Adam M

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This.

Some men interact with the world in a logical and calculating way. They need logical step-by-step instructions to do what girls feel should be easy and natural. In the end, all behavior is manipulation, whether you are comfortable with it or not. When a baby cries it is manipulating its mother to give it attention. When you laugh at a joke that isn't funny you are manipulating the other person to like you. Trust me. Many men are completely autistic when it comes to expressing their feelings to women and they need some logical instructions to make it natural.

Kissing is a natural result of sexual escalation. Start with non-sexual forms of physical escalation like touching her on the arm, being playful and flirty. You can put your arm around her, grab her arm and put it around you. Make fun of her and pull her toward you. Tickle her. Pick her up. All the time joking around. Basically, you are getting her comfortable with touching and being close to you. You can't kiss the girl unless she is allowing you to touch her and hold her. The best way that works for me is to be in a situation where we can sit beside each other with my arm around her. And, all the while being playful and non-serious, you are basically getting closer and closer to her. The whole time you are being conscious of how comfortable she feels. If she gets stiff and pulls away, then stop and recalibrate. Basically, if you escalate properly, you'll feel a force pulling your face towards hers. It will be natural. Kiss for a few seconds and pull away, laugh and say something stupid then keep having fun as if nothing happened.

" aren't we supposed to help people?" "WE'RE SUPPOSED TO HELP OUR PEOPLE! STARTING WITH OUR STOCKHOLDERS!? Who's helping them out!?!"

@Thetruthseeker I was on the summit as well and was equally disappointed. I was actually SUPER disappointed. Angry even. You're right, I would've liked if Eben put their focus onto making a good summit instead of spending 6 hours trying to sell me something that is promising to help me do what I paid the original 2k to do.

I lived in Wat Chom Tong in Thailand for 6 weeks for free and I potentially could've lived there for years if I wanted to. They teach Burmese-style Vipassana (mindfulness with labeling). They have some international teachers who speak English so I guess you would have to email or call them. I got set up to go to this place through my vipassana teacher who lives here in Toronto. With my friend, I literally flew to Thailand and navigated my way to this monastery and lived there for 6 weeks. The only cost of living there is that you have to meditate A LOT.

I think he mentioned that he wanted to share it in a future video. However, I would also like to be pointed towards some resources that I can research for myself in the meantime.

Find yourself a girl that integrates the healthy aspects of the Divine Feminine (full spectrum expression of emotions) without being toxic, undeveloped, and unconscious. I did it! Although it took some work My girlfriend is still a crazy bitch now and again but she's actually conscious of it. Healthy girls aren't boring. A girl with a properly integrated feminine is a wild slut for God.

@RoerAmit read models by Mark Manson. All your questions answered. Pickup is about honesty and transparency. But it must be in a socially calibrated way. Telling the girl that you want to fuck her within 5 seconds of meeting her will get you slapped in the face. However, you can tell her that and be honest in more socially calibrated ways (eye contact, smiling, hugging, flirting, touching, "Just wanted to say that I think that you're really pretty. Good job! *high-five*"

https://www.netflix.com/title/80013552?s=a&trkid=13747225&t=cp Here is the link to watch the movie. Moon is in Pisces ♓ (so it's time for some existentially woke shit) The Tale of Princess Kaguya by Studio Ghibli is the most profound and stunning metaphor for nonduality, and the existential sadness (and joy) for living through Earthly lifetimes. I had a full on existential awakening at the end of this movie and cried violently in front of my girlfriend for 20 minutes straight. I highly recommend watching closely. The ending is one of the most mind-blowing and beautiful endings of any movie. The entire movie is a masterpiece that will endure throughout human history as one of the most beautiful pieces of art ever made. The crown jewel of Japan's Walt Disney, Hayao Miyazaki. Also, the nature imagery and unique art style is stunning. He captures the innocence and purity of nature (and also of humans).

“Nothing in life is to be feared, it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so that we may fear less.” Marie Curie

Your always-present beingness is here. Enlightenment is here. Will it come from another place? From some far-off distant land? At some future time? Depending on the circumstances? Becoming aware of what you actually are isn't random at all. You are already that.

Wow what a champion. This guy approaches girls while he's talking on the phone with their mother and STILL sleeps w them. ???

Readings: - Think and Grow Rich - Psycho-Cybernetics - Science of Sucess - Ask and it is Given - Money and the Law of Attraction

Thanks Doc. You're totally right and that's why it's important to hold the model loosely. One of the scariest parts of teaching people spiral dynamics is seeing how they naturally use it to judge and pigeon hole other people.

Great share! U da best <3

Escape wage slavery over the next 5 years by honing yourself as an instrument that provides massive value to people. You're not gonna escape wage slavery by buying bitcoin...so forget it. Invest your time, focus, and energy on something that can generate income for you for the rest of your life.

Creativity is getting out of your own way, surrendering your fear-based resistance, and allowing God to work through you.

Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm... I wouldn't put it quite like that... Solipsism is still a very dualistic philosophy. It can sometimes be a good analogy for enlightenment but at the end of the day, solipsism is still just a delusional philosophical school.

@neutralempty One must move through YELLOW to get to TURQUOISE. There is no TURQUOISE without YELLOW in the same way that there are no humans without organs, there are no organs without tissues, there are no tissues without cells, no cells without molecules, no molecules without atoms... What it means to be TURQUOISE is to integrate YELLOW. Recently, I've been seeing more and more how YELLOW is a necessary predecessor to TURQUOISE. YELLOW is about learning the maps really well and TURQUOISE is like actually going out there and studying the terrain. (just a loose simile).

Good observation! Wilber and even Leo talk about this phenomenon a lot. Green is infatuated with the "ideal" of equality but has trouble embodying true unconditional love. So, Green will accept my opinion as equal and valid as long as I'm not talking about murdering puppies and raping the environment. "All opinions are valid ------> except those opinions who do not agree with the previous statement." Only in Yellow can we actually begin to dive into the mind of a criminal or a rapist and understand that they aren't just "low-consciousness people that need more hugs and magic mushrooms." Yellow can see the deep psychological dynamics and interconnections that allow for people to have violent, manipulative, greedy, and exploitative tendencies. Yellow understands that all spiral stages are a survival response that best suits one's survival conditions. Therefore, while Green talks about unconditional love, it still isn't conscious enough to embody their ideal. Only Turquoise can do this effectively which requires moving through Yellow. Edit: Also, Green has this really obnoxious tendency to over-flatten and give too much equality to different ideas. Green sees all (compassionate) opinions as valid but still hasn't developed the 2nd-tier ability to discern which opinions are more effective for optimizing complex systems on individual and collective levels (and are more conscious and loving).

Women do get turned on by a man's looks. But, unlike men, women also get turned on by average (even below average) looking men who are bold at communicating confidence, humor, and grounded masculine energy. You'd be surprised how easy it is to have 10s become extremely attracted to you through nothing but presence and humor. Attracting women is nothing more than energy communication. If your energy is in the right place, attraction is almost inevitable. Simple as that.

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