Ajax

No, I don't see. I understand a relationship is a set of agreements. Accordingly, if we officially start a relationship, I want my most important set of agreements to be crystal clear. I agree to be completely trusting, which means no jealousy or controlling behavior. Even if she goes out clubbing and comes home at 6 am. Or if she disappears for days at a time, I will give her the benefit of the doubt. I state my commitment once and only once over the course of the relationship. So I don't see how it is based on fear, don't all relationships have ground rules? Hmmm interesting to consider. A little of both. I guess, I am a bit eccentric. I can work or get involved in something for days to the point that I forget to eat. I am sometimes say a little too much what is on my mind, or not enough. it's a weird balance. However, I do find it distressing that women find me odd to say the least. I can be quite charismatic when I need to be. Yet, I do have difficulty letting women know the real me and when I do, it is quite distressing that they would reject my personality. I attempt to circumvent this by maintaining a routine by tasks to complete that are supposed to be to be conducive to maintaining healthy relationships. Thus, I do frequent contemplation of proper and acceptable conduct several times a week..Thus, I do try to delete repulsive traits yet it becomes a point where it really does become inauthentic. I would say, I am unhappy. I'm leaving. I would not t ever betray her trust, and cheat... Ever. I am baffled, what kind of person would do that!

@LSD-Rumi Great questions and awesome response. Thank you for replying❤️ 1. It's happened multiple times with different partners. 2. I tell her upfront, I will trust you 100%. I will give you any benefit of the doubt. I will not exhibit insecurities or jealousy at all. I keep my word. 3. You betray me you are dead to me. 4. Why do you say fear, I don't see how that fits in the equation. 1. She decided to make the decision to cheat. She decided to hide things. She decided to act unethically.She decided to betray my trust. 2. I do accept the fact that I am eccentric and difficult to understand. I understand a relationship comes with a risk of betrayal. I do know my personality flaws. 3. I do understand the concept of taking 100% responsibility, which is why I am constantly learning and adjusting. It is why I am capable of trusting someone fully regardless of what happened in the past. Well, that doesn't sound very loyal to me. At all. Are all women like that? If so, then it is a very good idea to never commit to a woman and just sleep with women on a whim. I would not wanna fall in love with someone like that. Nuh uh, not me... Hope they find their sucker lol

Awesome man! That is admirable. ? No more headache, no more mess. Of course, some people have different cutting ties. That is the challenge.

Haha haha ? Now, THAT is rich. Magical being indeed. Thanks for sharing.

To answer the subject title of this thread: You are not alone in your struggle to date. In fact, this is one of the big reasons why Red Pill Philosophy and MGTOW are getting more popular with some men. They have had enough of all the trouble! The sad thing is that RP often does get them laid or at least see enough potential and they buy into it. Many men just don't care anymore, they feel the game is rigged and they can't win no matter what they do. Dating isn't even the hardest part. Not even close. It can get much, much worse. It freaking sucks lol. I have som Norwegian friends and they are importing women from like Korea and the Philippines, lol and they are pretty happy.

Excellent questions!

Well, what is mature love? What does it look like? Will I never know mature love because I have never heard of Absolute selflessness? I gotta learn absolute selflessness, before I know what mature love is? If Mature Love is Absolute Selfishness, why use the word Mature love? If I am missing one piece of absolute selflessness will mature love be lost to me forever? Then you jump to God... what does he have to do with mature love and absolute selfishness? This is a bit complicated for me... can you reduce this into its simplest form?

Nope, just personifying for the sake of using language. Replace with whatever word you choose. The label rarely matters.... well unless the label has a skinless skull and 2 crossed-bones, then the label matters, it matters alot.

Keep a close eye on they/them. People tend to be on their best behavior when they are being closely watched.

Then the mystery is solved. It has been written by the one by davecraw by clarification of this post. Unless, unless it is all a lie! OMG lol don't mind me, I am just being silly.

