Amit

Good seems like we have resolved your confusion, did we?

Consciousness You're wrong, that's what your confusion all about and it's your ego resisting truth right here

"I am eleven miles away to the window of paradise." Not really "Illusory purpose will create the being on its own" As a being, it's your responsibility to create it and though absolutely it might be illusion but create it consciously. We live in the relative world, conscious purpose will help to create a beautiful dream, that's what God choose us for, to dream up more loving, more conscious world.

Yes relax and be joyful.. What do you mean choice will make you?

You know how to do everything you knew before, making choice depends on your aim... And aim/purpose is just construction, so construct a purpose and then making choices will be simple

Ambiguity nd confusion ... Well bc it's a new paradigm.. find out what the fears & confusion about, write down the thoughts that comes, now try to discover the truth behind your core beliefs, are they able to explain the experience you're having, mostly not, then adopt the better models in whatever confusion you have...

Rightly said, It's never about what you think, but what is. Not letting your inner chattering stops you from doing what it takes is the real work

Red pill is bullshit, patriarchy is bullshit, feminism is bullshit, socialism is bullshit, capitalism is bullshit... Any philosophy or ideology which tries to contain the infinity into finity is bullshit... As we're talking red pill, it has its purpose just like porn has its own purpose, killing someone for food has a purpose. Red pill excludes feminine and sees the world from a shallow, lusty lens, but it's a state of consciousness... Untill it manifests as a crime or something like that, we've to trust the process of evolution in the red pillers and give them chances.. Lastly this quote summarise the whole red pill cult, now only the men who had no chance and completely ignorant about woman will fall for it, and what will cure him is feeling of love and experience of sex, not ranting against this ideology. "A woman is a lock and a man is a key. If a key opens a lot of locks, it is a master key. But if one lock is opened by lots of keys, it is a dodgy lock." - reddit/redpill

Talking about naan, tasty while still chewing it but will know the unhealthy after effects when it reaches your stomach... But won't stop you to enjoy once in a while... About other things, where I live, pure veggies, even egg is a sin... In morning, my mom fried eggplants filled with spices, tasty enough... That said, favorite Indian curry is Kadhi. Tastiest while being pure veg??

The time has come

The me is in danger if you seek God... Beware the path you walk

What you call external is inside you, just unexplored... You're the container itself, we're parts but the whole too

although we don't have to rush to put it into words, thanks for caring.. It can turn into spiritual ego, so that's why patience is so important, to mature it into the profound understanding to help sincere seekers coming along.

So here we've subjectivity issue... What I mean killing the ego is to have crystal clear thoughts only what you directly experience, from a primary perspective... Believe only what you sense yourself and never believe any secondary source... Take book for the pages and black color, not for what's written inside... Starting from this slowly and carefully build your belief system such that your thoughts reflect the reality perfectly.... That's what I call ego death state... You're like a machine, never manipulating your direct experience... Ofc it would be not practical but the nearer you go, closer you be to the truth compared to your own self. Also while perceiving fellow beings, it'll be difficult to keep the map and you've to constantly capture the states, as they constantly change

There's never a definite answer, it has to be wandered about.. The words you write are subjective, by projections you might mean one thing and I can get other... So if we believe our sense organs which is the most we can rely on... The direct experience is the king... But if you say the senses are limited it changes the whole context.. Do you see how even your vocabulary defines the constraints of what you say... Philosophy is more about asking right questions, the moment you get an answer it stops. It's all about feeling content within. Even though external circumstances are opposed to you, you feel good... How? You can't have the ego... You've to kill it, learn reinventing it, either you realise it or beat it to death by practices, now you're good just being, not lost in thoughts, always seeing it for what is it.. Now you have a fulfilled life whatever circumstances.

For him and even you, this might be true... But someone who doesn't feel complete is not already whole... That's what the work is all about, it's not just about thinking that you're complete it's much more than that... There's whole lot of belief system and subconsciousness involved...

You mean the better quality female I date, better I understand and mirror her, healthier my inner feminine will be and vice versa... That's a cool insight... So ultimately after growing into my opposite gender, as well as my own.. I start to become whole. Wow

Although there is this greedy mentality, it's not that simple. It's mostly a transaction, a codependent one, you want something and other want something else... But the communication is not clear, so it works fine till both needs are met... But as soon as one stops receiving it starts to go downward spiral, creating tons of suffering... So being independent is the key, from there only you can fulfill and be fulfilled without asking for it and needing to please. ❤

Thank you so much, even though I don't want to seek validation and keep myself away from it as it creates distortion.... Whenever you say it's always authentic and make me feel loved and cared for... I love you so much ❤❤ Right, I felt it was the case ?

But that's what it seems like, why the pretending, the drama, be who you're authentically.. Say directly what ever is going behind the scenes without beating around the bush

@DrewNows thank you, not just here but in my day to day life these steps feel super helpful. @zeroISinfinity it's ok man, myself felt like a narc at times it's just a trait and if we're willing to work on ourselves. Just try to watch your behavior, be more compassionate.. Myself had distorted views about females, but it didn't serve me in today's world. In past, world has been mostly patriarchal and that's where this distortion coming from... But see it's changing to be a better place, it's time we choose to integrate our feminine side and be more compassionate to fellow humans. Can't we see how diverse and wonderful this forum and thread are? Can't we appreciate that how gifted we're to talk to these awesome people.

Have a happy celebration day ??

I think we're not targeting the root issues by moving between journals. Really think we'll be more compassionate after this feedback

Here you go @zeroISinfinity @Galyna