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The old traumas would have been released by awareness of a bigger vantage view on the path to enlightenment, and they would not resurface. What’s needed is to decide to no longer avoid or run form it, and to simply sit with it, as many times as it takes, for as long as it takes. Eventually, we see through it.

@Flowerfaeiry Yes. Of course. Expand the mind. There is truly nothing one could learn which is not learning more deeply of one’s self. Things working out is very hard to avoid. Quite possibly, impossible.

@Patang Yes, but without the distinction, in this light - self imposed - , there is love and you are love. Then there’s very little questions. If any.

@Dodo ♥️

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@spicy_pickles Pickles!!!! Very shortly after you do it, it won’t seem like as big of a deal as it might now. You don’t even have to say anything or really do anything. You just walk out. Think about only the smallest steps, he at a time. Could you just say, “runnin up to the 7-11”, or something, and go to a parent or friends house? You’ll surely get better perspective after a night or even just a few hours. Can go get your stuff as needed with a parent, friend, etc, tomorrow, or next day? You’ve clearly decided. You can totally walk or drive from one place to another. You’ve done it thousands of times before. Keep it simple.

@Galyna Circadian rhythm, nature of the big show. Sleep is hard with babies / infants. I have found clean eating, exercise and mindfulness to be very helpful. Breath focus daily morning meditation works well for stressful times too. Staying centered vs getting caught up in thinking makes for better sleep too. Little ones can make us feel on edge without it. Good luck. Lack of sleep is a rough one.

@Max_V Yeah. ??

theres nothing to tell them, you were always the same one.

@Patang Enlightenment, refers to being the ‘light’, synonymous with love. Love is literally all there is. Discrepancies are our projections. A gift of being filled with love, is seeing there is no other, no physical reality. A person can not be understood by another, there is no other. A person can not know what another thinks, even if the other is telling them what they think right to their face. To be filled with unconditional love, we have to accept these things. Otherwise, we create all kinds of discrepancies. Enlightened, you would never tell another that you are no longer the one they love. It would be clear you are love. You would realize you are literally the one they love. The difference lies in the realization & meaning of ‘one’.

@Lynnel Awareness. Faith and tenacity.

@roberthenry Removing meat, processed foods and refined sugars, common aluminum deodorants, unfiltered water, and fluoride toothpaste contribute to clarity and energy abundance. It’s experiential though, so if anyone is interested - I recommend experiencing the difference. The psychological relativity of refined sugar, specifically, the effects these things have on the pineal gland, and processed iron (free radicals) are very worth looking into.

@Patang There’s no hard part in enlightenment, there are ‘hard parts’ getting there. You are love. Loving them is effortless. Saying such things to those who love you would hurt them. They are you, experiencing unique challenges and suffering. Just love them back, and enjoy the love loops.

@CuteCornDog It’s up to you. That will never change.

@Courtney Thanks again. ? Here’s a link with some overview of the basic practices.

@Patang aww. Thanks! ☺️

@Faceless I don’t see what you mean. It must be so simple I can’t grasp it. Maybe you’re like the child born as the reincarnation of the Dali Lama. It seems very possible & interesting to me. Maybe you just never added the ego to begin with, and never experienced self deception. So there was nothing to transcend, nothing to be realized. Maybe you have only existed as love it’self, and never saw reality as other than your own illusion. No veil, no void, only love. That’s amazing to me.

@Jamesc Sometimes people seem to think “I love what I’m doing” -If I become enlightened, I might end up changing my whole life to be a teacher of enlightenment. The key thing is trying to realize that if that is what one does after the big reveal, it would be because they’re doing what they want. A life / career change would not be from a sense of duty or responsibility. It would be from utter freedom and love.

@Faceless That’s amazing! ?❤️ Took me decades. That someone could not even believe in or do daily meditation and be in the meditative state of truth all day, blows my mind. How did you achieve this transcendence of thought so easily?

@Courtney Thank you. You’re whole post is very refreshing. You have a lot of clarity and seem very open. I’m so excited and happy when I imagine what’s to come for you. It’s beyond worthwhile. Enjoy! ❤️

That’s awesome!

@Courtney A “depressing realization” of being alone is not a realization of enlightenment. Knowing you’re alone conceptually, understanding it, can be misleading. Without the practices, without changes in awareness, there is no direct experience, and there is no real-izaltion. Self talk / “monkey mind” is one of the first things we’re free off through daily morning meditation. Don’t be discouraged. Have some faith in the practices. “You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe deserve your love and affection.” — Buddha

It’s the same as a dream; you’re everyone & everything in your dream, and the dream is not reality, what you are is.