accept something so paradigm shifting as that. They would go on an existential crisis instantly.

@Frosty97 What positive stuff would one get out of there? Since mostly it is used for illegal, negative and dark things.

What all the teachers wont tell you. Especially if you are new.

Nithyananda sex scandal with actress Ranjita. Then he negates it saying it was a spy cam, then say its fake video edited in different interviews, lol. I truly feel he is enligthened, yet still a scammer.

@Leo Gura The sweetest jerk I've ever seen

After seeing Leo improve his marketing strategy to reach more people, I wonder if @Leo Gura pretend to grow an instagram account for actualized.org. I dont know about Facebook, but at least having someone managing your instagram account would be crucial for the growth of the channel. Am saying, cuz maybe as you are not so much into social media, have not seen the importance people give to it. You would sip into peoples pockets without their consent by paying publishing which is not so expensive in IG. And the short clips could be posted in there too.

@sda I think theres a page, but its dead.

@Preety_India You are projecting too much. First of all, you can disable comments on social media to disallow trashtalk. Second, I see sadhguru having alot of success in social media. No one trash talks. Remember, such insta page would only attract like minded, open and interested people. Those not interested will not stay there for much. They wont understand shit and just keep going their way. Third, you dont need to quit completely on instagram. You personally can make another account where you only follow positive, spiritual and motivational pages. It would program your mind by locking your perception on good.

@Preety_India Not really. And even then, you can still be at both, thou. Dont get your perspective so narrowed. I started as fckng lost ignorant on social media. And the spiritual pages on instagram got my attention by sharing deep quotes that I resonated with. Thats how it all started.

@Preety_India Alright, take the tik tok out. But Instagram and Facebook are fine. You are not understanding my point. Its not about leo liking social media or being recognized. Its to help humanity. And all the masses are all day long in instagram! Just because theres a group that its advanced and has followed leo for long doesnt mean other people cant reach those levels or even higher! We all started as lost ignorants. These people simply need guidance, they are lost by conditioning, but deep down there are many of potential buddhas and krishnas looking their way out unconsciously. They just dont know how the hell to get out of it. Remember the story of buddha? His family didnt want him to see the reality of the world. He lived in a bubble. Well, the same goes for the masses. They have not even had the opportunity to see and think about another posibility of life. They only know their daily conditioning.

@BipolarGrowth I see @Preety_India I mean, if those are his reasons its cool. But if you truly want to catch on people, it would be dumb to ignore this or rationalize your way out of it. Actualized.org on Instagram + Tiktok and subtitles on youtube. Thats like the End Game of ignorance to humanity.

@Preety_India Try to only consume spiritual content. Whatever your consciousness gets its attention consistently it becomes attached to. But you have to make it your world. You cant be going out as much, thinking about crap, watching news, movies, hanging out with average people, eating junk, watching porn, listening to mainstream music, etc. You have to lock your perception as to that only spirituality exists (mostly). Its like thats your main and only priority. To think about spirituality, read spiritual books, watch enligthened gurus talk most of the day, repeat mantras and do the practice. If you do this alone without mixing up with other things, you build a spiritual ego. You change the way you react and move also. Trying to make everything as supportive as possible for awakening. Its becoming obsessed with truth. If you get momentum on this, your mind will be programmed to think only and mostly about spirituality/truth which will help you keep going automatically to enligthenment. The mind will think it has catched you on an ideology, but the ideology in this case its the truth. Ofc, Its still and ideology, but you will ultimately trascend it, it will be a constant and automatic fixed reminder. The ego will pop itself at the end.

A quick trick for those of you trying to get enligthened or accelerate your spiritual process. Make yourself angry. Am not saying to chase enligthenment after getting angry at life. What I mean is, if you have already chose consciously and calmed, to pursue enligthenment, knowing its consequences to your life situations. Then, get angry as a technique. Find reasons from your past in your psychology that truly make you angry, then observe the observer out of this anger. Its like a nitro. Thats how I got to experience my first awakening. Now, only do this if you are alone, never in public.