I don't subscribe to the concept of ego, because ego means your identity, your ideas about ego become entire new identity. The hell is that! To hell with ego! Nope, I don't even know what the hell is self-love is. What is it?

Right now, I am thinking that I see= black markings on a screen that contain ideas that I would like to consider. Who is typing it, does not enter my mind. So, I have to make up an answer on the spot. I am faced with questions. What do you mean by typing of this post? Do you mean the one that I am currently writing? Typing is an action, reading is a reception. Since the question is offered in present tense and I am currently typing, Obviously, I think I am the one typing this because I can feel my fingers clanking on a keyboard and can see a letter pop up after a button I push, so it leads me to the notion that I am the one currently creating the effect. This is my current perspective. I think people try to force high-consciousness concepts right up their ass, hoping that shit will stick. Well, good luck with that one, lol.

Why does a thinking/pensive face often have the mouth of a sad face?

I see that I got a little to philosophical for the practical nature of this section of this forum, so I will try again. It solves problems. It makes life better. It is worth doing. No, there is knowledge, power, position, health, relationships, management, technology, abilities and money. Truth is simply a higher power. Nonexistence. 1. I have no idea what you mean by "absolute material truth" so any response will be off the mark. The creation of civilizations is a major subject, I don't know what you really want to know with this question. 2. What? The point of civilization is to make your life easier by working together with others. What are you asking? Do you even know? 1. "The Truth will set you free". A very basic meaning is that it is liberating. 2. When you start learning, experience is the only thing you can rely on. You can only judge truth for yourself. However, the more you advance, the more you realize....experience is bullshit. It is about realizations, then it is about realizing those realizations are bullshit and on and on....But now, we are going off the rails... Great stopping point.

The more you understand, the less you need to follow the rules. It is there, you just don't see it.

Compliments can make you feel uncomfortable. A complement comes with an expectation or obligation to respond, which makes things awkward. I you use a complement; it should be mixed with a joke or immediately move on to a different subject, because it will give her the opportunity laugh it away, or not have to directly respond to the complement by moving on to a different subject.

That is garbage. Simply a lie.

These are concepts. They are not real. Thanks for sharing ?

White or brown rice? Brown is much more nutritious because it contains more fiber and B vitamins. But I prefer white because it is more yummy and I get a big Buddha smile after eating it. That's gotta be spiritual right. is raw ginger good for you? Yes, it is also good in tea. But I mainly eat sushi ginger because it is super yummy. is kombucha good for you? That is what people say. The science is not definitive. And it may contain added sugar. it also contains alcohol. However people swear by it's health effects like probiotics and antioxidants. I find it super Uber yucky so I don't mess with the stuff. I would rather just have some nice hot tea... what are the most important supplements to take? It depends on your situation. I take a good multivitamin/multimineral capsule, some protein, and some fish oil. Also a probiotic. That is pretty much it. This body is healthy so only the basics are needed. best book to read on nutrition? You know, I don't believe I have ever read a book on nutrition. Leo has" rich food/poor food" in his booklist. If you want to learn about health issues and nutrition, then I would recommend you check his list. Personally, I took a few nutrition courses and some lectures offered on audible.

yes and it's good we agree that you are insane ?

Haha good one, I am going to memorize that quote a recite it in a crowded restaurant, just to provide entertainment. Dinner and a show, baby!

Lol I am just messing with you ? I didn't say anything is insane. If I don't like something, I am sure as hell not going to choke down the whole damn thing. I also found it funny that you think drinking down a bottle and enjoying it is insane. ?

Really? Really? It's insane to stop something you don't like?

Haha, this put a funny image in my head. Imagine begging in the street for quarters to buy some condoms from the vending machine. Oh man, I got a good laugh.

There are 3 people in the relationship. You, her and jealous. In this case, three is a crowd. If there is any chance you have to kill that 3rd wheel ( the shadow) For me, selecting a mate requires that they have certain traits and not have certain ones either. I would not ever date a woman with promiscuous tendencies.I got better things to do than deal with that shit.