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You’re good now. You already know what not to do.

Tell him that. Also mention, nobody loses a job who wants to find another one, and doesn’t. Ever heard of that guy who lost his job, and though he diligently tried, he went the rest of his life never finding one? Me neither. Most people find a job they like more than the last one. From his twenty five years of experience, he could write on a piece of paper what he knows he doesn’t want, helping him to write down what he does want. The odds of finding a job soon are about 95%, and the most important thing at play, is perspective.

@JonasVE12 Death is hearsay, a wive’s tale which you’ve established as your belief. You’ve no direct experience of death.

Welcome!

@JonasVE12 You’ve exactly as much direct experience riding unicorns as you do death. Make a post about riding unicorns though, and everyone will think you’re nuts. What surfaces is the value of what everyone else thinks, and the degree to which thinking about it veils you.

@okulele Nice ??

@studentofthegame Write what you want in this life on a dry erase board.

@studentofthegame Yes, it’s a very useful sheet. I’d use it to realize some things we’d swear were true, are only perspectives we hold onto in misunderstanding sensations. Maybe use the sheets for a few months, and then move on to a dry erase board and your life’s dream.

@Jack River You’re confusing sometimes man. ???

@krockerman That’d be a great video!

@ActualizedDavid ⬆️ That’s really beautiful, thanks. Keep up the good work. ?

@Raptorsin7 Stable to the degree of inspecting one has done, and letting go of all that is holding up the notion there is a separate self ‘in the body’.

@SQAAD Break it down. The knowing of, the awareness of, thought, and sensation. Combining them and using the write off / label - ‘body’, defines a separate thing, object. Notice this is a definition you yourself create. There is not actually such a thing as separation any where in the universe (anywhere within you).

Byron Katie‘s work sheet on her website is perfect for that.

@Mu_ ???

@Jack River Rather than no thought, aligned thought. Gravity can’t be known conceptually. It’s too intimate.

@studentofthegame I’d say the ‘wounds to heal’ are actually more going deeper into yourself, into the feelings. Maybe write some letters to her, wether you give them to her or not, pretend you are when you write em. Look for that place of realization where you don’t need her to understand you. I don’t think the fear is so much in losing her, but in being stuck never having said what you really wanted to. Grief can be enlightening. I’m sure you’ve noticed everyone grieves differently as snowflake. This is all the relative thoughts, beliefs, indenting, etc, one questions. Best to get it all out, express. The insecurity and jealousy or of this same vein. Self inspection, sensations and thoughts. Align them.

@Mark- Practice. Just walk around where there are lots of people. Over time you’ll be more and more comfortable with it. An “Oh. This is no big deal” will arise. Soon, you’ll see the greatest experiences in life, are with other people. Don’t be afraid of what you’ll discover about yourself, via relationships. It will be worthwhile and most awesome.

There’s only serious, if you say so. What is an opinion, other than one passing thought? One of the benefits of daily morning meditation, is detachment from the thoughts and opinions one formed an identity with. Without the identity, there’s nothing to defend. Without defensiveness, reaction is naturally realized, “replaced”, with creation. Then, you’ll be so enamored with the life you’re creating, you’ll want to be helpful, rather than be offended / defensive / offensive. Don’t underestimate your own sneakiness.

@studentofthegame Is there codependency in your life now, or only in memory? What is the ideal, the best case scenario outcome for you from such a course?

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Could be a gravity to that. Some attracting of things wanted. A which thought in sensation rather than no thought, intuition, etc, possibly creative and useful in life.

“Can't imagine why God has created man and knowingly could have placed the thoughtless Awareness in all but didn't” @Lowerplanedweller

@Aakash ?

@Lowerplanedweller Do you see the inherent issue with the situation?