Shin

Then you're talking about a relative lifestyle you created, not about realizing what's true.

In the relative world, and only if you create a duality from your egotic human mind.

But those are also mental games, wishful thinking and beliefs you are saying, they are just more depressing

Nothing is anthetical to spirituality.

Stop assuming God is something else than you. That will make all this mumbo jumbo of trying to get it way less confusing.

It does matter, cause as long as you believe there is something outside you that is doing something to you, how could you possibly be open to the realization that there isn't anything else than you ? Maybe that's your kick, to believe that, in that case have fun, but maybe you're bullshitting yourself (well you do anyway )

Forced by who ?

You're writting a message on a forum, so you're playing. I'm playing cause I believe there is a human writting behind a screen somewhere that I'm replying to.

Guys who want enlightenment to figure out all their problems are like the dudes who wants an easy mod on Sekiro. You're missing out on life, PLAY IT instead of wanting a fucking cheat code

Loving God with your mind Failing to love & worship God with all your heart It's on point

The forum those past few days :

Why ? Because it "feels" true ? How about the thousands of dreams you had ? They felt true too, untill you woke up

That may be true, but that may be a lie. Maybe she only uses you as an emotional crutch to feel validated while not being attracted to you at all. In any case, you seem too attached to her and she seems to have issues, you'd be better off to let her be for a long while, there are other girls in the world

Why would it be bad to feel lust ? Why would it be bad to watch other people having sex ? If you truly want to transcend, don't put labels like lower or unhealthy or bad etc. You're not gonna transcend anything if you put everything you feel aren't for you into those categories, that's the opposite you're doing actually.

Spending that much time with a woman + her letting herself be alone in an appartment with you + the fact that you didn't take advantage of it for having sex = Her feeling you have zero confidence (equivalent of physical beauty for you).

That troll face

That depends. For someone in his teens, ejaculating every day, not really a problem. For someone in his 30's, ejaculating everyday feels like you've been drown of all your energy for a good day (at least for me). Also depends of how your body is producing semen, some men produce it faster than others, and also some men feel the lack of it way less (or more). So it depends of your age and biology for the frequency, and it also depends if you're addict or not to porn, which is definitely fucking you up if you are. That's a highly relative subject, and only you know if it's good for you or not to fap/watch porn or not. Don't listen to people that says it's all good, no problem at all with it, or the reverse, it's definitely a problem, you should never do it. That's dogmatic thinking and it isn't taking into account anything other than just their personal experience (at best).

Because otherwise people will worship it like a saint. It's a failsafe, he must be a dick for your sake !

Check your girflriend's messages. Just a precaution.

Well at least most of them don't have to work or be sex slave, so they have it way better than human slaves.

We're te only species capable of being infinitely dumb, and infinitely smart. That shows something

That doesn't sound like spiritual bypassing, At all.

Did you have sex ?

Maybe you're too evolved and can't see the difference (no joke)

It's a different kind of flavor of dogmatism. Blue dogmas are 100% beliefs you have to obey about a book or laws (sometimes without any logic whatsoever), Orange dogmas have practical utilities (science), so it believes that since the method works, it must be 100% bulletproof and true.