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And you cry, again and again and again and again:

if both aren't needy people, why not.

It is a wild Leo, very bald, very spiritual, it might lecture you about anything in your life, This shit never shut the fuck up. @Sevi You're interested in that, DON'T YOU ?

I swear Loreena, one day I'll fly where you live just to open your head and find what's broken in there @Sevi Tu es jalouse ?

Yep, do tantric masturbation, learn to love your body and please yourself without any other stimulation, it is very rewarding (whether you're a male or a female) @My_Name_Is_Mud Well, as a guy (can't speak for women), it is very rewarding because: - You learn to control yourself (since you don't ejaculate) - You have more energy through the day, - You learn to appreciate and love your body because the orgasms aren't only happening in the penis area (if you do it right and long enough), - You experience a no-self state at a certain point (and it stays, it's not just the 10 seconds from an ejaculation). - If you're good enough, you can even achieve enlightenment with it (after like 3/4 hours with a partner), and I guess that was its purpose in the ancient hinduism age, before the diabolization of sex. Now just imagine this shit with a partner, HUMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM

Seriously, better yourself up to attract any girl you want, otherwise you'll always be crippled in your life, you'll always have problem at some point to talk to attractive girls. I'm serious, because unless you're enlightened as fuck, not being confident with women will ALWAYS fucks you in the end, always.

You can't, you have to suffer to make your vulnerabilities goes, and that means doing the very things you fear the most. I wish there was a trick to do that, but there really isn't.

You fast, but still drink. Don't pussy out, do the Dark Room Retreat for a week and get your fucking awakening.

Still encountering resistance, and it's been almost one year Thing is, resistance isn't really a problem once you realize it's just your mind being a pussy, You'll still do it

Everything but realizing who you really are is a distraction, and will make you suffer one way or another. #negativejerk @Martin123 My mind likes being dramatic Of course you can't just stay in a cave and meditate all day (well you could, but what's the fun in that), you need challenges in life to grow your consciousness. Everything else is secondary, a game, you need to play the game if you want the best moments of it, sure, but if you loose track of the only real thing that matter, you're gonna have a bad time (and you might not even be able to play the game correctly).

Love has nothing to do with sadness, attachement does:

I can remember a night where I thought I was one of the lamest guy at the party. One of my friend who never bullshitted me and was always critical told me I was one of the funniest that night.

