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Everytime I go deep into my daily meditation. Fucking reptilian brain does not want to cooperate though.

LUL, There is actually someone near me on this website Apparently, the website wants me to move to London ...

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I'll give you a good trick I use whenever I see a girl I like: Go Fucking Talk To Her It works ! (well, not for me, I'm like terrible right now ) But in order to succeed (almost) every time, you kinda need, you know, PRACTICE @Loreena Thank you Loreena, you too

Doge meditate here Other pics of the cutty little super cute river: View from the dock: Bonus pics :3 :3 The alley to the park The cutty little doge I pet everytime I go to the park

Some would not get it, so I'll try to explain a bit. You can't think that it will happen in the future, because if you do that, you miss the work you have to do in the present, which is to be fully present whatever the situation. You WILL "achieve" enlightenment in the future, because right now you're not used to live in the present, to be conscious. So there is work on you to do, to be able to transcend yourself along the way, but this work takes place in the PRESENT. This is a paradox you might can't get right now, that's ok, just hold onto it. This dude explain it way better:

When the insights comes

I would say, don't think about it and focus really hard, works pretty fine. You can have a huge will to discover it, but at that point it isn't that it is "serious", it is just that you want to know, you will become more and more genuinely curious. It is a peaceful will though, but firm and deep. Don't listen to your mind when it says "is that it ?" "hey hey is that it ?" "is that concept is right, hey, it makes sense right ?!" or something similar, focus again on the present moment and try to be present as much as you can. It will happen sooner than you think if you just focus on being present whenever you can, and have a steady meditation habit every day. Just don't expect an amazing and sudden experience, that can happen, for sure, but don't expect that (it may never happen). If you expect that, you'll miss the point, which is to increase bit by bit your consciousness level, which ultimately will change very radically your everyday experience It will be radical in the sense that if you look back months/years ago, your old vision of life will seem silly.

The only thing I remember is that the "boy" wasn't afraid, just conscious that he wasn't dead, but in a way, he knew he was dead (if that makes any sense). I say the boy, but I remember that it was an adult, the feeling was the one of a boy though. I was just the observer in this part of the dream, except the feeling of being conscious I wasn't really dead. @Loreena The boy didn't look like me.

Imagine you're in a dream that last for 30 years, and finally someone shows you a perspective that makes you see life differently. You try things, and at some point you realize that the dream was very real, but all the pain was an illusion. Do you really think you would not want to help other people if this story was yours ? I seriously doubt it, one way or another you will.

I was scared in the same way you're scared when you see a dangerous animal approaching you, but I wasn't afraid to die. @Loreena Does literally nothing when I think about it, couldn't care less

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Yeah, I also thoughts that monks who just meditate all day and do nothing really "productive", were egoistical. The thing is, liberation does not come from an external source, you need to want it for "yourself". It's all about vibration frequency, the more people get conscious, the more "good" it is done. The universe is a single white hole (sort of), so if something in it increase in consciousness, everything else does too. Now to get practical, you can directly affect people/animals with your positive vibration, just by being near them. Did you ever meet someone with a presence so high, that you were feeling good (or better) just being around them ? If you didn't, go talk to a zen master, and you'll understand this very quickly.

https://www.trinfinityacademy.com/courses/enlightenment-1-part-1-introduction-course/lesson-3-everything-has-presence/

No, it just means being mad about it is useless and counter-productive.

Must be amazing in spring/summer @Bebop I feel you, at "my" river, there is trash almost everywhere, fortunately, they are scattered enough to not totally waste the landscape.

Just close your eyes and focus on your breath, when you're very still, just focus on your own presence. If you start to think, focus on your breath again, then on your presence again. You don't necessarily need to focus on your breath, but if you're starting with meditation, I would suggest not to bypass this stage. If you see that you can't stay in the presence stage for more than 10 seconds, stay at the breathing stage. Silent mind meditation are extremely frustrating to "newbies", so unless you have some serious experience and stillness already, I wouldn't recommand it.

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Leo probably doesn't want that for the sole reason that It would mean less content in other sections of the forum, because people would spend time socializing on the "shitpost" section of the forum. The goal of this forum is to support self-actualization, not idle chat. We have to watch ourself, and not get too sloppy like I did recently that's all (and more mods, yes)

We need more mods yes, I rarely see one online. I vote for you :3 @Loreena I hope you're joking. EDIT: You're right, I've been kind of an ass lately, I admit it

Why every post I do turns into a shitpost, or a wildfox zen debate ? Plz staph I'm joking, it's fun I'm just concerned about Leo, these days there is a lot of shitpost on the forum, he probably doesn't like that, you know.

Today I was at the pet shelter, like always, and I saw a cute dark haired girl, smiling at me while I was searching for a dog. When I finished to prepare the dog, she was behind me, smiling, and quickly go somewhere else. When I came back, like 20 minutes after that, she was still there, at the other end of the pet shelter, she saw me, and 2 minutes later she was in front of the cage of the next dog I was gonna take care of. There was other person around that cage, because the dog was very hard to get, he was very scared. I didn't realize what was happening at that point, but like 2 minutes after, while I was already engaged in the walk, it hits me, SHE WANTS YOU TO TALK TO HER YOU DUMBFUCK !!! I could have hurry up and come back at the pet shelter, but I realized at that point, I'm not needy ! So I told myself, well, if she's still here after the walk, I'm gonna ask her out, if she's not, it's ok, there will be plenty of occasion sooner than I think (and the poor dog deserved a decent walk anyway). Unfortunately, she wasn't there anymore, OF COURSE ! ^^ Since I was in a good dynamic, I was wondering what could I do, hum what could I do, oh ok, asking the cute blonde that I saw smiling at me for 2 weeks. Already have a boyfriend Then I've gone to the library where there was this other cute girl, there was a lot of people at the checkout (she's a cashier), so I talked to a sub-cashier at the 1F, she told me she already have a boyfriend too ! We had a good laugh about it, I would have asked her, too, if she was like 5 years younger (she was like 30-35). That's gonna be way easier than I thought, it's just gonna be super weird, but that's kind of fun, so ... EDIT: So, two pieces of advices here. For guys: If a girl smiles at you, repeatedly, be very wary of what she's doing around you, and how she look at you the next time you saw her. For girls: Definitely smile, because unless you're a 11/10 and and an asshole just wants to destroy you ass, no decent (not desperate) guy will approach you, it just doesn't make sense, why would he ? Not only there is no clear indication that you could be interested, but we instantanly think that you're a bad and/or sad person. DOGE OUT !

Honey ? Don't you think that's a bit too fast ? I need to know you a little more ! @Annetta How do you know that ? Maybe I'm ugly as fuck :3 @Loreena Well I was just trying to be funny, but I guess I still a lot of work to do

All female doge, triggered :3 @Loreena

- Stop watching news/tv, these are just full of negativity informations, which will fill your mind with. - Stop facebook/twitter/instagram etc..., these websites are not only useless, but will make you less happy about your life, since you only see the happy parts of other lives.