ajasatya

no thoughts

@Major Tom big ego time. it will pass. "everything around me is trying to fuck with me" "everything around was made to serve my purposes" most people pick one of those 2. both of them are huge traps. but very common traps indeed.

nah i just use my pc. i don't like devices with touchscreens either.

@kieranperez i'm uncomfortable with non-digital material in general. pdf files are true gems of mankind!

@LoNatural when it comes down to breeding and raising children, don't do it if you don't have a crystal clear understanding of what you're doing. that is my piece of advice.

@Jkris it's too easy to understand. the easiest (and, of course, paradoxical) way is by giving up.

@Aakash i think you are too identified with this idea of identification give up already. you're falling for a mind game.

as we mature and grow older, the concept of "attraction" changes a lot. physical attraction is light-years away from being enough to make an intimate relationship last. this is my perspective: if both aren't fully engaged in personal development and self-mastery, the relationship is already doomed.

nope. you have to find it yourself. if you haven't found it yet, look somewhere else.

@CreamCat don't get emotionally involved. you don't seem to be doing much better than them...

@EternalForest how come you are alive right now? figure that out and you'll know about death.

that's too abstract. i don't know what your service would be in practice.

what do you mean? building constructions? architecture?

@John Iverson i'd pick something more measurable. the profit you make without fooling people can be a good measurement for the quality of your work, for example.

i mean learn something for real first. be a good son, a good boyfriend, a good husband, a good father, a good brother. a good student, a good professional, a good athlete... anything. be good at something first. don't be like those coaches that can't do anything else except for telling people what to do.

don't allow it to become an empty shell. "i am a master of mastery, but i can't do anything very well except for being a master". this is just hypocrisy. master something specifically before talking about general mastery.

then heal your delusion and get out of the mud. how come you allow yourself to be so proud when you can't even stand up on your own feet yet? have you lost the beginner's mind? who are you?

give up on confidence and be cool with who you are. that's true confidence. confidence is not some fake thing... like pretending that you are charming or competent. confidence is just being who you are right now.

@Aakash i failed many times. that's it.

experience wordlessness

yeap, most people. it has nothing to do with inferiority, superiority, humility or arrogance. it's simply a matter of courage to stop and look inside. most people can't even deal with their own neuroses to begin with.

nah. most people have very little to offer (because they are not aware of what they have to offer).

the op was talking about the tier 2 from spiral dynamics.

it depends on what you call by "we"

then ask yourself why your suffer. can you explicit the root cause of your suffering in a clear sentence?