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She is both weird and she's playing with you. Block and move on. 2 new dates and you've forgotten all about it.

That bad cancels out good. What if bad wins, forever and ever and ever?

Can you explain this please? Lol yes. Also it kinda sounds like an early draft of a comedy open mic set.

What I think you mean is: guy creates a great life, has tons of Dating options and experience, but then chooses a woman to settle down with who has little dating experience. The girl wins, the guy wins and the sluts lose cause they'll settle down with Mr. Mediocre. So what's the essence of this? Is it attraction to perceived fertility? Is it submissiveness? A stronger feminine embodiment? The reason I said you are contradicting yourself is because: don't you think the frame is contradicting. Don't you think a real gorilla pimp could handle a high body count woman? The fact that this matters, you're kind of giving your power away. Your power is indifference, not playing female games. Besides what are you trying to get out of the relationship? Great sex? An intellectual sparring partner? A business partner? A mom? A daughter? Think about it. I really don't think the frame makes any sense, although I totally get it. Caring about bodycount is possessive, and possessive is not masculine. Unshakable is masculine. Lastly I think great relationships have little or no jealousy, so you're setting yourself up for disaster with this mindset.

Picture all the aliens being pulled over on their way to earth. 5 years ago you could call someone crazy with that history channel meme and now we're calling people crazy for not believing in aliens. That crazy.

@Princess Arabia watch out for your own biases. Also when discussing pickup and relationships on this forum it is very useful for men to make these distinctions. There are definitely rules when it comes to what women are attracted to and understanding this is essential when learning game. Also Princess are you compensating for the gender imbalance by replying 3 in a row? ?

@Roy you are contradicting yourself. On the one hand you correctly said women love players with lots of choice and female competition. On the other hand you support a possessive frame by caring about bodycount.

Then you probably don't wanna use the word narcicist in this context. You can watch Dr. Ramani on YouTube. She talks about narcicists and their tactics. If what she exposes rings true, you're dealing with a narcissist, and it's very toxic.

Well a jury of his peers would imply a war room meetup so you're right ? So did any other war rooms members get into this kind of legal trouble? I find this fascinating.

Yes I call it checking the ego. Having close friends or a martial arts gym with good coaches can be other ways.

What are the few fundamental things to remember for pickup? Mainly talking night game. I think: Don't be boring Escalate sexually Lead her (psychically) For me I really need to work on the boring part which is ironic cause I find myself interesting, just not sure how to put my personality out there.

To do psychedelics together? I've never been to a retreat.

The more "green" I become the more I fall in love with the world around me. But that fruity shit is fucking with my money! I used to be much more motivated to make money and do business. But back then I had other issues (trauma) that got in the way. I was never disciplined. Never made a lot, never really pushed through. I should have rode the stage Orange wave out in my 20s. Back then I worked online and if I went outside people would just be objects. Now I love interacting with people, even if they hate me or they're homeless or whatever. I love interactions. I flirt with life. Yes! The good news is I did realize this year that I am a mentor and coach and I'll start a coaching business of some sort. So that would be my stage green business. But the skill of disciple itself isn't there. In my current business I'd quit it in a second if I didn't have to. You guys got any advice? I'm constantly thinking about social situations, about energies and spiritual things and solipsism, and the meaning of things and NONE OF THIS SHIT IS PROFITABLE. The worst part? I actually think I'm making major progress in life and I am. But where's the money and career stuff? Perhaps there is a fear of putting myself out there. Leo said the best things are behind fear. I understand I'm an idiot, don't tell me that. But stage green has all of a sudden become such a high personal value that is gets in the way. But if I was so spiritual, I should be able to love every aspect of life.

He knows when you are sleeping, he knows when you're awake. He knows if you've been bad or good so be good for goodness sake. (also Leo is imaginary)

I'm really curious 1) what is your definition of a serious romantic relationship? 2) why would you enter into one? 3) what are the pros and cons?

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I saw this documentary about these people in their thirties going to spiritual retreats, truffle sessions, breath workshops. But they interviewed them and they said "I've tried everything but so far nothing has made me happy". And I was like wtf? It seems fun to go to these things, but apparently people go there to get "fixed"? Is this why most people go to spiritual activities? Is this stage orange spirituality?

@Osaid so let's say I'm stage Orange and I'm not happy with my life. I find spirituality as a way to fix this and it doesn't work. What do I do? / what would you advise someone in this position to do?

Purrrfect ?

If she's a narcissist, it's common they will re appear and all of a sudden they're the perfect person you've always wanted the to be. It's called hoovering. Yeah, stop doing that unless you want to suffer.

Stop listening to her, stop all contact, get out of this relationship! Don't negotiate with terrorists. She will never change, even when it appears she does. You're selling your heart and soul for a cold bucket of KFC. She will come back to you after some time and appear to be the perfect woman all of a sudden. DON'T FALL FOR THIS! Break contact, permenantly.

Hope you doing okay bro?

Thank you guys. I've actually made nice progress this year in so many areas, including my work ethic. It's just that at this moment the money is laggin behind, but there's also more potential than ever before. I had this solipsism insight this week which was fantastic but it did leave me cold and alone afterwards. Last night I realized I need more self love and how precious life is. I need to love myself for every thing I do, I realized it breaks my heart when I self criticize like I do sometimes. I need myself here (my heart), I need myself now more than ever, I can't do it alone (without love).

No what's that?

Thank you so much. Do you have any daily routine to remember your WHY and the bigger picture? How many times daily do you switch between big picture and "to do" stuff?