Shin

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  1. Whether someone is enlightened or not isn't important. What someone enlighten in you is.
  2. No I just seemed interested into Self-inquiry/Self/observing myself again. EDIT: Thing is, I promised myself that I won't say it if they ever "reach" awakening/enlightenement, so you will never know for sure
  3. What about totally quitting an extreme addiction if you no longer judge yourself ?
  4. Don't think there is a "one", just people with whom you can connect more on a surface level. The "one" would mean there is only one person in the world with whom you could have a lasting relationship, which is stupid and limitative. @Beau Maybe the "one" is on this forum ...
  5. @Dingus is probably right here. If you're really addicted to something, really hard, stopping in one go is almost impossible for most people (they don't have the discipline required). If you're mildly addicted to it, and you just never took this addiction seriously, then you might want to stop in one go, it is feasible and quite easy with a bit of awareness (If I could do it, you can too ).
  6. Rupert Spira is pretty serious. Amazing teacher.
  7. It's like the new bible, without all the cryptic bullshit. For only 12$ you learn how to totally transform your life. Well, if you're not fucking closed-minded.
  8. I think it's obvious, but don't lay on the bed when you're tired, do it first thing when you come back from work. Not because I'm retarded that you should too @Loreena Then ask the cute guy you like at highschool
  9. There is no "best" anyway, just teachers that you have more affinity with, depending on your personality.
  10. Definitely want to awaken on the level of heart. If it takes longer, then so be it ! @Annetta Maybe we don't have a choice, maybe this is all about masculine/feminine energy in the end.
  11. It is relatively important. Whatever you want to do in life, you need a skill for it. Leo gives you insights on how to obtain these skills.
  12. Starting to experience stage 3, it is exactly like in a dream, everything seems to look at you ! This is amazing :3 EDIT: HOLY SHIT !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  13. This is how my mind see you right now: (It also wants to know the name of the substance you just take)
  14. You're judging because you need to separate yourself from others. If you judge other people, that automatically implies you do it to yourself too. It's not like you could decide to stop like that, but what you can do is watching your thoughts when you judge, and try to understand why you really judge. You'll find out that it's not because other people do things wrongs, but what you believe they should do. This is all in your head, even the most horrible things people do in life, there is no need to judge, it is already done, judging is pointless. I said judging, not acting, acting towards something is great, judging only leads to neurosis and pointless debates. Judging can be done totally neutrally (which is what we call awareness), and this is how you make real decisions in life, and how you make real and authentic connection to people. Might seem totally crazy to you right now, but this is exactly what it is : It's hard to remember that you have to do that at first, because you're caught in the judgments. What can help, is to do 5 minutes affirmations everyday "I will observe my judgments", preferably in the morning.
  15. This so much. Emotions are the key to transcend, if you don't face them, there is no way you could ever be at peace and grow in your life (at least not in the right direction). You probably can have an awakening without facing your emotions, but realizing your enlightenment ? No chance in hell.
  16. You can be around people, it's just extremely hard at first Humans are wonderful when you look at them without any labels, so much life in them, so much depth. No wonder why relationships are so much valued, it is just so amazing to just look at your partner in the eyes without any thoughts (it's kind of sad that most people "lost" this after the first few weeks)
  17. http://mailchi.mp/bentinhomassaro/2-days-left-until-sedonas-eternal-bliss-live-stream-register-now-1190065 If someone pay for this, could you describe what are the steps of the meditation ? I have like 0 money in the bank that I can use for it right now
  18. I was joking you know You must ha very good soul to write all that though
  19. Ok bro, just tell yourself to take me with you, I asked 876 times in the last 30 minutes, the fucker doesn't wants to show me.
  20. He means that if you judge other people, you also judge yourself. Which brings suffering to you, in both cases.
  21. It only make you suffer cause it was hidden. It only stays painful cause you're denying it. It only goes if you face it.