Nahm

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  1. @Highest ?? Ordinary is Good. If I might sir...keep it simple. Step one, Let Go. Just let go man. God’s got you. Sooo got you. You don’t need any fixing. Take your mind off all this, let it go. We’re just kids really. Step two, tomorrow, pick up a dry erase board. A big one. Ideally, double sided, on wheels. It’s done my man. It’s done. You did it. Truly, really. All gonna change from here on out. You’ll see. ♥️
  2. @Highest It’s done. You’re done. You have enough of what you don’t want for a hundred lives. Now it’s about what you do want - which is easily derived from what you don’t want.
  3. @Highest Everything is ok, you’re ok. All is awareness, and Good indeed. So Good! This, has nothing to do with anyone but you & God, and you’re perfect man. You’re perfect & good to go as is. Acting, becoming, ‘the dark side’, these have nothing to do with this. It can not even truly be said there is a mess.
  4. @Highest That was ‘the work’. It’s done. You know what you don’t want. Congrats. There’s nothing to leave behind. The key is of course bringing source, your internal guidance, along every step of the way. You can become exactly what you want to. You can do & experience exactly what you want to in this life. You most certainly can change what you see, it’s always up to you. That you see things in such a way which surely doesn’t resonate with you, is all the evidence you could need that it is not hard, and it does not take years.
  5. @Highest All that is needed is some fine tuning of thoughts, feelings, and our unconditional source. You have experienced plenty of life, and you know plenty of what you don’t want. That was all of the work, and it is done. Congrats, and well done. Seriously. In aligning, in the fine tuning of the inner game, emotions are no longer created relative to circumstances, events and relationshipS - but rather, relative to your desires, and the source within you, which wants everything that you are wanting, for ‘you’, unconditionally. Sounds too good to be true sometimes, but the miracle is that it is true. This has nothing to do with anyone else, though at times it certainly seems so. It has only to do with your relationship between ‘you’, and source. It doesn’t matter if you screwed up, it doesn’t matter where you’re at, it doesn’t even matter what beliefs you may or may not be holding, and It’s never “too late”. When you are waking up every morning to life unfolding in the direction of your wanting, your desires - there simply are no problems. What was previously defined and experienced as “problems”, magically becomes the means, opportunities, situations and people by which your life’s dream is manifesting. You’ll wish everyone well in their endeavors, appreciating wherever they’re at on their path, sharing in the love.
  6. @Bryanbrax Answer the call of your own intuition. We can say nothing more influential.
  7. @Bestversionofme ...and every animal and insect on this planet face palms.
  8. He is but one of our best actors in the cosmic game of Serotoninluv , still afoot.
  9. @skywords I feel the inconsistency of my humor is perfectly consistent. Maybe you’re thinking there’s a right or best paradigm. But you are the ineffable infinitude aware of thought (paradigms). In my sessions I often find webs weaved by the foundation of a belief one could be understood, and that one needs. Truth is Love. Nothing more, nothing less.
  10. @skywords It was a joke, in line with the theme of thread. ??♥️?
  11. @Bestversionofme When you drop your belief that sexuality was ever black & white, that duality in your world experience disappears. It’s all grey, and it’s all good. There’s no justification for self judgement. No need to search for it.
  12. Videos & thinking does not equal development. Experience teaches. Suffering teaches. Loving without is the suffering which directs to the love within.
  13. @WaterDroplet--00 There is nothing you need do. It is the potential doing, what could be added, which stands to thwart. In understanding you are both already entirely free, unattached, with no obligation to each other whatsoever - you are readily friends & lovers. An ounce of possession in the mind spoils. Your interest in her will naturally deepen, without needing to be understood, with out attachment.
  14. “Separation” is a belief. A thought. A filter, a veil - a veneer, overlaid upon pure pristine spontaneous ineffable consciousness. There is no such thing as a thing, as finite. So infinity, consciousness, must forget to experience other than itself. In forgetting, appears experience. Of forgetting & experience, an idea of who you are is created. The idea of who you are created an idea of God. God created itself, or rather, the idea it is something else - something, “separate”. “Separation” isn’t an actuality. It’s a punchline. That is what you did. The idea of you = suffering. @SoonHei Delightful post you love drunk hippy. I thought I loved someone! What a delight.
  15. Because the scale was tipped to perception & thinking, to compensate for a lack of feeling. Perception & feeling & no mind = bliss.
