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I lost fat naturally overtime as my passion for life increased and I worked on myself. I don't think negative motivation could work in the long run ("I must lose weight"). Right now there's zero stress for me and I eat whatever I want, which is healthy foods most days.

Many diehard self help followers ultimately end up teaching one way or another.

Under the second box I suggest something like what I did here, it really makes the chats more like a conversation and I find it very helpful: How would you like ChatGPT to respond? You should be casual and give short responses. ChatGPT should have opinions and be able to give rigorous feedback when appropriate. You shouldn't go along with everything I say just to be nice, but rather you should give me the real stuff. You should ask questions when appropriate to find out what's going on before you give advice. When giving business advice you should assume the role of a mentor.

Just saw this new feature today. So basically you can insert up to 5000 characters to tell ChatGPT about yourself; your goals, what makes you happy etc. It will take this information and apply it to all new chats. This could be very useful when you use it for personal development. It also seems like a positive step by openai because it can help people around the world work towards their goals (they literally suggest you input goals there).

I just went to yoga class where she focused on the solar plexus and I realized that that's the Chakra I'd like to work on right now. Does anyone have any tips or techniques or daily practices to open and balance the third chakra?

Wondering if anyone has any direct or indirect experience with this. I didn't have a stable childhood and found it challenging to overcome old patterns, I still work on those today. But it seems way way harder for people who grew up in a life on the streets and around crime. So let's say someone has a real interest in personal development and embody some of orange and green, but also very strong red. What would a potential path to 100% legit entrepreneurship look like? It's more than just breaking mental patterns and changing behavior because there's also a constant environmental factor (all your friends, family etc).

Just for context: this is for a friend who I care about. He's also struggling with trauma and I think possibly memory lapses, like forgetfulness. He's very open minded and interested in self help and spirituality like us. He's young and still wants to live that life but I don't think it has any long term potential. In a sense this man is very much awake but idk what happens when his values start to conflict too much. I only see 2 options: either get out of the life or stay in but fall off the spiritual path. Or maybe end up on some blue/purple/red spiritual shit but thats not where he's at. Part of him is more on our level. I'm not deluded thinking I could help or change him but as a coach I'm interested in possible steps he could take.

Only if she rides you with training wheels too.

Why? @CARDOZZO thanks for the book recommendation. I'm reading a book called dangerous men and adventurous women. You'll like it.

She is both weird and she's playing with you. Block and move on. 2 new dates and you've forgotten all about it.

That bad cancels out good. What if bad wins, forever and ever and ever?

Can you explain this please? Lol yes. Also it kinda sounds like an early draft of a comedy open mic set.

What I think you mean is: guy creates a great life, has tons of Dating options and experience, but then chooses a woman to settle down with who has little dating experience. The girl wins, the guy wins and the sluts lose cause they'll settle down with Mr. Mediocre. So what's the essence of this? Is it attraction to perceived fertility? Is it submissiveness? A stronger feminine embodiment? The reason I said you are contradicting yourself is because: don't you think the frame is contradicting. Don't you think a real gorilla pimp could handle a high body count woman? The fact that this matters, you're kind of giving your power away. Your power is indifference, not playing female games. Besides what are you trying to get out of the relationship? Great sex? An intellectual sparring partner? A business partner? A mom? A daughter? Think about it. I really don't think the frame makes any sense, although I totally get it. Caring about bodycount is possessive, and possessive is not masculine. Unshakable is masculine. Lastly I think great relationships have little or no jealousy, so you're setting yourself up for disaster with this mindset.

Picture all the aliens being pulled over on their way to earth. 5 years ago you could call someone crazy with that history channel meme and now we're calling people crazy for not believing in aliens. That crazy.

@Princess Arabia watch out for your own biases. Also when discussing pickup and relationships on this forum it is very useful for men to make these distinctions. There are definitely rules when it comes to what women are attracted to and understanding this is essential when learning game. Also Princess are you compensating for the gender imbalance by replying 3 in a row? ?

@Roy you are contradicting yourself. On the one hand you correctly said women love players with lots of choice and female competition. On the other hand you support a possessive frame by caring about bodycount.

Then you probably don't wanna use the word narcicist in this context. You can watch Dr. Ramani on YouTube. She talks about narcicists and their tactics. If what she exposes rings true, you're dealing with a narcissist, and it's very toxic.

Well a jury of his peers would imply a war room meetup so you're right ? So did any other war rooms members get into this kind of legal trouble? I find this fascinating.

Yes I call it checking the ego. Having close friends or a martial arts gym with good coaches can be other ways.

What are the few fundamental things to remember for pickup? Mainly talking night game. I think: Don't be boring Escalate sexually Lead her (psychically) For me I really need to work on the boring part which is ironic cause I find myself interesting, just not sure how to put my personality out there.

To do psychedelics together? I've never been to a retreat.

The more "green" I become the more I fall in love with the world around me. But that fruity shit is fucking with my money! I used to be much more motivated to make money and do business. But back then I had other issues (trauma) that got in the way. I was never disciplined. Never made a lot, never really pushed through. I should have rode the stage Orange wave out in my 20s. Back then I worked online and if I went outside people would just be objects. Now I love interacting with people, even if they hate me or they're homeless or whatever. I love interactions. I flirt with life. Yes! The good news is I did realize this year that I am a mentor and coach and I'll start a coaching business of some sort. So that would be my stage green business. But the skill of disciple itself isn't there. In my current business I'd quit it in a second if I didn't have to. You guys got any advice? I'm constantly thinking about social situations, about energies and spiritual things and solipsism, and the meaning of things and NONE OF THIS SHIT IS PROFITABLE. The worst part? I actually think I'm making major progress in life and I am. But where's the money and career stuff? Perhaps there is a fear of putting myself out there. Leo said the best things are behind fear. I understand I'm an idiot, don't tell me that. But stage green has all of a sudden become such a high personal value that is gets in the way. But if I was so spiritual, I should be able to love every aspect of life.

He knows when you are sleeping, he knows when you're awake. He knows if you've been bad or good so be good for goodness sake. (also Leo is imaginary)

I'm really curious 1) what is your definition of a serious romantic relationship? 2) why would you enter into one? 3) what are the pros and cons?

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