Nahm

The world is perfect as is.

With this topic, you are focusing on something and asking for advice on how to not focus on it. Simply focus on something else.

@CuteYTDawg Thank you.

@WaterfallMachine Stop discounting it and start learning about it. Maybe I can help recommend the right book. What books have you read about this so far?

i would like to meet intelligent life that doesnt consider us intelligent life.

@Emerald you are so in the zone. awesome.

Reaction becomes creation. Happy for you. The better it gets, the better it gets. You will be shocked at what reality is if you continue in that direction. @Salaam

@WaterfallMachine Reality is everything that collapses into specifics when you observe it. So, knowledge is what you need if you want to change the product of the collapse. Read.

@Rajat Belief is the literal fabric of reality. Careful with those five analogies. You could be 100.

@jse amen. SOunds crazy, but we did come from the stars. And the instant a creature is discovered, it's immediately not an alien.

How am I looking - would be a much more accurate and fruitful question. Never thought I'd say that. It's hard to digest, but everything is made from a substance that is in a state of everything. There's no question on what everything can be. The question or filter, is what you are allowing.

@benny Great post. To me, it seems we are the current expression of all the thoughts, actions, and experiences we've been repeating. If you change those things, you will see you have changed. It is so gradual though that you might not notice, as we hold one conscioussness at a time. When I want change, I write down what I want and tape it to the wall. After some time it becomes incorporated into doing, feeling, thinking, simply from the repetition. Thus revealing, that was merely what my experience was anyways, I just 'thought' it was more.

awseome man. within each of us is the center of the universe.

People told me I could not become happily married. They said marriage is 'work' and compromise. People told me I could not be a millionaire, they said I would have to work all the time and trade my soul. People told me not to have kids, they said it would rob me of living out my desires and cost me all of my money. A singing coach told me I should only sing in baritone, that trying to sing in multiple octaves would only ruin my throat and voice. But I knew we each create our own reality. I could see they were living exactly what they were describing and not the other way around. So glad I chose not to listen. Our marriage is the most ideal co-creating of our dreams that we can even imagine. Our kids are angels and they bring an abundance of love to us everyday, and us to them. The focus on my dream, my reality, has enabled me to give much to others in need. I learned to sing in four octaves, and some of the best times in my life so far have been recording in studios and singing for crowds...in 4 octaves. So glad I chose not to listen. You should consider listening to your self.

@electroBeam Don't go into their world. Refuse internally. Stay in your world. Accept whatever losses and gains come from this, but stay true to your own reality. It will absolutely workout in the longer run.

@PetarKa You are the creator of you. You have been influenced by the ego of others. Take a look around you. Look at the people you love and who love you. Contemplate the many things that make you happy. Could be a sunset, silence, a favorite food, movie, song. Perhaps you would like to learn an instrument and expand your creating into music. Perhaps fitness added to your experience would be enjoyable. Consider these things as you look around you right now, and have a great laugh when I tell you, there is nothing. See how I am feeding my ego in telling you there is nothing and no free will. Imagine, as you see, hear, touch and smell the glorious world that God has created for us to experience.....imagine that I tell you that there is nothing, that you aren't making choices. Now imagine that I am telling you this so I can make money. There. Clarity. Get back to creating your life Petarka. You were doing better on your own.

@No-Thing amen to that!

@Russell I love what you're saying. To me, it seems that all energy is the same, and that we are the filter which differentiates it.

@Russell Brilliant. Thank you for that. I'd like to add, that when we do 'open', all energy becomes energy for us, if we allow it to pass through us. THings that were previously impossible, are normal.

It is the trinity of the three substances that make a human experience, aligning and rising. It's beautiful and perfect.

@Miguel Oliveira There is no you, other than the experience. So, what you are is the culmination of everything you have thought, said, felt and done so far. Change any one of those things, and the others will follow Today, choose something that you can listen to or say or do tomorrow when you wake up, that you think will be in the direction of feeling the way you want to. Tape it to the wall where you sleep. Tomorrow, do it. One day at a time becomes a life.

that sounds like judgement that feels good self criticism however, does not sound like it feels good. Sounds like you meditate daily but still have trouble accepting yourself as is?

If you focus on the feeling of passion, you will draw more of it. After days or weeks what you want will be easy.

@egoeimai So Abe's teaching is no action? Just sit content and literally do nothing?

@Miguel Oliveira I hope this goes over the nice way I mean it, but, I think you may be misinterpreting your biggest strengths as weaknesses. I grew up as you describe only more intensely - most of my girlfriends and friends literally asked me if I was part alien (in reference to my thinking being different). Now that I'm old, those traits have been the very things that seperate me from the herd and have served me very well. Would I be right if I asked if, being honest, you are aware you usually have more of a 'bird's eye view' on things? That you see solutions and have to be patient when others see problems? Your 'differentness' or 'uniqueness' might make you feel different, but your differentness allows you to see things differently, things that everyone else is going to see that same as others. This is a huge advantage in the world. In art, business, music, film, culinary arts, etc...different is king. You just don't know it yet. Do more of what you love. Let this go for a while. Things will pop up for you in the best way. I think you notice a deep connection between other people but don't sense it between yourself and others, because, most people aren't as deeply connected to the universe / source / God, as you are. Keep an eye out for possible envy or resentment from others, that you may mistake for something else. Also, aliens come from the stars. So we're all aliens.