  16. This “ego” doesn’t get anything out of meditation, meditation gets the ego out. The doer doesn’t care much for the stopping of it’s doing. Effortless living, your life’s dream unfolding wonderfully, emotional mastery, no mind, non reaction, bliss...the ego see’s this stuff coming a mile away. “Why would I meditate”. Dream board’s great for realizing preferences far more worthwhile, inspiring, & satisfying than a story on a screen. This actual story on a screen is a pinch superior imo. This story you’re actually creating.
  17. @Hansu For sure. “Words don’t teach”. Try a reiki class. ?
  18. It’s just about one thought. That’s it. Letting one thought go. We’re only ever working with one thought. The one thought arising right now. Regardless of it’s content or implication, Regardless of where it is on the script, or what it implies about the movie - it is one single thought, now. That’s the entirety of human thinking. One thought, now. No size, no shape, no levels, no form or properties at all. Just an impartial micro-essence that comes & goes. Seems to anyways. It’s funny to imagine God saying just one single thought at a time, there’s no way that could get out of hand. And it’s like giving a kid a flint pebble and he burns half the city down. Letting one thought go, we’re liberated of reaction to it, free to put attention on a thought that feels good, one about what we want. Feeling always delivers. What feels good to you + your attention on it naturally leads to more. Somethin’s gonna happen next anyways, mind as well be conscious of it. Also feel free to let thought go all together, and just be, eventually these are known as one in the same. The wind doesn’t require a blower, choice doesn’t require a chooser, ‘doing’ doesn’t require a doer. Reality is unconditional in regards to creation, and yet there is a source. All we see are parts, yet we don’t see any parts, ever. Use feeling & awareness to feel each thought. Apply the source, to the thoughts, and the extraordinary is revealed in perception (and of course feeling). Nothing is needed of you for that, nor do you need anything for that. Let go of one thought 24/7, stomach breathing is great too. It’s inherently a conscious body scan. In the momentum of letting one thought go, new thought arises with more connection to feeling, like intuition. With more letting one thought go, new ways of seeing arise with perception. Changing a pattern, or the thought choice pattern, little by little is one way to become conscious of a habit. Then it’s no longer a habit. Arguably preferable if the habit has been made into a mountain, if there is already moment of thought-marriage. Some rip the band aid off, and some peel it slow, both converge at consciousness. There is no process towards a want. The end result is being used as a condition to happiness while on the journey. Nothing needs to be done. Want is automatically felt, derived from unwanted, from experience. We are creation, experiencing, creating, expanding. You’d have to admit, the playground of choice is vast. Preferences naturally arise. There’s so much to create. To wait to let go, is to unconsciously create - the experience of waiting. ?? Precisely when one entertains they’re ‘unconsciousness’, there is the realization of consciousness. There isn’t an object which is absolutely a certain way. What it is is what you’re thought, perception & feeling is allowing.
  19. @Hansu Congrats on the exercise & weight loss!! That’ll do it Self-Love is infallible ♥️
  20. It seems like the thinking “I have a porn addiction”...and so “I need to quit porn” is perfectly logical, and I guess it is. But when scrutinized, there is no such thing as the absence of a thing, so technically “quitting porn” is still focusing on the thinking about porn. Likewise, “addiction” reinforces the sense of “me”, and the ego strongholds onto that sense of “me” to make it real, which it is not. So that adds another layer of still thinking about the porn, just flipping it to the identity as the one who has ‘the addiction’. Another course of thought, is since everything is changing anyways...just slowly but surely, change what you do with your time to something else. Preferably, a dream board full of things you actually want. Very soon, if not immediately, you’ll know, and be ‘doing’ a handful of things you want more than porn. A day will come where you literally won’t be able to remember what “addicted to porn” actually felt like, because you’ll have expanded consciousness by letting the old thought relationship, attachment, and identity, go. You’ll be feeling so good all the time, that you won’t even really have time for something you actually like less, than what you’re doing with your life. The life’s dream you are creating. There’s no better feeling than lost in love with reality. In that light, it’s almost as if at present, you’ve made an enemy of reality. Something to strive & strife against - rather than change.
  21. Yeah. Thought, perception, sensation, that each one is The One & there is no objective reality. The “how” that’s accomplished can’t be thought or said as ‘reality’ and ‘thought’ arise in appearance simultaneously. It can most certainly be shown / revealed though. Even then, especially then, regarding the “I am”...I hear ya, it’s a thought, and it’s a sense...but awareness is aware, consciousness is conscious, you are you.