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Anger? I'm just being blunt. My heart weights as much as a feather.

@Preety_India Don't forget that your ex NEEDS this suffering. As strange as it sounds, it's good for his heart. Maybe it will crack open? Well, that's a possibility. If you get back to him, you will be delaying his maturation process. So it's not only about you.

@coconutwater Basically, you enjoy feeling like a poor little creature. Let me guess: your life is pretty easy and you have virtually zero resilience. Still living with your parents? Bills paid regardless of what you do everyday?

What the...

Non-duality is like a door that takes you to the substance of doors.

That's not how it works. We cannot help you. That's your job and yours only. Did you want us to carry you on our back or something? We're here to share insights and experiences. Pick whatever serves you. In order to say that this forum is pointless, you'd have to prove that it's pointless for everyone, which is obviously not the case because it is useful to me. You want an easy way out of the confusion you built for yourself. You want a shortcut. Here's the truth: there is no shortcut available. You will have to face the immense emotional pain that awaits you.

@Preety_India You have more than enough material on this thread to ground your choice. It's up to you. Good luck.

@Nivsch The scientific method is a well-defined closure. If you want to debate with people that really understand Science, good luck! Such people are very rare. Most people who go to universities and get their bachelors, masters or PhDs are just repeating old cycles without going meta and realizing what they're really doing. Do you think you know enough to understand what Science is about in the first place in order to investigate its fundamental barriers? This is very tricky.

It's not about the pain. Being hit by a Keisaku doesn't even hurt very much. It's about getting you out of your mind... for a few seconds.

@Preety_India I would tell him to go find his grown up girlfriend who enjoys being called "fat" somewhere else . But I still would work towards being in shape because Life feels a lot better on a fit body. I've been exercising a lot lately and my mood has improved.

@Surfingthewave I have. It's amazing. Good book btw.

Yes. I'm talking from personal experience. Spend at least 8~10 months dealing solely with your own conflicts. Make good use of this time in which you don't have the right to blame anyone else. It's priceless.

@Truth Some people have that condition. It's not necessarily good. I prefer to forget things that I don't need to remember. Forgetting is a blessing.

@saffron Oh wow, you're stuck in your mental cage. This would be an appropriate circumstance for a Keisaku.

@TRUTHWITHCAPITALT Advice: forget about convincing others and go live in peace.

@Truth Full consciousness is NOW.

My general advice is: in doubt, do not have kids. Children demand extremely high levels of maturity. Specially on the current status of our planet.

@brugluiz This is why a honest journal is highly encouraged.

That's true but what can you do? Nothing can be done until one opens up to Love. While spending time trying to be affectionate towards trolls, you'd be much more effective spending time with those who already know their need for Love.

@Codrina I'm not here to defend Leo's points of view, but there's nothing wrong there. Trolls do not want to be taken seriously. They just want to ridicule things and cause mess and chaos. Not paying attention to them is different from not respecting them. I respect everyone but I couldn't care less for trolls, as they wish.

List your priorities. Of course you will feel guilty for skipping classes that would make you feel good in order to play videogames or watch TV. Being mindful of one's priorities is a step towards maturity.

@Tom T Ashtanga Yoga.

@Nak Khid What do you think? And why? Please avoid shallow threads. I've said it other day... this is not Quora.

@Fede83 You're welcome... welcome to the beginning of the amazing phase of your Life. Kudos @Nahm!

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