Was doing that for myself when I got the idea that it could be cool to motivate people to do it. If enough people are interested in doing it, we could make an another report in 6 months 1 year ago Life Purpose/Career Unaware that life purpose was a real thing Unemployed for 4 years Consciousness/Spirituality Every religions/mystics seemed like a big joke No spiritual practice in place No reading/studying habits Serious emotional problem It was the end of a 7 years depression. Social anxiety Self-esteem issues Loneliness Neediness Every attractive women seemed like a threat Video games addiction (Sometimes) Shows addiction Thinking addiction Dating/Relationships/Sexuality Virginity Serious relationship was only a dream Health/Fitness/Nutrition(+ Alternative Healing) No fitness habit No nutrition habit Porn addiction Fapping addiction Now Life Purpose/Career Unaware that life purpose was a real thing///Doing the Life purpose course Unemployed for 4 years///Got a 1 year contract Consciousness/Spirituality Every religions/mystics seemed like a big joke///Crying whenever some deep truth resonate within me. No spiritual practice in place///8 months straight of sitted meditation, walking meditation, nature/reality comtemplation. No reading/studying habits///Finishing 2 to 4 books a month. Serious emotional problem It was the end of a 7 years depression///A depression seems impossible and stupid. Social anxiety///It isn’t entirely gone, but it’s rare that it happen now. Self-esteem issues///Still can’t understand why it was a problem, seems like a joke. Loneliness///It can happen, but like 1 day in a month. Neediness/// This has never happened again. Every attractive women seemed like a threat///That has been replace by some mild anxiety when talking to women I find attractive. Video games addiction///Right now it seems like a total waste of time, even lying on a bed doing nothing seems more appealing. (Sometimes) Shows addiction/// Wasn’t a problem for a very long time. Thinking addiction///Don’t see the point in thinking anymore, unless it is needed practically. Dating/Relationships/Sexuality Virginity///Just a random guy now. Serious relationship was only a dream///It was great, but I don’t really see the point of a relationship, except with a person that resonate so much to you that ignoring her isn’t an option. Health/Fitness/Nutrition(+ Alternative Healing) No fitness habit/// 3x30 minutes of fitness per week/ 1 walk of 1 hour per day (minimum). No nutrition habit///Stopped eating between meals/Almost no junk food (1 time per week maximum) Porn addiction///Porn seems disgusting and crazy now. Fapping addiction///Still do it from time to time, but there is no ejaculation and I try to last as much as I can (to at least have some pleasure out of it). Future Life Purpose/Career Unaware that life purpose was a real thing///Doing the Life purpose course///Would like to finish it before next year. Unemployed for 4 years///Got a 1 year contract///Would like to get on track with my life purpose at the end of the contract. Consciousness/Spirituality Every religions/Mystics seemed like a big joke///Crying whenever some deep truth resonate within me/// Enlightenement No spiritual practice in place///8 months straight of sitted meditation, walking meditation, nature/reality comtemplation///Today is the day the 2 hours of meditation come back!---Would like to do some Sensshin sessions and meet the Zen master of my city---Would like to do some custom Dark Room retreats whenever my contract ends. No reading/studying habits///Finish 2 to 4 books a month///Would like to get a consistent reading/studying habits. Serious emotional problem Social anxiety///It isn’t entirely gone, but it’s rare that it happen now/// Will take care of my social abilities in the near future (talking/presence/funnyness) and see if anything changes. Every attractive women seemed like a threat///That has been replace by some mild anxiety when talking to women I find attractive/// Will have to meet and talk to more and more girl in the upcoming months, even date one who’s hot as fuck whenever my sense of humor is decent. Dating/Relationships/Sexuality Virginity///Just a random guy now/// Would like to practice tantric sex, not only for the pleasure, but to transcend sex. Serious relationship was only a dream///It was great, but I don’t really see the point of a relationship, except with a person that resonate so much to you that ignoring her isn’t an option///In the very long term, having a deep, emotionally relationship with a very high quality girl seems like an experience my mind will never stop bitching about until it has been done. Health/Fitness/Nutrition(+ Alternative Healing) No fitness habit/// 3x30 minutes of fitness per week/ 1 walk of 1 hour per day (minimum)/// Would like to do 30 minutes fitness every day. No nutrition habit///Stopped eating between meals/Almost no junk food (1 time per week maximum)///Going to be a vegetarian, then a vegan. Fapping addiction///Still do it from time to time, but I don’t ejaculate and try to last as much as I can (to at least have some pleasure out of it)///Would like to totally stop it, and only practice tantric masturbation when I feel like I’m going to have sex with my new girlfriend.

Makes me think there is this cute girl at the pet shelter, she seems quite shy ... Interesting ...

Focus on your breath, feel your body, and look without seeking anything.

I would probably be living/be on track with my life purpose, would have slew most (if not all) my inner demons, and I would probably be enlightened already.

I would tell him to force himself to meditate 20 minutes per day for at least 3 months, and see if anything change in his life.

And still have an ego ? If yes, what's the difference with a normal guy who's already pretty detached from its ego ? Can you be enlightened without knowing it ? I read from differents teachers that it doesn't have to be an orgasmic/hardcore/mind blowing experience, that it can come slowly, gradually, without "you" feeling any real difference day by day. EDIT: When the mind wants to mental masturbate

There is no reason to be mean, You're not racist, your thoughts are.

The funny thing is, they don't know what they miss. Physical sex is so bad compared to psychological sex, and tantric (spiritual) sex piss on those two, but you need a deep intimate relationship for that, exactly what they are avoiding ! @clytaemnestra I said that because it is kind of funny to realize ^^ You do what you want miss

If you see yourself crying when you think about it, there may be some truth to it.

Being sexy has a man is just a bonus you get from your workout, but the workout in itself is just to be healthy and gather energy. Your chocolate and your big arms won't give her any emotional rollercoaster, it's just flesh. @BeginnerActualizer Let my ectomorph identification be triggered !

The only way to alleviate existential fear, is to let it overwhelm you, instead of backing off. There is nothing to do actually, just let it be.

Seems like it's the shit:

You will backslide everytime you fall into your old patterns and addictions. So, if you don't take care of those, you could basically get stuck forever. Also, if you socialize too much, with the "wrong" kind of person, even though it is a great test to your ability to stay in the present moment, it will just make you inconscious if you didn't reach a certain stage of awareness, especially intimate relationship.